
kitkat
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you should tell her how you feel b/c if she really does love you then she would stop for you. seriouly she would that could find out if she really loves you. dont go to heard on her but let her think about it. just keep getting in her head that its bad. |
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Just My Opinion
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I think it is time for you to get mad and get out fast while you still can...if you care for her try to get her into teen challenge you can find them on the web and they are nation wide they have an outstanding success rate... |
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CheerMom
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You can't change anyone. If you can't love her with this problem, then you need to leave her to it. Nothing you can do will make her stop. She may someday stop on her own or she might drink herself to death, either way you can't fix it. You're better off stepping away and finding someone with issues you can learn to love. |
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mandaaabear
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you cant change her drinking problems, but you can change the cheating.keep your eye on her at all times. dont make her feel like your a "stalker boyfriend' but let her know that you care about her health, and i think that if she cheats again because she's drunk, then she's not too worth it! |
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natalyajackson
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look in your local phonebook for al-anon, they can support you through this difficult time. nobody can make her stop unless she wants to. when she's ready to stop, suggest aa. |
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paszionone@sbcglobal.net
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you have to do what is in your heart but you have to be smart and sometimes breaking up with that person is the best thing you can do , look at it this way if you love let her go, because she needs to grow up and sometimes people are weak and they never do grow upand you cant stay forever until she does it again over over hurting you and basically adding to the destruction. she needs help if you love tell her family what is going on she needs treatment for chemical dependancy and also therapy period if she thinks that this is a game and shes being cute she isnt , she is hurting the one whomloves her and that is wrong , i dont thik she even loves herself because looka t what she is putting herself and you thru. i really hope you do what is best for yourself first that way you really can help the girl..and about not wanting to get help she must get this thing out of her life once and for all. life isnt a game and when she wakes up and realizes it i just hope it isnt too late.. |
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sweet
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take her slowly to a counselling, go with her for a long pleasant journey, listento her. You need to understand her. immediately you cannot,but still. |
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mclouf89
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dump her |
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Josh
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run away run away.... or get wasted with her |
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chuchambo
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easy... dump her.. u dun deserve her... mate!!! |
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