spockofvullcan
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Marry him first. Marrying him requires him to make a commitment to you and the new baby. Also realize that since he already has a baby that he will never give your new baby all the attention he could because of the kid in another family. So basically, marry him, or move on. |
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sarch_uk
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You need to grow up for one thing...
Who is going to be left holding the baby if you do have one....? |
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Annoying American
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Run away...run far, far away. Nothing good can come of this. |
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dicksonsophie
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if you dont want a child dont do it! its a long life commitment and i should know. the thing is it was me that wanted a child. so if you dont just say no! hes not with the mother of his child now so whats to say hes going to stay with you! do you want to be a single parent????? |
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lucswa
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girl that is just some f*cked up sh*t going down. my opinion NO!!! but that is actually your decision. have you ever the rhyme "10 minutes of pleasure, NINE months of pain". have a baby is a very big decision and you might just destroy your whole social life and even cause feud between the families, only if you know that you wont brake up, have a stable job and is on the verge of getting married. really think about it we cant make the decision its all up to you |
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nick
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wait until you'r marrid. and make sure he is the right one.do't be the second baby mother. |
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Stewie Griffin
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You Need Lessons? |
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thylen2001
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lord thylen says: tell him to make shure your the right one or he has another kid running around for no reason |
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answerperson
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If you have to go to the internet to look for answers to that question (THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE!) Then the answer is get one some birth control, for your future childs sake, your sake, and your bf's sake.
Grow up a bit and figure out who you are more! When the time is right you won't have to wonder because your heart will be aching for a child. |
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suzzycarter
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well if you love him and you know it can work then why not you never know you might be a natural |
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pduff
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Tell him if he loves you enough to want to have a child with you than he loves you enough to marry you. Also, make sure he takes care of the child he has already. Because if he doesn't then he won't take care of yours either. |
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