Imaka
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If you have to ask this question here I think you know the answer. Sounds like you need to rethink things, finish your education, and take your time about decisions like marraige. Have you heard the saying, "Marry in haste, repent at leisure"? |
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serf
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You should not marry him or continue to be his girlfriend. |
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TittieTwister
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ccccc..... Dont even ask. If u ask us u allready know answer. |
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B0FF0
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Oh, please don't marry him. I am and always have been the only one in my husband's life and we have been happily married for 28 years this month, and I hate to see someone tolerate unfaithfulness...with a child involved, you will never be #1. Please think carefully what you are doing. If he really loves you, he will stick around for you to think it through...also consider finances. At your age it would be unfortunate to jump right into a life of worry and hardship. Good luck to you whatever you do! |
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neen2701
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once a cheater always a cheater! i wouldn't. you deserve better than that! |
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iris
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no...if he's cheated once, he might do it again...it will be more painful if he cheats when you are married and have brought children into the equation! |
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high fashion chic
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why r u askin this , listen to your heart or pray about it dont ask strangers |
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abel007ab
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no |
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oneontaw
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Before you marry you need to get some serious pre-marriage counseling. This guy has already proved himself to be unfaithful and I'm sure that you have trust issues with him. Alright now, with that said why on earth would you want to get married at 18? My daughter is 18 and she is in college and she is experiencing one of the best times of her life. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you so why jump into something as serious as marriage. If your boyfriend truly loves you and is sorry for the hurt he caused you-he will wait until you BOTH are mature enough to handle the pressures of married life. |
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Annie79513
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To tell you the truth if he has cheated on you and got the girl pregnant i wouldn't marry him at all because if you do he will do it again and again he will say i will never do it again i promise but its a lie they all do it again so if where you i wouldn't marry him i would dump him right away dont make a mistake cause if you do when you get married and your with him for a while its all gonna go down hill then he will leave you. |
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Monica
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its up to you, if you know you can trust him and you want to spend your life with him go for it |
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ladders_to_fire
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If you have to ask someone else, then you have doubts
-and you should not step into marriage
if you're not absolutely sure it's what you want.
Don't agree yet. At the very least you need
to sort out the other girl and the baby.
He's going to be paying child support,
and that extra money stress could make your relationship
difficult if you wed now.
I say tell him 'ask me again in a year',
then you'll have more info on how serious he is,
you'll know what the deal is with the other girl
and how much responsibiliy he is going to take, etc.
Worst case scenario - I can see a guy wanting to get
hitched fast so he won't be pressured into marrying the mother of his child. And I can see him wanting your help paying the child support.
Not saying this is your man, people make honest mistakes,
but I say wait and make him show his hand. If he treats the mother badly or pushes you to be his excuse, you'll know he isn't to be trusted to be responsible for his own actions. |
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roberto_rosado1
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you have to be sure that he loves you and that you love him, don't ask questions like this here, this is serious stuff, get your mom's advice |
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abbastanza
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say no |
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The departed
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Good idea to ask us this important decision of your life, as a matter of fact i dont think you care of what we say cause in the end its your choice, now if you are asking this is because you have doubt, and when that happens things aint gonna work honey, besides you both are still young whats the hurry, cant you wait a year or two and see how thinks work? For god sakes you are just 18, theres a lot of things to do before getting married, and he is 21 hes just a kid, no of fence but he cant provide you with everything a family need, I'm not talking just about money but emotional support and all that s.hit, so tell him to wait damn it, if he loves you he will, whats his hurry, and talk things with him, that thing about cheating talk it, i know it s u c ks, but hey do you want to marry him and live the rest of your life thinking "is he cheating me again?" i know a man can change but you better be sure he has before to choose to marry hi or not |
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Willie
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No way. |
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kar2988
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I guess not cos u r so doubtful. |
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bala_manyake
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don't marry him he sounds evil!!!!!!! marry me.. wil u? |
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thesunnshynne
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only you can answer that. Once a cheater always a cheater. You are going to do what you want anyway. I say dump the loser and move on cuz you will always have that in the back of your mind. Cheating is not love. |
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porsche_collector
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noooooooooooooo |
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blue_moon_rapture
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If you have to ask yourdelf this question then you shouldn't. If you really love him and forgave him then marry him. It's really up to you. Plus you have to consiter that this other woman is going to be in your live forever. But just don't get pregnant by him and plus you are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. |
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Casey
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If you have to ask this question, it means you should definatley not. No big rush for that magic peice of paper, love is love without it or not. Just wait until you know for sure. |
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emme515
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No you should not get married. You are too young to get married, and there are issues you and he have to work on. If he really loves you and is the one for you he will wait. He needs to win back your trust and that takes time. You need to realize that if you do marry him you will have to deal with that other woman and his child (are you ready to be a stepmom?)!! The fact is you are both too young and you both have a lot of growing to do before you get married, and right now he needs to learn to be a father to the child he made!From now on you should turn to God and your family for these types of questions don't go to strangers. |
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