starryslvr
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If he won't talk to you then I would just write him a letter. If he still doesn't talk to you then you did your part by letting him know. Word of serious advice though.. As soon as your baby is born go to a court and get full custody. My sons father didn't want my baby either but just out of the blue 7 years later he came around and then I had to tell my son about him. After awhile I let him have a visitation and he never brought him back. Police wouldn't help me because he was the father. I had to go to court and get custody which took awhile. He kept my son from me for weeks. I never wouldve thought about going to court right after my son was born because the father wasnt around at all. I was young and very naive. In case this guy decides he wants to see this baby then becareful because he can and not bring the baby back so get all the paperwork in order asap. |
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pamela-burnett@sbcglobal.net
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Sounds like your ex isn't much of a man, not wanting to take any kind of responsibility. You should have told him up front that you were not going to get an abortion until he paid his half. I admire you for trying to make him be
responsible but unfortunately the only one who can begin to do that now is the judge. I'm glad you have support form your new boyfiriend and your family, this is a bit much for anyone to handle alone. |
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delliam
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personally i dont know w hy u care if he talks to you. if he couldnt be a stand up man, and take care of the baby ( I assume the abortion is his idea),and even if it wasnt he should have had more respect and gave the cash up asap,b4the abortion. he dont want the baby, hes gonna quit F*!@ing with you and the baby, and he sounds like a sorry *** male... oh yeah call maury because i dont think ur gonna get any support... if u had the abortion i bet he wouldnt be there to support u thru it and support u thru the emotional trauma either. next he'll prob want u to give the baby to adoption.... my advice__TO HELL WITH HIM MOVE ON |
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Sass Say
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I think he will be able to tell you are still preg by the belly you are soon to have, until then just take care of yourself so that you will have a healthy baby and forget about him |
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AmBer
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if i read that right he is ignoring you. so what does it matter if he knows or now. and the way i see it if you wanna keep the baby you should keep it. tell him to go to hell |
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preciouss_angels_press
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you and him go to your doctor and let the doctor show him. |
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Dani
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You just need to confront him and tell him.
But are you really ready for a baby? |
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BellyBean
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Go to the Doctor, ask them for documentation of pregnancy and show it to your ex.
If he still doesn't believe you wait until the baby is born and take him to court for a paternity test and child support. |
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butterflyfrills
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if you deside not to keep your baby and want to have an open adoption call me or email me butterflyfrills at yahoo.
i would just write him a letter because he does not want to hear you |
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Matt
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Children play head-games! Be an adult and realize this is serious stuff! Stand-up! Be strong girl! Use every option you have to raise that child. |
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Nathan
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If you have the baby, then he is legally responsible to provide financial help to you.
If he just ignores you, then you should contact the Child Support Agency or similar institution who can help you. |
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ouisy_01
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So if he was going to give you the money "eventually" then you didn't know how long it would actually take before he paid you. Meanwhile you're baby is still growing inside of you. Either you wanted an abortion or you did not. You could have found money from somewhere else if you did not want this baby. Since you are going to have the baby, you won't have to tell him you are still pregnant - if he is not blind he will see that you are still having the baby. |
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shot0521
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It is a bit alarming that you think the main reason not to get an abortion is due to the money! That is PROOF that you are not ready to be a parent. Do yourself and your child a HUGE favor and give the baby up for adoption. As an adoptive parent myself, I can tell you that you will be creating a miracle for someone like me. Do not punish your baby because you made a mistake! |
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tinkerbell06
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I know exactly how you feel. That is what happened between me and my ex-husband. The first thing that i did is sat down and asked myself if I was really ready for a child. Then you need to ask yourself if your ex- boyfriend is goping to be there to help you or are you going to be taking care of the child by yourself? well, after I thought about those questions I decided that no matter if I had to take care of the baby myself or I was going to have help I was going to take care of the child that was inside of me and now I have a beautiful baby boy who just turned 1 in november. So if I were you I would stop and ask yourself those questions and then ask him the same. |
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reddog
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Why would u want 2? He didnt want the baby then he still dont. Why do u want your baby? Not enough $ for an abortion isnt much of one. Put it up for adoption the day it is born u suck. |
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