deedee
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I met my father when I was 25. Even though you have not had a relationship with him, visit him. Everything may not have been his fault. If he dies, and you do not visit him, you will have to live with yourself. Take a chance. Whatever the reasons were, you should forgive. God does. It will hurt you more than your father. |
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asmikeocsit
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I'm a Father of a son whose mother left when he was4yrs.old. She stayed hidden from me till he turned 18 then she let him contact me. She knew my sister would have my phone#.He came to visit my wife and I for Xmas 1985 for 10 days.When he got on plane to fly home Jan.4Th 1986 I told him, to call me collect and let me know he got there safely.He didn't call so after 5 days I called ask why he didn't call.he said because he didn't know what to say to me and I would hear from him when he figured that out.
I haven't heard since,hence I have no relatioship with my son.
So I have to say if I was sick and dying I wouldn't want to see him and renew that old pain to have to deal with also.
I hope this helps you. |
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shojo
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Just be with him. Spend what time you can with him and have no regrets. |
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mks 7-15-02
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Try To Be There. |
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coxfranklin
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Life does not got to be as hard as we make it (sometimes). I believe we are all born with the innate ability to know the difference between right & wrong and that you will do the right thing as you understand it to be. we are a product of our own decissions. think.... |
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curious_Dalton
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If you're bitter he wasn't in your life more, forgive him. Go and see and talk with him, if u can ,in his last days. Let the last words from u, before he passes, be ,"I love you Dad." |
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simply_renee
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Be there for him if he wants you to be. It would probably give him a lot of peace, and you'll never get to do it again. |
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spamfighter613
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It's not easy to make up for all the lost years in a short time, but try. Spend as much time with him as you can before you lose him forever. |
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cecielscott
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You will need to do what is comfortable for YOU. ...If it feels natural for you to be there for him now, then you can do that. ...If it does NOT feel natural for you to try to be there for him now, then DON'T do it. ...(Some people may try to tell you to be there for him regardless. ..I, however, think you should not force yourself to be there for someone who was not there for you as you were growing up.) |
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venkinatson
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its up to you, but i would suggest you to be there with him. |
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DC Girl
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Pray for him and be there for him. He's your blood and whether you realize it or not and even though you met him later in life, there is probably love between the two of you -- the love between a parent and child. |
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Stewie Griffin
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Take him to the hospital this isn't 911 |
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GordoBGoode
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No matter the circumstances, he loves you more than you could possibly imagine. Spend every moment you can with him and just be there for him as he goes. It's better to do that than to regret not doing it later. |
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Inquisitive1
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You'll never regret showing kindness, but you'll almost always regret bitterness, revenge, and doing things out of anger. Be there for him. Be there for yourself. You'll be glad you did later. |
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sonaii123
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well, what can u do,be there for him, show him what kind of commpassion u have, even though he wasnt around u turned out ok |
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spudguy_on_gaming
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Piss in his face before he dies |
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vampiredunfield
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Laugh |
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