Jerry
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First "HAPPY ANNIVERSARY" Now to try to answer your question. I read alot of good answers. I want to go one or two steps futher. Keep in mind that there is alot that can happen. Alot of them already mention. Devorce, lets hope not. Blackmail, lets hope not, children one day, lets hope so, but lets hope they don't run across the movie. Suppose some one breaks into you house and steals the tape among other things, what might happen then? His motives may be good, but not in YOUR best instrest or his for that matter.
I don't know the best way to tell him no but as a woman I am sure you will do alright. Tell him he has a good memory and if he wants to see the two of you in action, get a good size mirror and watch as the action takes place and then remember what he saw. That way its recorded in his mind and not on a tape that may well come back to haunt you one day. Good Luck. |
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Beefsteak
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Do whatever your husband says, that's your job as wife. |
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jadednihilist
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That would scare the crap out of me! What if you go out of town and someone is house-sitting and finds it? Way too risky if you ask me!
Sex is too private for me to be comfy with that situation.
Good Luck! |
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c_wag03
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I guess it depends on how much you trust him not to make copies or show it to anyone else or anything... |
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irule
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do it send me a copy to review it |
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landoflookbehind
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What if u guys split up?then u'll have a tape out there. |
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Karma Eve
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Just keep in mind, if you 2 ever get a divorce he may make copies and give to family/friends or post on the internet. I would put serious thought into that before acting on it. Think of your future and if you have children. Good luck. |
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Miss D
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If you're kind of an exhibitionist, it could be fun. As long as you trust him completely, I don't see a problem with it.
But don't do it just because he wants you to.
If you're uncomfortable or feel weird about it for any reason, follow your instincts and don't do it. |
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nnnabercrombie
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If you want to keep him from cheating on you for absolute certain (almost anyway), then this might work for you guys. Just make sure you have it in a safe place and all that jazz. If you do, you ought to be fine, unless you become famous and someone breaks in... |
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ahamaycud11
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Men have this thing where they are turned through seeing things. I think it may be a bad idea because you never know who might see it and lead to an embarassing situation.
What does your husband want to do with the video? Watch it by himself? Why? I don't see the reasoning behind this unless he wants to pleasure himself, which may get you off the hook sometimes, but it is still an odd request. |
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kurtmohr
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he is looking at porn, that what put the idea in his head tell him, no. your kids might find it. |
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AliBaba
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its your hubby, why not? he wont share it |
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blueonline
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NNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO00000000000000000000... |
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DramaGuy
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If you are leary of this there is probably a reason to say no. On the other hand, if you do it and stay together it might add to your sex life in later years to remind yourselves how attractive you are now. Listen to your heart and don't do anything you don't want to do. |
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Anyway.....
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Why not? It would be kinda fun and kinky, just make sure to keep the tape in a safe place |
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Serving Jesus
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I would ease into it and see if you are confortable with it. Make a video and watch it together a couple of hours later, and then erase it. Maybe do this a few times. Let yourself decide if it is something you can be comfortable with or not. |
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kcchris42
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yes, it may enhance your sexual experience as well as it does his. :) |
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dezae12
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you should not because some one can get hold of it |
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Jarrod
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it's like i always say, I won't record the birth just the conception. |
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LLV5
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Don't be shy, all couples have sex, and is great that your husband wants to record him having sex with YOU¡¡¡¡ and that he find you sexy. Trust and enjoy¡¡¡ |
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later
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as long as you keep the tape. |
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Horselover27
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NNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO |
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big daddy
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nooooooo
tell him why u whant a movie if u have the oregnal ;) |
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ALSARMADY
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no |
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Off to Hawaii
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I would tell him that why record it when you can have the real thing how often are you really gone?! |
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Sheila
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I have one word for that....
EEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!...
Whats the point?! |
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GK
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Honestly, he'll use it to yank the snake when you aren't around. Nothing quite like free porn. And if the relationship goes sour or he just feels the need to impress someone, he'll show it to his friends or random people.
Just say that you aren't comfortable with it and that you won't do it. |
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omstokes
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I am guessing you are not famous like Pam/Tommy or Paris Hilton. He is your husband! You trusted him enough to marry him, why shouldn't you trust him on this as well. I have made several home videos with my husband. I find them quite erotic & enjoy watching them with him. However if you are definitely uncomfortable, & not just leary, don't do it. Explain to your husband how you feel he should understand. |
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♦Diams♦
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BIG NO NO!! |
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iamososexy
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do it the nexy time you have sex and secertly record it and for v-day give it to him as a present!!! |
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guru
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Do not record anything that you are not willing to have others view. Someday, somewhere, someone else, apart from you and your husband, will see that tape. |
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