
doinotlive
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Hopefully, it's because you've both moved on from that stage of your relationship, and have begun a more advanced understandaing of one another, far more intimate than sex, in which you truly understand how the other thinks, and you can hold a decent conversation. I always found that the sexual aspect of a relationship detracted from that.
So, to answer you question simply: Why has your sex life died? So that you can become closer, and true man and wife. |
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Rava K...salsa khalsa
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so has my parents...only 16yrs...
not that i'd know, but i'm positive... |
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OSAMA W. BUSH
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MEN NEED A VARIETY OF WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES.
I LIKE STEAK, BUT I WOULDN'T WANT TO EAT IT EVERY NIGHT FOR 19 YEARS. |
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pinkstealth
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Sex is highly over-rated. |
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lala
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because you are too young to have it, so your wife decided to divorce. |
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Tango55
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Make a point to create time for the two of you alone. Do you rememberr your dating days. Try again, it may work. Of course it takes two to tango. |
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kaco_32456
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well lol if you wont the scientific deffiniton it is b/c of your age when you married your body!! had a lot of ADERINALEN in it (chases the body to increas heart rate bla bla.... which in other words increases proformance) and as you get older your body loses the ability to produce the aderinalen as effectively as it used to ^^ |
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Hippie
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Too busy to "be in love" like you were when you were dating.
Life gets in the way.
It's like my professor says, "if it is important enough to you, nothing can stand in your way." Remove all obstacles and make time for each other, and your sex life. |
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wccbright
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Sex sometimes dies off. The best way to bring the spark back is to start planning nights to have sex. Once it's brought back into your relationship, it will come more often then planned. |
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skyegirl123
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The Princess
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Your tired of doing the same thing all the times. Try something new. Be spontaneous. |
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baby angel!
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There's no getting around it; sex is a vital part of most marriages. So what happens when one or more parties lose interest -- or never had it to begin with? Research says these unions are more likely to fail. (After money, sex is the number one reason couples divorce.) But it doesn't have to get that far. In her book The Sex-Starved Marriage, Michele Weiner Davis suggests three strategies for improving your sex life and preserving your relationship.
3 Strategies to Revive Your Sex Life
*The Do-It-Yourself Solution
*Variety Is the Spice of Life
*If All Else Fails, Be Brutally Honest |
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Pobre_Diabla
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ur tired of him or his tired of u |
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Butterfly love
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Apparently the both of you have gotten tired of one another and you need to find new interesting tactics to get one another excited again. Exercise is a big help.Look good for one another, Don't be a slouch with your clothing.Do something fun to make you feel good about yourself, get a tan, cut your hair or change the color, lose weight,be kinky. Depending how old your husband is, thier are medicines to help men (viagora)or a herbally raw garlic & oysters- yes it stinks but it has been known to make a mans testosterone go up...Get out of your habits and change your life style. Pray about it....Good Luck! |
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hairyhairychinchin
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Too boring. Humans are creatures of routine. |
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nikiforosfokas
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Lose some pounts of weight and try again |
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Kiss my Putt!
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probably natural aging decrease in lobido...you know there are Rx's for men & women for that now. good luck |
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xjstewart
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it happens. spice it up with new toys, positions, imagination |
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ngsngsngs
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j2hdman
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things have become to ordinary. you need to put some FREAK in your marriage. trust me get kinky try something new. I got 16 year in my marriage , we got our freak on , and sex is better than ever. |
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ostramd69
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It could be because you have a boring sexual relationship. If you can get it up and you can both ***, there is no reason why you cannot have an excellent sex life. Try different positions. Take pictures of each other. Spice it up! Oral sex is always good. |
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kingwood goddess
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change up your sex life, make it more desireable. try new positions or use pleasurable toys. ask one another what the other one likes and how the other one likes it. sex is about both partners, don't be controlling, go with the mood. |
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lawn man
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maybe u should try something different in bed.or do somewhere else all together. |
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