Fall Down Laughing
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Be thankful you have a mother who cares about you enough to do this and to take the time required to do this. Many kids have parents who are too busy or self-absorbed to worry about their children and take the time required to raise them. |
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Get yo young @ss into treatment, before they throw you in there. Give it up girlie, it's a dead end street, and besides, you will have plenty of time to do nothing with your life AFTER you move out of HER house, living by HER rules!!! |
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§hortι's
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how bout keepin it on you at all times |
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Psychology
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It depends on the "stuff" that you're hiding. I believe every child/teenager is entitled to his/her own privacy, but when safety is concerned, sometimes it's necessary. If your mother has doubts about your behavior, it's probably best that you both sit down and talk about it, rather than her having to sneakily search your room. |
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person
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hide your stuff really good or just stop doing whatever it is you dont want your mama to know...long as she pays the bills she can go into any room she likes... |
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help me
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WHY would your mom have reason to be searching your room in the first place. Sounds to me like you and your mom need to build a more trusting relationship. |
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hopefulmom
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Well seeing that you asked about drug use in a previous question, is it any wonder that your mom searches your room all the time? Why are you trying to self-medicate anyway? If you are possibly bi-polar, why don't you get up the courage to ask for help rather than skulking around trying to hide stuff? Help yourself first by asking your mom for help. It's pretty obvious- SHE LOVES YOU! |
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andy
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lots of stuff or small stuff? big stuff / kilos is best buried somewhere safe. army ammo containers are pretty handy and available at surplus stores.
small stuff-if youre real careful, you can unscrew a lightswitch and put stuff behind and just screw back on. otherwise carefully lift a floorboard, not by the door. or if you have a garage put it in there ???
buy a digital safe, bolt it to the floor. not so good if the feds turn up. |
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nanlwart
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God Bless your Mom, she cares about you and wants you to make it to adult-hood without ruining your life.
If you have to hide it, then ask yourself why you are doing it, or having it (sounds like it must be drugs to me).
Before you take the advice to just move out, you might consider what your Mom does for you such as cooking, cleaning, laundry, paying bills, paying for the phone, going to work, driving you where-ever you want to go. My bet is you are better off sitting down and talking to her--or--here's a concept--earning her trust!!! |
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michaeljpmurray
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Maybe your Mom would stop snooping if you would stop coming into the house smelling like weed, with your eyes hanging out of your head and shitty grades in school! |
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Trey45
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MOVE! If you don't like her rules, move the hell out of her house. |
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jedimaster_46545
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glad you have a mom that not only cares what you are doing but is obviously smarter than you are. |
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dpacman
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Well, first of all, you shouldn't hide things. Deal with people honestly. If you need a good hiding spot, try removing the vent cover for you heater and put it in there. You can usually put it back far enough in the vent to hide it from casual searching. |
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badotisthecat
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find a better place to hide your stash. |
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lil baby
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well under your bed there is this little thing that covers the wood parts in the bottom rip a small hole out and stuff things there and if you want ry to take some stuff that is to private and take it to your locker if that don't work then try to hide it in the base ment or out side in a bag in the bushes that's all i have hope you can find something because it really is hard to stop so i don't blame you byyyye..................... |
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ChicagoParty5420
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Do you have any pictures hanging on your wall? Put your **** behind there. |
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born to be wild.
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maybe hide it outside of your room. What about dresser drawer, like behind them. |
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Kiss my Putt!
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if u don't have anything to hide, you shouldn't have anything to worry about |
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luv_em_beastwartoys
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Well you should hide your stash and bags of weed, but of course if you don't have that then don't even worry about, you should be happy for it infact. |
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Dr. Mojo
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hey monkey,relax I can help. but first,the ceiling fan and the alarm clock? COME ON NOW! that`s the oldest trick in the book! Here is what you should do: you go to the local police station and tell them that you want to rent a safe deposit box to hide all your "stuff". remember to take all your stuff with you so they know what size box to give you.They will be happy to help! GOOD LUCK to you and your Mom!---------------------------MOJO |
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emmiepips
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Well i would remove all "suspect" items from the room/ house, but then place some carefully written notes in the places she looks, saying things like "I'm sad the bond of trust between us has been broken", "Can't we talk about things openly", "I know you care, but what you are doing is huring me".
Hopefully you will either shame her into stopping looking, or she will come to you and hopefully you will be big enough to have a really good talk with her about the things she is worried about, re-establish the boundaries of your relationship and you can say what is bugging you and why... |
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Fairy Codswallop
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umm hide it in your brother/sisters room (if u have one). Or get yourself a box with a padlock on it. |
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Styloroc
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You cant hide stuff in her house. She will find it by instict. It is her house.
You need to move!!
Try to prove her that the reason that you move is not because of that. |
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Gracie
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doesn't matter if it's hard to stop, you should still. she's obviously just trying to protect you. don't hurt her over this. |
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Ethelred lord of Hell
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if u need to hide then ask your self is it worth it as a trusting relationship w a parent is so priceless |
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Humble
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Don't hide anything.so nothing will be found at that time. |
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mcaesartrinovaz
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Buy some metal cashbox and dig in your floor and keep it hide over seeing ur mom. if not success hire some security person to kee'in ur stuff...lol |
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Maveric
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if u have a chest of draws, pull out the bottom draw and u can stick ur stash underneath, ive used that hiding place for years. Alternatively u can tell ur mum not to search around ur room as its an invasion of ur privacy |
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shroomhead93
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If u have a closet find a box and stuff it in there |
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Anon_Girl
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rip open one of your teddy bears, stuff it in there, and sew it back up |
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Fenris
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If she searches your room, hide it elsewhere, like maybe the garage or (*gasp*) your mom's room! Better yet, if you're on a ground floor with good windows, you might hide it outside. Of course, best of all is to hide it at a friends place and let them deal with it, you just have to stay on good terms with said friend. |
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Marina
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You don't say how old are you. If you are an adolescent, your mother worries of possible dangers. These might be drugs, weapons, bad company. It won't help the situation your trying to hide things. On the contrary this "hide & seek" game will trigger more anxiety from her part. I would suggest to talk it over with her.
Tell her, without shouting, about your problems of her sneaking about, explain you are a serious kid, you need your privacy and listen to what she says.Try to assure her she worries for no reason. Don't hide things, leave them as they are..and talk together. Soon you'll see things to improve.
If you are over 18 and your mother keeps fiddling with your stuff, I would suggest to move out. Even then, you can still to the matter over to her and perhaps together find the best of solutions.
If nothing of these works it would be clever to consult a psychologist who will show you way to get over the situation
Good luck |
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