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fzswetiepie | My parent just got a divorce and i think it is my fault and i always try to get them back together mymom yells |
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desperatehw
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It is not your fault. It is never the child's fault,never. You have to believe that. I am divorced for many years now, and I know what I am talking about, here. Your mom yells because she feels a lot of stress and sadness, and she needs time to get used to what all happened. But you won't be able to get them back together because you didn't break them up. They are the adults, everything that happened THEY did it--not you.
Just love them both. Tell them both how much you love them, and that you will always love them no matter that they don't love each other any more. Then you love yourself too. You sound like a real sweet, good kid. I wish I could help.
God bless you little one.
(joelejr is just being a dork. and bookreader doesn't understand, it is not the child, it is the adult who ends the adult relationship) |
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jkidd
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Its not your fault! You can't control your parents actions! so don't worry too much about the whole situation. Don't try to get them back togethter its up to them to do that. good luck! |
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manda082
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It is NOT your fault. I was 5 when my parents divorced, but I remember it - my little sisters don't. A divorce just means your parents made a mistake in getting married and weren't the people they thought they were. It is by no means your fault. If you're younger [8th grade or younger], try staying at a friend's house more often; if you're in high school, talk to a counselor or your friends who have been through the same thing; and if you're out of high school, try to spend time away from home. This will help you get your thoughts cleared up and give your parents time to figure out what they need to.
Your mom yells probably because she doesn't know if she was right to divorce [who I'm assuming] is your father. Believe me, a lot of things go through parents' minds during a divorce.
Please don't think any of it is your fault. Just be careful when you start dating [if you haven't already], because you might have trust issues. [I did, and still do, even though my parents divorced 11 years ago.] And please don't let your parents bad-talk each other to you [example: if you're with one of your parents, but they keep saying bad things about the other] or your siblings [if you have any]. Believe me, I know it hurts right now but it does get better.
email me if you want to talk.
manda082@yahoo.com |
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gina
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how could it be your fault? They are adults and make their own choices. If they want to get back together they will. Remember "its better to come from a broken home than to live in one" be happy |
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Maverick
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all the above ! NOT your fault ! ! |
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joelejr
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its your fault and theres nothing you can do |
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bob_callahan
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The divorce is not your fault. You were an innocent bystander. Don't try to get them back together, they are apart for a good reason. If your mom still yells, ask a teacher or priest to help you help your mom. |
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KA
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It is definitely not your fault!! Don't go there. they weren't happy or they'd be together. |
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jesom
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it aint your fault do not ever believe that i am sure both your parents luv you and if you told them how you feel they would tell you the same it is not your fault |
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Kiss my Putt!
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Mine got divorced when I was in my early teens....believe me it's NOT your fault. You need to let them go on with their lives....obviously they had become unhappy with each other [irregardless of you]....When you grow up you'll come to understand this & I know it's hard right now, but the very worse thing you can do is try to get them back together. They were unhappy before...if you'll just let them move on with their lives, they might just be able to find happiness once again...if you really love them, let them pursue happiness, & realize it wasn't about you at all. |
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notgnal
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it is definitely NOT your fault---more than half marriages end in divorce |
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luckyduckytwo
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Don't ever think that you caused it. Marriage is difficult. There could be a number of things that caused your parents to divorce - such as growing apart.
Don't blame yourself, because they would never want to hurt you. You are probably too young to understand all of the things that go on in a marraige, and as you grow older you will learn what it takes to be in a relationship.
Talk to your Mom, she would probably like to talk with you. You will just have to adjust to this and it will take time... so let time help heal your feelings. But in the mean time, understand that it wasn't you and they are just not able to be married... but that doesn't mean that they don't love you together. |
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Smiles
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Whatever reason you believe it is your fault, let me tell you its not the reason. Sometimes adults just come to a point were they need to seperate and that has nothing to do with the kids. It sucks for the kids sometimes but in the end it is sometimes a lose lose situation because the kids, like yourself get caught up in the drama. Try talking to your school counselor about the feelings you have in dealing with this issue. By all means it is not your fault. |
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King Yellow
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It's probably not your fault. Usually it's not the fault of the child, although sometimes it may feel that way. Probably your parents have just had some rough times together and don't feel that they love each other anymore. They don't feel like they are right for each other now. It most likely has little to do with you. The only reason your mom yells is probably because she is under stress from the divorce and dealing with being alone. Obviously it is a stressful and emotional time for your entire family, but you have to deal with it. Don't blame yourself, because it'll only hurt you. Maybe you should just let it be; if your parents are going to get back together ever, they will do it themselves without your help. |
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animelover^-^
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To be honest there is nothing you can do to a divorce. It is better to not get involved, the conflict is between your parents ,not you. All you can do is hope that your parents can get back together, or you will do extra chores to lighten your parent's load, so they can think about each other than making themselves busy. If everything doesn't work out then just move on. Sad Truth, but you can contact to your other parent by letters, e-mail, or phone numbers. |
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bookreader
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if it is your fault isn't it a little late to try and fix the problem? |
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Hott Cheerleader!!!!!!
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oh dont blame yourself! they just wernt made to be together,it is probly best no one gets hurt my parents got devorced when i was younger at first me and my brother blamed ourselfs but when we thought about it there was nothing we did and there was nothing we could do about it it was their disition but now im glad my parents split it would have been misery if they stayed together.ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!! |
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