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ceci_m | My son is gay and has stopped using drugs (cocaine)for 8 months.He used to be very lo ving and nice to me.? |
Why can this happen? He lives in another country and when I went to visit him for 10 days, he didn´t have any patience to me at all, he felt stressed with me, even though he just saw me at nights because he works during the day. I know for sure that he is not using drugs anymore and goes to meetings with people that had same problem like him and he is very happy doing this. But my worry is his conduct with me has changed so much. Thanks
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Since I knew my son was gay about 10 years ago, I felt guilty and very sad, but after thinking about this reality I said to myself that homosexuality exists, and he is my beloving son (I have to sons) great guy, very sincere and excellent human being. That´s what more matters to me and my husband. He knows we love and admire him always, and the most important thing for us is his happiness. He´s a great architect and loves what he does. |
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just keep on loving him and he will return the favor... i found out that it is reverse physcology |
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that has to stink! sounds like you've gotten quite a few bombshells from one son in a short period. All I could suggest is that you love him like he's still the same little boy that called for you when he scraped his knee. That little boy is still in there somewhere, just give him the oportunity to come out. Your son may have been having a rough time when you were visiting. Maybe it had nothing at all to do with you. Good Luck! |
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Ask him if there is anything wrong? Often times people use drugs to deal with anger issues or other such things. The drug abuse could be gone but perhaps the anger issues remain. Try not to be too interfering but tell him that if he would like to talk you will always be there for him. Let him know that you noticed that his attitude has changed and that you are concerned. If he starts to argue then tell him that you will talk to him when he can talk civily to you. |
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merlin_steele
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Unless I'm missing something, or you left some facts out, sounds like your son is having a hard time getting over the drugs. If that's true, I hope you have some encouragement and patience for him, because he needs it to completely whip those drugs. |
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nolagirl504
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Well, be greatful he stopped using drugs, maybe he feels this way because of the withdrawal of the cocaine. He'll come around and good luck. |
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xdecomposinghatex
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drugs can sometimes give people the ability to deal with others. it can give them patience and/or make them more easy-going.
when i did drugs, my mom and i were just fine. we had a great relationship and she didn't suspect anything. but now that i don't do them, our relationship is horrible. we always fight, and she constantly asks if i am on drugs.
i don't have the patience to deal with her ignorance anymore. when i was on drugs, it didn't bother me. |
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Unconditional love. Don't give up on him but try hard not to smother him either. He will come around. My mum and I went 5 years without speaking a word--now we are closer then ever. Give it time |
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sam
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If I were you, I would ask him directly about how he feels about you and why. Once he gets his feelings out in the open, then you can deal with him. Ask to attend one of these meetings with him so you will know the new him a little better and assure him that you are here to fully support him in his time of need without judgement. |
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It could be that he is secretly using the drugs again, or it could be withdrawal from not having the drugs any more or possibly is embarrassed by his lifestyle and is feeling judged by you... i suggest talking to your son... be open and honest, and ask him what's up. |
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i believe there is something goin on with him more than what you think you know have you tried to have a serious conversation with him......just be patient dont let it stress you in time he will come to you with an explanation and perhaps a apology |
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Sometimes people who do drugs have a hard time coping without the drugs. Even their life essence changes due to the distortion of having a good time while on the drugs. As his mother you represent the sober aspect of life that is in turn filled with responsibilities. He loves you and well as his mother he is reflecting the anger within himself that has let you down. He is in short, being short with you due to being hard on himself. Trust that he is on the right path and will take some time to associate sobriety with a clean way of life. Right now it doesn't seem so great. (sobriety) Just be pacient. |
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your son is most likely have after drugs reactions. I have alot of drug addicts in my family and when they try to quit they some times pick up bad habits, for example excess cleaning, sleeping, eating alot, and of course mood swings. Just always give him extra attention such as one on one time together, and make sure you let him know you love him unconditionally. Also be open to talk about whatever he wants to talk about even if you're scared to know. Keep an open mind about anything, even if you don't agree. Ask questions about things you don't understand to show your interest in his life. Finally, the most important thing is always be trustworthy. If it's something he don't want to be share with others he needs to know anything you two talk about stay between you two. |
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