lockerridge
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I lost my son 10 years ago on Nov.25 and I still think of him daily. It took a long time but now when I think of him I can laugh at the warm good times we had and it doesn't hurt so sharply. I know the pain and it is almost a physical thing, isn't it? It starts in your stomach and it feels like you want to scream and scream and scream. This will pass. He knows you love him. Trust that fact. And you will always love him trust this fact. And you will see him again when it is time to do so. Until that time you are responsible to him not to waste the life you have grieving for his loss of life because his life began again that day. He is in a wonderful place, God can take a lot better care of him than you or I ever could. He has all the answers. I know how much you miss him , and I believe they miss us too. He is busy and so should we be. the time till we are with them will seem shorter that way and we will be doing what is our reason to still be here, that is to be busy and to love others by giving help to those we can help. Bless your heart and Bless your Loving Parents heart. It will all be answered someday and you can trust that fact also. |
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Bob Loblaw
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I'm afraid since his death, he isn't able to really know anything. The Bible tells us that at our death, our thoughts "perish". So he has no consciousness at this point in time. He hasn't really 'gone' anywhere other than the final resting place of all humans, the grave. But that doesn't mean that's all there is to it. Jesus Christ pointed to a time when the memorial tombs would be opened and there would be a great resurrection, of both the righteous and the unrighteous. While alive on earth, Jesus demonstrated on just a small scale the miraculous events that will be happening worldwide in the near future, including resurrecting the dead, curing all sicknesses and infirmities, and more. |
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summerflower_inshortskirt
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Pray for him, keep his memories alive. I believe he knows that you love him. He watches over you everyday. |
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I love my man
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you can send him a baloon everyday with a message. what you need to do is.............right your note tye it to the baloon and let it go. I am very sorry to hear of your lose. its normal to think about him and miss him. again I am very sorry. |
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animnafets
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I'm atheist so here's my advice:
If there is a world after life he would be looking at you from "up-there" he wouldn't want you to mourn, if there is a heaven, you will see him again in the future. |
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Lightworker
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If you think about him daily it's because his soul is around you all the time! Talk to him! Tell him how much you love him. If you tell him you miss him, that's OK. But I would suggest you don't do it, because it will only make you feel sadder. You need to alleviate your pain, not keep it there nor make it stronger.
Everytime you talk to him, he will comfort you! Also, try invoking the Angels! Talk to them and tell them how you feel, they are eager to comfort you! |
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addiee
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just pray for him.. be strong.. |
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weathernut21
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I'm sorry for your loss. It must be dreadful to be in that situation. I think if you pray to God and Jesus that he (your son) will hear you, and know that he also loved you very much. |
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artaviaclayton
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God can do anything and everything so i dont know if the dead can hear the living so what i do is ask God to let my grandmother know that i love and miss her very much |
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lil_monkey_lover16
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r u young and i know how u feel cuz not to long ago one of the kids in my school the same age as me just passed away due to a car accident and it was very hard for me to hear that and i cried almost every night and so i know how you feel and just be strong and just know that he is looking down at you everyday and saying he loves you |
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alexismikeapril
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My brother passed 3 years ago.There is'nt A day that goes by that I don't think about him!!I talk to him daily,sometimes out loud but other times to myself.Your son knows that you loved him and that you still do wether you visit his grave or not.He is forever in your heart and soul and never to be forgotten.As for he is always with you!!A whip of wind that blows your hair thats him the sunshine that hits your face thats your son that you love!!!! |
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One Love <3
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He already knows. |
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candydrops
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Let God be your light and do things that reflect your son's life think of all the great things you shared together and remember him always wake up and say good morning go to bed and say good night. Tell him you love him every morning and night trust me he is in heaven smiling down looking at you saying i love you back when the wind blows, when the sun rises, when it sets, when it rains, when it snows it's him saying i love you too |
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blazing_eagle04
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Visit his grave, or some church, sometimes they will offer consolation. Dont know how to help otherwise, it's not like you can talk to the dead. |
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