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well i guess u just cant change his password or depends on which type of service he is using like yahoo or hotmail....just click on help and then on fogot your password....put his info in and puff...done.....or you could just lock the websites out...and i think you should check the computer history when u r talking to him...as a proof.. |
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Just My Opinion
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You can't but you can take away the computer and his access to it which is what any wise parent would have done a while ago....not to mention the long talk and the punishment befitting the crime...get a backbone for your kids sake. |
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Westwood
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he is just exploring as he is bound to do at 14, if you try to block this from him then he will find another way of looking at it such as at a friends house or in an internet cafe. rather than trying to stop it just talk to him about it and he'll probably be so embarrased that he'll stop looking |
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crown
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You can't win a 14 year old in this case.He will use it from outside of your home.make sure he don't touch credit card.Just hide material with VD,AIDs,where he can find for him to see.They won't listen.Only will read or see. |
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nopers
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This is the wrong way to go about it. Talk to him about it now. |
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shane_ashley2000
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Set up users in windows and give everyone a password. If you already have done this delete his user name and make him a new one. About controlling on-line information go to AFR.net. They are a christian radio site and have a great software that blocks most explicit material. It is affordable but be warned it will stop every one from viewing this material and it cannot be removed. But you must lead by example. |
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Bellvusnob
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I had the same thing happen with my son, and basically just explained to him that it was inapropriate for him to be looking at these things and that they were not suited for his age. I said it was okay to be curious though, and if he had questions that he could ask me anything. Try to be understanding and realize that he is at an akward age right now. He is probablly getting peer pressure to view these sites from his friends. Here is a good solution. I purchased a program called "Enuff pc", basically it limits the amount of time he can spend on-line, the sites that he can visit and filters out inapropriate content like sexually explicit pictures, references to drugs or alcohol, etc. I hope this helps your situation, I know it's solved mine! Now he even tells me if he accidentally sees something and he is more open and up front about sexuality and feels comfortable coming to me with questions. |
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byderule
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14 is pretty big already.
you cant shelter or hide people from life.
you can only prepare them for it.
so you stop him here from seeing something.
he will only see it somewhere else.
is it not better that he gets educated close to home instead of somewhere else.
over protection usually has negative results
the most balanced ,normal kids that I know ,had parents that hid nothing ,and allowed them to find out whatever they liked.
Instead these parents taught them judgement and sensibility |
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ariel
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just let him be |
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sparky3489
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Do this from the top of your browser:
Tools >> Internet Options >> Content >> Enable
YOU can set up your very own "What gets accessed, and what doesn't" parental control that's built right into Internet explorer, which means it can't be bypassed like external programs. For more info you can e-mail my junk email account at: jsc3489 @ hotmail.com |
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~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻
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Yahoo has services for parents who want to protect their children from harm, (if I could remember what they were called I would give you the link here) but I am sure they would try their best to help you if you wrote them with evidence that you are his concerned parent. good luck :) |
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dealerschool2000
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You need to talk to him about your concern. He really needs a father figure to talk to since he is in a period of his life when he's ready to explore sex. He needs a father figure to talk to who understands what he is going through. Sex is a physical need for men and he is looking for a way to express himself and looking for sexual stimulation. He needs to be protected from Pedophiles, not pics of naked ladies. Ask him for the passwords and use the parenting blockers available. He will be embarrassed, but explain that you love him and are trying to protect him and not discipline him. |
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coolcandylover
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should talk to him and take away his computer time... until you think he's grown up and he can handle it |
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momma08
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Well for starters if he is doing this then why keep letting him get on the cumputer?and away to talk to him is set him down tell him that those sites are wrong and if he is a christian then he needs to think would God like him looking a bad stuff...and if that does not work don't let him have access to a cumperter |
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bluelodge0008
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Talk to him and discourage it. Use a program called Net Nanny and place the computer in an open room where everyone can view. Give him things to do and take him out of the house and Offer to get him a car or get him a go cart. He will grow out of it but keep talking. |
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Lizzard
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as a parent you should have already set up parental controls. Also as a parent you should know that sneaking behind his back will only lead to him resenting you. Communication is necessary and you should initiate it. Maybe he is just curious about the opposite sex.. get him a playboy or something.
Or maybe you are just some lier trying to hack into someone's stuff.. like a girlfriend. there are laws you know |
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the_smeltzers
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you don't need his password. What you need is net nanny.
try a google search for Net Nanny, and he will need a clearance from some pretty conservative people to get onto anything other than email |
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