MissNurse
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I wouldn't go out with her for a while. Because, by the end of your next date, you'll be married!!! |
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sshazzam
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Well obvisously she is psycho. But if you had fun with her then go for it.
If you think you can slip in the "not looking for a commitment right now" speech without her killing your rabbits then I'd get that in asap. |
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bonedaddyxl
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Tell her how you feel.
Then don't date her again, mabey she'll be less "clingy" with the next guy. |
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DMASTER
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Go out with her and tell her that you do not want any strings attached. Be straight forward with her. |
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Goya
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Communication is the key....
Just make it clear that you are not looking into get anything serious at the moment.
They may get turned off and want to walk away from the relationship, but reassure them that if you find the right woman you are not going to let her go. And naturally they will think that they are the right woman and they will stick around. |
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Grasshopper
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Let her know that you think she is great but you are not ready for a serious relationship right now. You might even let her know that you went through a divorce recently. Let her know that you would still like to see her, but you don't expect her to commit to you and you are not commited right now either. You want a dating relationship, you are not ready to go steady. |
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$$Brittany$$
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I have an idea,solve your own personal problems!I am a kid. I can report you. |
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Tracker
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If you like her and want to go out again, then go for it. As far as the 20 call thing, you need to be honest with her and let her know the bounderies so there is no assumptions. It's a lot earsier to do that in the beginning than to let the relationship go on and on, and then try to make adjustments later. Total honesty is the only way to go. |
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Lyon D.
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One thing you immediately have to realize is that:
1/ She is definitely very interested in you and she will be up for any direction you want to take her in the relationship.
2/ She is also very very clingy. Assuming the 20 phone calls hasn't turned you off her completely, you are probably gonna be stressed the crap out by the way she is sometime down the road.
So bottomline is that if you can deal with her craziness, then go for it, otherwise, drop her fast no matter how flattering it is to have a girl going this crazy for you. |
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zhan
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just go out and have fun. You don't have to commit yourself to something that you don't like.do you? so,be friendly and go out somewhere. This girl might like you or might in love with you...tell her about what you wanna have. You can be with her without anything for her to hold on to. Tell her not to expect anything..that you are just enjoying being single. that's it! goodluck! |
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xtcgurl123
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Your situation sounds identical to mine so I would suggest that you ask her out again, but explain exactly what you want and don't want from a relationship. Tell her that you don't want to waste her time or yours and find out if she is looking for the same type of relationship that you are. This way, you'll both be able to make a decision on whether or not to see each other in the future. |
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Divinitus
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For both of your sakes you need to let her know up front that you have no intention of being serious and that calling you 20 times is taking things much faster and much more seriously than you are ready for. Honesty, generally, is always the best policy. Let her know that you do enjoy her company, but just make that lack of seriousness known to her. |
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brmillend
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If you want her to stop calling you so much, what you do is give her a taste of her own medicine. Call her 5 times a day and jabber on about god-knows-what until she tries to hang up with you. If you do this, she won't be as interested in you anymore, and she won't call you as much, either. Keep in mind that she might wanna break up w/ you also, so if that's not what you want, play it smart. |
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M_Benson_98_98
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Tell her that you aren't ready for a committed relationship, but you would like to continue the casual dating scene with her, and with other ppl. |
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Annie
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After my divorce when I started to date again usually I had the problem of being expected to end up in my dates bed that night... So I learned that when a male friend would asked me for a date... I would accept but then add to that acceptance... up front... that the invitation of the date was purely social... and that the date was not to be an means to and end of finishing the night up his bed; and if that was not satisfactory... they he could retract the invitation right then and there. So... Be up front... use the same format and tell your date that you just ended a relationship and do not want to enter into any committed relationship... for now, it is "just friendship." If she is agreeable to that then... continue to see her if she agrees... if not... Hasta la vista baby... |
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Another Nickname
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My friend is having the same issue. Tell her what you just said, and then don't answer the phone when she calls more than once a day. She'll get the hint and move on. |
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paradymn
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Take some time for yourself. Divorce can be pretty brutal on everyone involved. Be gentle with yourself yet firm with anyone you get involved with.
You maybe need some time to lick your wounds alittle and just tell her your not in the space to be in a commited relationship yet your game for some "hanging out". |
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djgirlkimber2001
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Just tell her that you are not looking for a serious relationship at this time. If she really likes you she will understand, it kind of sounds like she is desperate if she is calling you that many times after one date. I would just be honest and tell her the truth. You like her, but you just want to have fun and lay back for a while. Good luck |
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♫♥GCchick♥♫
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tell her that u want to take it slow and dont want to be serious right now. if she really likes u she'll understand. hope that helps. |
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loriclhn
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Well if she really wants to hang out with you and you want to do the same ...be honest and tell her you want and don't want. Hopefully, she's mature enough to accept you wants and desires. You should really tell people these things prior to getting too initimate because there are Ladies that want the same as you do...see ya on the weekend or something attitude. Its more common than you think but you need to talk which should be your focus in any relationship or friendship. |
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amandalee1976
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Tell her what you want from the relationship |
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irunwithscissors25
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well i think you should tell her how you feel and hopefully she understands assuming you havent already told her if you have lose her shes psycho best of luck |
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trenox15
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leave her |
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doedoebird
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20 times sounds a bit psycho. use caution.
also depends how "well it went" = how far it went on tuesday. you are dating her, so you should know what her expectations are. if not, ask.
explain your situation to her and make it clear you are moving slow and are seeing other people... in a nice way.
example: drop hints during normal conversation... "I'm really probably in no state to be seriously dating now, but I still like to have fun". |
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darcidaze
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Well first be open and honest. that is always good route. go out for coffee or lunch and tell her that shes a great gal. but you have to grieve your divorce so you do not come to her or anyone, with excess baggage. and right now you are not ready....tell her its got to be casual. she might be excited that you are a nice person and is trying to be "modern" and help with the calling. |
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Johnathon Antin
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Do the switch. Come Out! Its liberating! |
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ghildruf
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I am 44 and divorced. If you don't want to get into a relationship you should try to get involved with some kind of group. If a woman is going on a date chances are she is looking for a relationship, or as you put it whoreing around. I am involved in a divorce care group through the church and it is awesome. There are people that understand. I am attaching there home page. |
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kurt_yas12
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No way just find a woman for you. there is plenty of fish in the sea for you. I'm sure there is one that is excatly what you want and more if you know what I mean. |
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ferret
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Yes, don't go out with her. |
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Ksunchik
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why u didnt call her? |
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cuteg@sbcglobal.net
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Be honest. Tell her how you feel. It sounds like she likes you and its better to let her know up front what your looking for right now. |
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