gscualo
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First ...who's "everyone"?
Second ...If the most people that you know think like that ...you must to do an autocheck of yourself, probably they got some reason and you'll need to start to understand that in this life ...there are more people than you babe!
Good luck! |
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blackwhitegemini
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Well, just because everyone else thinks something doesn't mean that it's true. What matters is do you think that your a bad person. If you go on in life worrying about what other people think, trust mel, you will miss out on more than you would ever |
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ravi
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Well, you havent mentioned "why people dont like you" anyway try to listen to them, it sometime happens that we might not be aware of our character, which might be unacceptable to others. try to talk with your friends what faults do they find in you. |
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There is no escape
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Why does everyone think ur a bad person? If the reason people think ur bad is something u are willing to change, and can change, then, maybe u should try doing that. But if it isn't, and YOU think ur a good person, then, u shouldn't care what others think of u.
Yes, I know it's hard, but I'm sure there's someone out there who thinks ur a good person, and I'm sure u might have a small group of friends who think ur awesome. In my opinion, that's all u need, but I do understand the pressure of wanting to be liked by the masses.
The only person u really have to please in life, no matter how hard it may be to actually tune everyone else out, is u. The key question though, is WHY everyone thinks this. Once that is answered, u look for solutions from there. |
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hdchackz
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Start doing good things to everyone you know. This should start to chage things around but may take some time. |
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xanthium
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first of all dont go addressing people as 'people',,jus doesnt feel rt...say hey guys or something like that ....n' i'm sorry to say only bad pple see that they r considered bad..so try to change u'rself , renew u'relf, rebirth or some ****...whateva...tc ******.Peace to y'all mothaf****** |
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tash
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why so?why do they say this?look here if you are doing good for someone and they say u r bad then they r the ones that r bad.If u feel u r doing something to help people in any way which is good them do not worry about them they r just jelous.you could b helping the needy and they say u r bad thet is not true even on the eyes of god so do not worry ok be happy.IF U R DOING GOOD $ PEOPLE JUST DO IT.GOD WILL REWARD U. |
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Serving Jesus
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People generally define themselved by what they perceive others think about them. This means that there is a good chance you ARE a bad person! Some of us like the bad girls, though... |
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warehaus
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It sounds like you're asking how you can change the way people are seeing you. You didn't mention why people might think you are a bad person. I don't think anyone is actually bad, but people can do awful things.
If you've done something wrong, you can apologize and try to do better.
If you have lost someone's trust, you can acknowledge it, and then do things that are trustworthy. (Being honest, doing what you say you will do.)
If you really do not know why people see you as a bad person, you can ask: "I need to understand why you don't like what I'm doing. Can you tell me?" You will then need to listen--just listen--don't argue or interrupt.
Then take what this person has said and analyze it for yourself. Is it accurate? If so, this can give you some ideas of things to change. If not, then you need to do things that change this person's perception of you or set the record straight.
If you have made a decision that people do not agree was a good one, you may just have to defend yourself. "This was the best decision for me. I understand that you do not agree, but this is what I chose and I will live with it."
I hope this is helpful. Again, you're not a bad person. But you may need to look at what is going on between yourself and others around you. Somewhere there is a miscommunication.
Good luck. |
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jewel
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prove you are a good person and rectify what everyone thinks you did wrong! |
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morrowynd
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There are a few things you need to do. First of all, how do you know what they think? Do they say or are you just assuming it. You may have a guilt complex and are projecting it onto others. If people say "I don't like you" who are they? Are they people who know you well or people who just don't like your attitude? Are they being racist or otherwise biased?
Are you doing anything that may be unkind or selfish? Is it all about you? If so, no big surprise there. If you don't have the first idea why, then actually ask. Sure, the answer will be brutal but you will have an answer and you will know what to do next. Remember what is right is not always popular and what is popular is not always right |
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natalyajackson
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nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. |
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hham
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why do they think ur a bad person. unless you killed someone or raped someone im sur ur not a bad person. |
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Kris Jean
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Somtimes people only see things from thier own point of view. Be sure that you explain whatever you did/happened from your point of view.
It is easier for people to cast stones, when they don't know the whole truth. (or care to find out) |
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metalfrommatt13
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what would be the problem in the first place? |
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63nova
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change their minds and make yourself a good person |
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godssoldier83
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Take a time out - Evaulate your life - Trying to understand the things, that people are thinking you are a bad person for - Keep your head high, there's many who love you! God Bless ~ Joe ~ |
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imgrayn48
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The best way for people to see you how you wish to be seen is to behave in the manner you wish to be seen. One issue I see that may improve your image is the proper use of the English language. Avoid the use of "text message" type of uasge. As with any image issue, simply be what you want to be. There are probably more areas of your self presentation that you are able to alter and improve. |
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nathan c
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i will advice as.. why don't ur face in mirror? ask yourself!! you are the most wonderful creation of god.. you got the brains, you got the looks..no matter what they say, just believe on the way you are today. it seems diffivult for a while but believe me you will get everything what u wanted with!! just patience and hard work are the two best weapons to answer them. look above the ske is waiting for you, spread your wings and start flying no more depression.. or if u don have boyfrn.. simply make it i think tht will surely help you to sort out with your problem.. take care |
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