Please tell me why i am 26, good looking, successful and intelligent yet i feel like i have NO LIFE?

Spending too much time on Yahoo! Questions.

because you have yet to find a purpose, go to your local chinesse resturant, get a fourtune cookie, and find purpose!

There is fictional story that goes something like

"A man continually tried everything the world had to offer for excitemnt and joy, but was always needing more. He sold his soul to devil in exchange for one moment of perfect bliss.

The devil cast a spell on him to perform a charitable act that would gain him no glory, no recognition, no visible ackowledement.

After he gave silently, he experienced the greatest feeling of joy he had ever expereinced."

Make your life count, but not just for you and not just for show.

Obviously you need more...of something.

Maybe you are too busy, too focused on the wrong things. Maybe you are too picky waiting for the perfect something i.e. perfect man, perfect friends, perfect situation etc. Perfect humans don't exist. Now that you are in a comfortable and successful possition be even more ambitious and find other goals.

Better yet, enroll in a dance class. You'll have fun, be challenged and meet new people.

there is still a missing part of your life... or many ur successful but ur not really happy with what your doing. U could only be happy and u would feel the real meaning of life if u have satisfaction.

Usually that means you have a void somewhere in your soul. The best way to cure this is by trying to "get outside of yourself". Meaning volunteer at your local soup kitchens, at the SPCA, volunteer to visit senior citizens at care homes or help out at the local elementary school. Once you see others predicaments your problems dont seem as bad and it's a proven fact that helping others makes you feel better.

You don't find yourself, you build yourself.

Learn to swing dance. It is healthy, cheap, a great way to meet people, and fun!

If you play an instrument, join a band. If you don't, but can sing, join a chorus.

If you play sports, join a team.

If you read, join a book club.

Try acting!

Travel. I learned scuba and love it. Snorkeling is a blast too.

Stay clear of the TV though, or at least keep a healthy balance going. Why watch others have a life?

Your are young! Get cracking!!!

it sounds like u need God. only He is able to give us inner satisfaction. u already have satisfaction from the world which He has given to u, now u need His divine help. if u have God already then mayb u shld ask Him and He will provide u with all answers

well i had to go in to your other questions and answers to get some feel for you because you didnt give a lot of discription for your self , while some of the answers you gave were fun showing me that your a fun person i hope that your taking the time to have fun out side this little box we call the computer , have you focused at how successful you become over fun and leting loose with others ? and as far as good looks go some times guys figure that they will be out of your leage and not bother to chase ya , im sure there is some shy guy watching from afar that you havent even realized he worships the ground ya walk on let alone he is even on the face of the planet but some times thats how it goes , from what i figured from the (good looking, successful and intelligent ) but( feel like i have NO LIFE? ) is that you havent found any one you would even consider worth while dating or did date and they turned out to be jerks , and while yes doing some of the things others said could help by offering a distraction till you meet some one that fits your needs and requirements , you may need to look at what kind of person you really want and what flaws you can except them to have , then look at where you may find that person ( the worst palce to find some one who hates violence is a boxing match) lol , go and do the things that you like to do and have fun at by yourself from there in time you will make friends with the people that like to do them too , or join a club that offers the kind of things you like , and meet people that way , eather way it will get you out of the house and offer you some thing that will give you some thing to look forward to and help you interact with others who enjoy some thing that you do as well , from there if your lookin to meet that certin someone they will at least have some thing that you both can realate to and help give you and them some thing to do as a couple as well as some thing to talk about

From my personal experience, (I am 26 too and had no life too,) you need find yourself, what you really want in life, what is your dipest wishes and desires. Then go ahead and live your dreams out ...

Important: find yourself and what you want, NOT what people around you say what you want and what you need ...

Answer is in your heart ... your dreams ... :-)

Love you

where are you located? maybe i can help

Maybe you got wrong attitute. Try to be more honest, kind and gentle. First impression is always very important.

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