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My suggestion is to replace the scary experience with one or a bunch of fun and peaceful ones. Try watching a comedy movie with or without your friends. Surround yourself with things that make you feel safe, and over time, you will probably look back on this as something to laugh about.
Good Luck |
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Entity of Life
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You should not be scared..most ghosts are not out to injure or hurt you. It would seem humans are more apt to be that way. You should enjoy your peace when you have it : ) |
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lookinforexcitement
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Well, pray about it & do other things to get your mind off of it. You shouldn't let your mind be idle where it thinks about the ghost stories. Call up a friend or have a get together sometimes just so you can feel comfortable again. The more you stay away from the situation & not nip it in the bud the worse it'll get. It's a mind thing. You've got to have the will to overcome it.
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Reason out. Think. i too had the same kind of fears. I resorted to this method. Just think what is the maximum that can happen? At max according to you, aghost may be seen. Convert this idea into a hilarious one, like,speak to the ghost if it appears, or think that u r gonna punch it's bloody nose(that is,if it has one) and stuff like that.u will eventually realise that ur fears were irrational. It's common to feel more insecure and afraid when we r alone and at nights. Just try what i have said. If it doesnt work get a pet, possibly a dog. Or talk to somenoe who can understand u and help u out.
And please, U have no right to demean urself by calling urself a scaredy cat.it all just a pasing phase of life.
Best of luck Madam Muaahh.
P.S.Watch out for sickos who are after girls with nice Pictures posted as icons for their Q&A account. |
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susanna514
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What i always do is leave da T.V. on or radio and a little lamp on, that helps me. Just don't think about it. |
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if you wherent afraid of your house before the stories , itll pass .
but some people have a sixth sence about things like this , youve got to decide for your self if you could be one ..
id say if you never thought about it before now , than your friend just spooked you ! |
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şιlvэя άпđ ĉðłď♥
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It's alright... some people will still have "babyish" fears. It's part of human nature; nobody completely grows up. If you want to get over it, just start listening to music, and start doing things to help yourself forget. I'm quite sure it won't last forever. |
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Saltbreaker
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the more you avoid the place the less likely you are to overcome the fear. For starters,how about inviting some of your friends for a sleep over? just so you'll have some company(but no more ghost stories) and find diversions (because you're too preoccupied with scary thoughts)its better if those are the things you enjoy doing the most, probably a hobby.Pray too, for some peace of mind.dont worry, it will definitely pass in the right time. |
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vixxenkitty
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put a hammer,or knife or some other deadly weapon under your bed when you go to sleep |
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watty_ofthe_wattykins
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If ghost are real it's important to remember that they do not possess a physical body to actually do harm. While some ghosts are refuted to be able to move things, stories of ghosts hurting people are rarer still.
If you ever feel threatened by spirits you can close your eyes and imagine yourself surrounded by pure energy, some speculate that ghosts actually feed off of negative energy, which would explain why they try and scare people.
I myself have witness floating orbs and felt presences in previous houses I've lived in. I'm a believer.
BTW, change your picture if you don't want to get hit on by half the people who answer your questions. |
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lee™
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is your friend gay?? lol i've been to the house and it's really scary........ |
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wherevertheanswerlies
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don't worry about it.
if it is the dark your scared of watch TV or something before bed
if lonely and scared get a pet
if you like noise get a dog, peace cat
or get a roommate
(if you get a pet get one from a pound or shelter or rescue place) |
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bluefire
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I guess you could force yourself to stay in your house, or you keep the lights on when you go to sleep until you get over your fear. |
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kashakole@yahoo.com
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get a cat guardians of the night it will keep you safe and give you lots of love |
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TURKISH
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You are very sweet lady...
Security is very important for human life...Ghost stories are just push our adrenaline :)
Do not be afraid...Everything will b same like in the morning...But if you are still afraiding i love to send you magical words for you...REALLY!!!
If you want i can send it...
Mean while ghosts do not distrub us if we do not distrub them.Just in tv...
Be relax,close the door and windows(thightly).Listen to the music when you are lie down than turn off the light and player when you feel that you are sleepy...
I am living alone my house it big too.4 room + 1 living room + kitchen and a long corridor...
When i was a child.I used to afraid from darkness...
Oneday i said "I cannot be afraid anymore.I have to be a man!!(I was 8)" I start to wake up at 01:00am in the midnight and start to walk on darkness.Enter the rooms walk on the floor...And i am not afraiding anymore :)
But if you still want to learn megical worlds from me..Just tell me ;) Ok? |
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susenjungle
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Are you just scared or are you feeling a presence. Not all are bad energies sometimes they are around to help and try to contact you when you are alone. But if you are worried that it may be an unwanted energy. Get yourself some White Sage incence and or Frankensence and Burn when you are feeling unsure. The fragrance also gives off a calmative effect. If you are asmahtic and cannot burn insence, sage and frankensence oil & oil burners do the same job. |
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rhoodpsp
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I Think you should not watch scary movie's and always think there is no one here |
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sexythang
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Move to a smaller house or get more roommates. |
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jameyfcs
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you need to get a grip on realty if a ghost story has scared you that bad what will happen when something serious happens in your life |
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ashtre2000
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I live in a big house alone surrounded by trees and plants. My house have One big hall three bedrooms, one guest room one lobby, one dining room, one drawing room, one kitchen, two stores two toilets two baths, with a lawn in front and back and trees & plants surrounding all four sides except the car portico and the road to main gate. I can only light only one living room where i used to live and i like horror movies but i was scared of ghosts before but after realising that there are spirits which protects you from all troubles i am now not afraid of anything. you know that there are guardian angels which are always with us and protects us. Sometimes you may observe them when any fast moving vehicle just passed you from inches or when you just braked and stopped some inches from the cliff or any other vehicle. so pray and there will be no harm to you.Your guardian angels will always protect you. |
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falloutgirl151
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get a dog or find a man |
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Donald J. Trump
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Go to where you think the ghosts are, and say: If you want to get me, get me, I don't care!!!!!! |
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reymysterio619huracanrana
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welcome to my world |
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saphirablue22
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Get a pet or get someone to pay you to stay there. |
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good_times_die
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find a hobby that you enjoy, or meet other people that you can hang out with, you don't NEED a boyfriend to overcome this,jus' hang out with friends in your house until you get comfortable bieng there by yourself. |
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billybob3165
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get a smaller place, get some pets, get more people to stay with you, really whatever you want |
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iloveboys613
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dont call your self a scardy cat cause im 13 and im still scared of something but i have got over a lot im pretty sure u will get over yours has u get over other thangs u will probaly have thangs to worry about than some stupid fear |
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frankjoiuse
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Use elicit drugs. They'll either make you much more calm, or they will enduce you actually seeing "ghosts". Either way fixes your problem - either you won't care anymore, or you have an actual tangable ghost to be afraid of. |
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The Joker
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Joker Here...ya know what...if you got the money to keep an office in a three bedroom HOUSE...i'm pretty sure you won't have any trouble finding SOMEONE to keep you company |
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lil joker who loves slipknot
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chicka find a guy or a dog or buy a gun |
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T.I.G
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find a guy. |
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