â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â
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You have already been unfaithful. Karma is a b*tch and I hope it takes a huge chunk out of your a$$. |
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Dr Universe
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DON`T BECOME A CHEAT IT`S WRONG |
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jen92078
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Well you were already unfaithfully because you just cheated on your husband, if you love your husband be honest and find another job but otherwise get a divorce and be single sounds like your not ready to commit |
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71Bee
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I feel bad for your husband and if I had his phone # I would bag your sorry a.s.s!! |
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HideousStrength
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don't do it
keep your marriege clean. It may seem the right and fun thing to do now, but it is not. You promised your husband that nothing would separate you. Is co-worker better then the husband God gave you? obviously now. Don't do it, you feel better later on |
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ladyjno7
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I am sorry you are in this situation. I am mostly worried about your relationship with your husband. What is wrong there? I don't know if i am the only women who feels like this, but when i am in love, I don't notice other men in that way, or at least not fall for them so hard.
i have been in your situation. As badly as I wanted to, I did not. But I did realize how unhappy i was in my marriage. honestly, I lost contact with the man i fell for harder than a ton of bricks. i sometimes still miss him. I still think about him, and wonder what it would have been like. I wonder if sex had happened if he would still be in my life. But I am also glad that i didn't set aside my morals for what could have ended very badly. Think of the serious consequences sex can have. STD's Pregnancy, etc. If you are in love with this person you need to tell him, make him wait, and end your relationship with your husband first. But you better be sure that is what you want.
P.S. you have already cheated. But that can be forgiven. Don't make it worse. |
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destineypyle
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ummm you were already unfaithful.... don't put yourself in compromising positions!your husband deserves better! |
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bendione
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well...if you don't want to, you need to control yourself! |
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Slobodka
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ask your boss to place you in a diff division |
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Mike
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Why be scared, just do it you know you want to and is't going to feel so good |
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marlon2sexy06
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Don't cheat you will regret it please dont take me advice |
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qt30hamilton
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DON'T BE SELFISH AND REMEMBER THE DAY YOU GOT MARRIED AND TOOK YOUR VOWS! |
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lysamariebetts
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Dear Scared,
Please immediately quit your job. Your committment to your husband is more than an office romance. You need to get away from this man, and you can't do it if you stay where you are. You also need to be honest with your husband. There will be pain and sadness, but when he forgives you, your marriage will be strengthened beyond what you can know right now! |
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toolman222
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Work romance...
I never like the guys my girlfriend works with, and this is why. Im almost always attracted to females i work with even if they are not my type. Just how it is... But outside of work it wouldnt be the same, the excitement would disappear and youd be stuck. Quit screwin' around on that guy, thats sorry as hell. If your not ready to be married than dont be married-marriage is not for everyone. But if this is just a stint you better just cut it off with the other guy right now before you really hurt your husband.
Try putting yourself in his shoes. |
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Ready2Go
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Do your self a favor and stop talking to this guy. It will only make you feel like you do now. If he talks to you, give him the "bad mood" attitude and he should leave you alone. If he asks you to do something with him tell him you need to think of your husband first and that you can't hang out with him anymore. |
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sexhaysh0rty2005
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Wow. You messed up. Only time I think it is right to cheat is when the man or woman cheated on you, and really I guess it isn't right, but they shouldn't of done it in the first place themselves |
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irish
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i did the same thing with a girl i worked with lets say it didnt end well now i have to see the ***** everyday almost not worth it |
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maydean_wilke
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You need to look at why you are attracted to this man. Is there some qualities that he has that your husband doesn't? Are you interested since you are married and that he is a challenge? I wouldn't take it any further. If you value your marriage I would stop it now. But that is my opinion |
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jimedwardsisntreal
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people who cheat on their partners make me sick. if my wife, not married yet, ever cheated on me i would be having nothing more than a terrible nightmare. dont cheat, dont think about cheating, youre married. that is a sacred bond that is takin lightly now adays. its supposed to be a one time, never ending thing. people are morons. |
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ray13r
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you a slut and should not have gotten married, give your husband everthing, divorce him, and send to the bunny ranch in Vegas to help get over you |
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iamatennisplayerwatchmeserve
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Don't expect him to trust you and don't be offended if he has a little bit of trouble trusting you. The day you got married, you made a vow before God and everyone that was at your wedding. You should tell your husband what you did because that's being honest. Honesty is very important in any relationship whether it be a marriage or just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. You need to keep your hormones under control before anything more serious does happen with this co-worker. Obviously you didn't marry this co-worker for a reason. You made your choice of a husband... be happy with him or do yourselves both a favor and divorce him so that he can move on. |
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Kabbob
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You have already been unfaithful. The fact that you kissed him is cheating.... but thats not the point.
I believe that perhaps you weren't ready to get married. That is a possibility you should consider.
You need to ask yourself what you really want. If you think that there can be something promising in a relationship with your co-worker then you should re-consider your commitment to marriage.
See you married someone and now your not sure weather you want to be with them. Before you do anything, you should consider what you REALLY want.... or rather, what you NEED.
Don't jump into something without thinking it over. Take some time and think. Only you have the answer. |
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kiki_t
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Don't have the affair. If it will be detrimental to your marriage. You will regret it and wish you it never happened. If you feel that it is worth maybe the loss of your marriage, then go ahead and enjoy what might only be one brief moment of pleasure. Really no one can decide what to do but you, but what you do will affect your future. Good Luck! |
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mark_juslen
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Well it sounds like you arent happy in your current marriage. If you were, you wouldnt have cheated. Yeah, you already cheated on your husband. The next step, is NEVER do it again. Second step, evaluate your current relationship with your husband. Third, tell him you cheated, until you do, you will never be able to face what you have done, or your husband again. Lies eat away at people, and so does deception. If you arent happy with your husband, figure out why, work it out, if you cant. Its time to get out of the marriage before things get too deep and you cant get out. |
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chelseawilliams9
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girl i think if you met the one this maybe i kinda dont know about this one |
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Ashley Nicole
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For starters never mix business with pleasure it only causes more problems. |
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babydoll
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i think u shoul tell him how u fell and tell him that u r married ( if he doesn'tknow that)and also tell tell him that u dont want to cheat on ur husband because u really love him. If he undestands and accepts that it is because he respect u, if he doesnt that means that he just wants a fling :) |
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prettybrownsha
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first off if you arnt happy with your marrage you should not be married in the first place secondly if you have feeling for someone else you need to end that relationship first then proceed to the next relationship because in the end you are going to be hurt and also hurt your husband think about it before you make mistakes it is always good to be honest about the situation no matter what |
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valay-girl
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If you really love your co-worker go on right ahead!You don't wan't to be lonely forever, do you? |
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donw35
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The right thing to do is come to terms with what you have done, tell your husband and quit your job if your marrage means anything to you. Put your self in his shoes and stop thinking of your self. He is thinking all is good and happy and you are having an affair, and yes, not having sex means nothing, you did have an affair and continue to until you resolve to leave the place of temptation.
My 2 cents |
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Physics Student
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There is nothing worse than betraying someone's trust. Your husband trusts you, and you have betrayed it. Stop now before things get worse. Talk to you so-worker and tell him it can't happen agian. Be strong. |
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Dianelaneisarealmilf
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Watch the movie "Unfaithful" that should give you a clear picture why having an affair is dangerous. But then again who wouldn't wanna have an affair with Diane Lane:)) |
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