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reb_tong | Should I allow my daughter who is a drug addict trying to stay clean and her husband stay with me? |
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Holes in the Soles
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I would say yes so long as she has responsibilities. Here's one way to try to get at this:
1. Sit her down. Tell her you love her, you're proud of her for being clean, etc.
2. Describe your fears. Don't attack her, though. Say something like, "I would be happy to have you live here, but I'm worried that you'll return to drugs, that this house will become a crutch for you, etc."
3. Then, ask her how you can work together to make sure these fears don't become reality. Can she pay you rent? Can she have random drug testing? What is she willing to do for the privilige of living with you? Don't pressure her. Let her describe what she's willing to do.
4. Then, write an informal contract. If she breaks any of the promises she's made, she will have 14 days (or whatever) to move out.
5. Be firm but kind. Tell her that if she has to leave because she breaks the contract that you'll be heartbroken, but that she has to understand that you are now both bound to this contract.
If this sounds useful, you may want to do this with the help of your/her therapist.
Good luck! |
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marlio
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There is a lot of information that we don't have, but on the surface, I would say yes...with a lot of conditions.
First, I would make it very clear that this is not a permanent arrangement. Second, I would insist that they help with the daily chores around the house...you are not the maid. Third, I would also insist that they get jobs, assuming that they don't already have one, and contribute financially to the household. The last thing you want is for them to look at this as a free ride.
Good luck! |
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love5
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Yes she is your daughter. Even though she has done wrong she needs to know that you are going to be there for her no matter what. |
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To live is to learn
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I am going to have to say...no. She is your daughter and I know you love her terribly, but the key word was TRYING. She will always be an addict unfortunately. When the drugs are in her system, she is no longer your daughter because she is controlled TOTALLY by the drugs. Under the influence, she will lie to you, steal from you and deceive you. If you love her, you will have to use tough love. be there for her, support her, but don't become her crutch. |
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gina m
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what better way to help keep an eye on your baby and help her stay clean |
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mars
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Help her find help!!!!!!! |
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sugar_pie
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as long as she doesn't try to take advantage of you tryingto take care of her but i think you should give it a chance maby she needs your help to stay clean |
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willausgarden
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What is her drug of choice? I think you should ask yourself how much do you trust her & what would happen to your relationship with her if the overwhelming habit causes her to have a relapse & you find out she has either stolen from you or took advantage of you. It may only enable her addiction. It may be wiser, for the sake of your relationship, NOT to let them stay with you until she is completely clean. |
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datladybug
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It depends on the whole situation.Staying with u may help her stay off drugs and way from it. U may do her some good. So take ur time with her. When some one gets in that situation its not best to turn ur back on them no matter what. Ur the parent, u raised her to be good and she is looking up to u for your support. So U can guide her to treatment centers near u. U can get advice from them to help her. I know I use to work with drug/alcohlic victims. They just need some supoort, u listen to them and let them pour out their feelings.Don't say anything negative to them. Turn the negative around to positive-> after they pour out their feelings. So b there for her. Also suggest some chores to do for u to keep her busy. That helps them to stay away from drugs. They need to feel useful. More information www.webmd.com |
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ghettobabii_05
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well if it was me i would say yes because she is your daughter and you should try to help her out so that she can make something out of her self |
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precious
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Allow your daughter to stay only if she can abide by your rules. As for her husband he should find another place to rest his head. He may be the reason she's trying to stay clean and he may be the reason for her addiction. She must stay clean because she wants to not because someone else wants her to. Right now she needs a place that couldn't be to responsible of her husband. She needs help not pity. |
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