What's Your Problem?
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Why are girls always so optimistic over being able to change a guy? I'm not against taking chances in love or anything, but usually it just doesn't work. There is a reason why someone behaves the way they do.
If you feel that he's mean to the others for a valid reason (e.g. if the other people are annoying him etc), then it might still be reasonable for you two to get together. However, if he's just mean for the sake of being mean, then I would advise against it. Most likely he'll end up treating you like the others in the future, because to him, that's the norm. |
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universal
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I say that you have to be very cautious in dealing with him.
I will tell you something from my own experience, it may not apply to your case but I will tell you anyway. When I was in hi school there was this guy who was avoided by everyone and everybody called him names. I tried to get close to him and see what is wrong about him and why people treat him this way. Anyway we stayed friends for a long time, but when the exams started he insisted on asking me to help him with answering the questions that he doesnt know, and the problem is that he didnt know nothing at all. Anyway when I said no he started saying you are not a good friend coz a friend in need is a friend indeed and started to treat me bad. When I insisted on not telling him the answers he shouted out loud in the class: "I will tell them the secrets you told me about your family!!" I was astonished coz I didn't tell him no secrets about my family, but we ended up fighting and that was the pathetic end of the story. I concluded from my experience with that guy that when people dislike a certain person they must have good reasons for that. You should't get too close to a person who is disliked by all people, and if you did you have to be very cautious. |
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Sam's Baby Girl
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If you like each other, than go for it! |
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palindromagico
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My answer you'd have to decide yes or no would be.. Would you want to have a relationship with someone whom your friends and acquaintances might not oil well with? - If it's just a fling the answer is yes, if you're looking for something long term, I'd say no. |
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munky
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no bcause you don't want 2 bcome ms. grinch do you? i guess it's ok if you had no social statas but other wise that's just asking for it to go down the drain.
why don't you ask him 2 b nicer
if he likes you 99% of the time he'll follow through
then consider him |
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susie c
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if u like him give it a try but as soon as he starts being mean to u leave him immediatly |
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jmhslh110
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hell yea youre #1 baby go for it |
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~SWEET~
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just let him get to a point where he feels like he could treat you like everyone else. and he will. sounds like a jerk. Or maybe he is putting on a front for everyone else and truly likes you. Better sit down and have the heart to heart before making any rash decisions. |
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cleaner
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Absolutely Not ! If he's mean to everyone else why would you want to be with him anyway? |
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tmarch9
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I think you could find balance somewhere else, but still keep him as a friend, sounds like he needs some. |
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Nadach = Outcast
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Nope, cause it's only a matter of time before he's no longer nice to you. If he doesn't respect anyone else how long will he respect you? |
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monkey_01_16
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yeah y not? |
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beezuh
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Shore. Take a chance. Maybe you can get him to change how he acts towards other people. |
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diggertwo
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no grow up and be nice to others who are nice dont't encourage this person |
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stevealtz
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I say going it what do you have to lose.And if it don't work just find someone else |
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journaling2serenity
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If he is mean to others, he will eventually abuse you verbally or even physically, so I would not get involved with him. He is most likely only trying to lure you with his charms...it won't last. |
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SUSN Jenn
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Is he nice to anyone else? If he's not then you need to run yelling and screaming in the other direction. Is he nice to some people but he's quiet about it, then give it a try. Maybe you can sneak in behind the big tough guy act. Good luck! |
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killerhen
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Give him a try the worst thing that will happen is he will be mean to you if that happens dump him. He might stop being mean to others after you go out. |
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