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I have got a message that i have won 1 million dollar weather it is true or a fraud? |
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What is the FUNYEST word (words) ever?????? |
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kirsty h | Types of behaviour that make a problem worse? |
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Andy
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Accepting responsibility for problems which aren't yours. Blaming others for your mistakes and continuing to do the same things which brought the original problem. Trying to fix problems which are beyond your power to fix effectively. Making enemies who in turn undermine your efforts. Focusing on the short term and neglecting the long-term implications and complications. Assuming that you understand the problem without getting the perspectives of others and a larger picture perspective. These all tend to make our problems worse, but I'm sure that the one's which relate to the opposite side of the pride spectrum (negative thinking) also apply just as well; i.e. getting too large a picture, too diverse of perspectives, waiting too long to act, or taking too little risk. The general theme seems to be either thinking too highly or too lowly of oneself and one's abilities to problem solve. |
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Floyd B
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Not giving or using enough information. |
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sunshine_today
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whut? |
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mandy b
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sulking
being aggressive
non communicative
bullying
violence
not keeping to facts
becoming personal
not wanting to resolve the issue |
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John G
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Negativity.
To find out how to avoid this buy Dale Carnegie- How to win friends and influence people. |
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5yellowchips
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rebuilding iraq |
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Claire
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Negativity, apathy, backbiting/gossip, narrow-mindedness, anger. |
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Bel
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Ignoring it or running from it. |
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Naughty but nice
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Aggression, Attitude, Negativity, Anger, etc... |
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flingebunt
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Problems are solved by working on them.
Some behaviours that make problems worse.
Ignoring the problem. (Oh, we don't take those threats to fly planes into the world trade centre seriously)
Complaining generally (Muslims are bad bad people, so bad, they wear funny hats....how does that help...really)
Not accepting help. (Why can't Iran just butt out of the Middle east...really, how can know about fixing civil wars).
Not believing the problem is a problem. (No, we have everything under control in Iraq).
Avoidance (Ok we can't find Mr Laden, let's invade Iraq instead)
Making a mistake or problem, then running away from it (ie, withdrawing from Iraq now)
Blaming others (Bye Bye Mr Rumsfield)
Just watch George W. and learn from the Master |
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Livin' La Vida Gay
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Depends on the problem |
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cookie
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PANICK |
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george
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Negativity, misunderstood, assumed, misjudged, lack of trust, lack of personality. Pretty much a lack of everything. And how people see and understand you or the situation.
MOST OF ALL LACK OF EDUCATION AND COMMUNICATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... |
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MJ
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Biopolar,manic depression,schizophrenia,depression,o.c.... just some ideas,a.d.d. |
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