Chris Brown
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I think you should stay friends. You sister needs to work out some issues on jealousy. What's going to happen if the "friend" finds another female to talk to other than you or your sister? I mean at least she knows he likes the both of you and is friends with the both of you. He might not even be interested in her. Even if he's not, you still need to be friends, unless he is just a trouble maker.
Always be friends with good people, even if they are in a relationship. Don't break up their relationships, but be friends .... because one day they may be able to help you in a desperate time of need. |
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tigergirl301
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Have you tried sitting down and talking to your Sister? I have a feeling that your Sister believes you are out to take him away from her and I would say she is over obsessed with him. |
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mountainwindcat
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I think it would be wise for you to evaluate your true reasons for pursuing a relationship, platonic or otherwise, with this guy at all. Is this boy's friendship so important to you that you would sacrifice the understanding and love of your sister?
I do not know the whole story of course, perhaps she is being completely unreasonable but if I were to read between the lines I would say that you know very well how much it would hurt your sister to be close in anyway with this guy and despite this knowledge you chose to do it anyway.
Is there an underlying motivation for your actions? Get honest with yourself and answer this question. Again, why do you wish to pursue a relationship with anyone of anykind that you admittedly know hurts someone you love. |
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honey
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I understand what you mean.
If there is nothing going on between you and him, I don't understand why your sister is jealous. My question is - do the guy know this and does he feel the same way to her? They both need to tell each others feeling, really... It wouldn't be fair for the guy friend if you just ignore him just like that. Talk to both of them and have them have an open talk. Be brutally honest and get over with this crap. After all, you guys are sisters and friends, you know.
Your family should just stay out of it. |
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jollyjeff99
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You shouldn't have to give up your friend just because your sister has a crush on him. It's something she has to deal with. |
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richandfamoussee
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It is none of your family buisness who you date or who you are friends with and you sister is completly stupid because she is being selfish. tell her that too!! |
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thisisme
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no, your sister needs to get over it. if she likes him so much why doesn't she try to hang out with him? and if he doesn't like her, there's nothing you can do about it! |
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brennan.monaco
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There is no reason that you should ignore him, because of what your sister thinks is going on. You should feel no guilt as you have tried to explain that you are just friends, and no one has listened to you. There is nothing else that you can do about that. You have done your bet, and them not believing you is your problem. You can't force them to agree with you. I suggest continuing your friendship, and if any one asks just let them know that you keep telling them the truth, and just because they don't believe you isn't your problem. Good Luck. |
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complete weirdo
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ok, dont stop being friends with him just because of something as stupid as that. besides, if she likes him, she should "talk" to him, not just sit around and waste time. a great way to show her that there's nothing going on between you two is to help her arange a date with him or something. if she's not good with guys, help her think of stuff for them to talk about and write it on a piece of paper so she wont forget. try that and see if it works. just dont end a relationship over something as stupid as that, ok? |
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carynhelene
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You need to ask yourself why you are choosing between your sister and a friend? In 20 years when this 'friend' is no longer around your sister will be and most likely she will be your best friend if you are lucky! |
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Kevin in Indiana
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Ever heard this saying? "blood is thicker than water"
Don't get me wrong here. I'm not saying that you should turn your back on your friend.Because good friends are hard to come by these days.(like my grandfather use to tell me when I was younger. "WHEN YOU CHECKOUT OF THIS WORLD YOU CAN COUNT EVERY TRUE FRIEND YOU EVER HAD ON ONE HAND")..I surely hope your sister is one of those. And for your male "friend"? Have you told him about the way your sister feels towards you for spending time with him? Seems to me if he was any kind of friend at all then he would not want to be the cause of any of your family conflicts.
Has your sister told him how she feels? |
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