What are some ways to ask a girl out?

I am 12 so I need some advice suitable for a 12 year old. Her name is Amy and she is so beautiful. Me and her a best friends and have been for a very long time. But she has boyfriend and she just emailed me thatsaid she is gonna break-up with him so give me advice on how to ask her to be with me.

Don't.

If it is your first one, don't. Ok?, just don't.

If it's not, best luck to you.

Ok, so what I suggest is this
No. 1- Ok, problem number one is that you two are best friends. So, be prepared to be rejected. Also, it's nothing against you if she does reject you, it's just she doesn't feel that way

No. 2- problemo number two is that maybe she would rather be single/have time to get other her last b/f. Just a thought.

No. 3- Ok, this is less problem, more advice. Once you have thought it through you need to remember that there is gonna be alotta pressure on this relationship because you were friends. I mean A LOT.
(and i know, because I had two friends that got together- but it's probably better not mentioning that)
so here is my advice
a) be natural. And don't talk tough when you are with your mates because it will probably drive her CRAZY
b) don't call her "babe" or anything like that. It is demeaning
c) when asking her out- I know it's really clichÃ©d, but the whole "do you feel the same?" is probably the best way here. Nothing too romantic, incase you fall flat on your face, and also that wouldn't exactly be NATURAL now, would it?
If she says no, try not to ever react. Just remember, she is probably thinking "OH ****, I don't feel that way. But how can I do that to him?" (assuming you are a he)
Don't pressurise her into a relationship she doesn't want to go into. It will only cause heartbreak for both of you.

Ok, finally I want to say, if you feel ready to ask her out, and you do feel like you love her, you should ask because it's wrong to hide such deep emotions.

(ps. I'm really sorry- I'm trying not to be prejudiced, but the idea of a TWELVE YEAR OLD going out with anybody is faintly confusing to me)

(pps. Girls generally go out with boys who are older than them- they see it as pervy to go out with someone younger than themselves before the age of sixteen because boys mature more slowly- no offence)

(ppps. good luck. I mean, deep down I think that you should NOT ASK HER OUT, but that is because I am unromantic, and think that love is non-existant, and that it only causes heart-ache, and I don't want you to get hurt, which is weird cos i don't know you.
but do what you think is right)

You're 12, forget about women and dating for about 5-6 yrs, you will be alot more happy chasing other things in life, focus on your other plans and goals in your life then girls will be drawn to you.

I'm a 12 year too. well i have the same problem its a boy best friends forever. you should spend time with talk to her .see what she likes to do if you have something in common see if she will go do the thing you have in common.if shes your friend you could take her to the movies! or invite her over some time . don't ask her to be yours right after a break up wait for a week or two .

i would do it mysterious like ask her who ur perfect match is and then to list who she thinks r the cutest guys in school then tell her how u feel about her and then tell her when she dies break up with he bf if they can go out. if she says no then ask her if u can keep it between u and her girls r pretty good about that and i hope it works out for u !

advice? not I think she say a his best friend "comment"
way found she has any feelings for you give a rose and ask what she feel for you.

My brother is also 12, so this is what I would tell him. Be honest. You think she is beautiful, tell her so. Tell her how you feel and that you want to be with her. Be brave and confident. If you think it will ruin the friendship, you need to think about this and talk to her about it also. Good luck! Just remember, be honest! Make sure she is ready for you since she is about to break up with someone.

If you are friends already than all you have to do is keep acting like friends than be honest with her and ask her if she would like to go out.

Be careful! i'm 14 and u dont wanna go out with your best friend, think of what it would do to your relationship. but if you really want to, dont do it @school, over aim, or anything like that. Do it in person at a nice place. Do somthing Romantic! like decoratie her locker and say its a secret admirer, and then give her a rose (the card says "will you go out with me?) and then sign it! trust me, i would love that. lol but i dont know Amy so... all girls are diffrent

just be there for her everyhting else will fall in place start to ignore her a little but don't be mean just act busy when you talk she will start to look at you in a different way trust me good luck bud

Don't ask her two quickly though. She might need some time to got over her break up. Just be there for her as a friend and if she shows interest in you, then you can ask her out. Simple, truthful lines are always the best. Something like, "Hey, you know, we've been friends for a while and I really like you. Would you like to go out with me?"

Just be honest and real.

Tell her how much of a special friend she is and that you want her to be your girlfriend, reassure her that you'll take care of her and that shes the best thing in your life, besides your mum. If you cant do it to har face, write it in a letter, but just tell her how you feel. Good luck.

Just act lke you are more than a best friend to her. If she likes you, she will start dropping hints. When this happens, ask her out. If the date goes well, ask her on a second one.

be her friend first. let her get to know you and let her talk some. but.... make sure she asks you questions. she could be shy, but most girls are involved in themselves and need to be 'smacked' in the head to listen, lol.

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