
Vincent
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The most you can do is talk with her and wait and see if they have become sexually active, is so charges of statory rape can be filed against him as well as a TRO, and if he is convicted of the statory rape he will have to register as a sex offender.
There is another option in which you can try is that you have supervised dating, because for most parents it's not always the age thing that bothers them the most it is the not knowing what type of person their daughter is dating. |
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Crzypvt
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I would be careful. Both coal and iron miners can be a rough bunch.
If he is a gold miner with his own stake i would say you might think about the lifestyle he could afford for your child.
Good luck. |
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disturbedandconfused2006
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talk to her and be calm about it ask her if she is sexually involved with him tell her to be honest with you tell her you wont be mad you are just looking out for her. i dont know were you live but were i am its only ileagal if they are haveing sexuall relations but if she is 18 or older there is nothing you can do but if she is a minor then he can get in trouble for haveing sex with a minor |
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Tango55
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Check the Stalking laws for your state. You did not said the age of your daughter, you need to get the complete story of why this is taking place. Go to a
magistrate and file a restraint order against this individual. She must be with you, so she can give the clerk the facts. |
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COUNTRY CUTIE
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How old is your daughter?? Does she live in your house?? If she does, then it is your responsibility to make sure her and this guy are not seeing eachother, not his. She is your daughter, and should listen to you. Obviously she is not old enough or mature enough for you to trust her judgement, so you should spank her little *** and lock her in her room. Otherwise, offer to have him over for supervised visits with your family (dinner, game night, etc.) and make him gain your trust. If he has good intentions for wanting to date your daughter, then he will be willing to spend time with all of you, even if it means having her parents beside of him on the couch. Give the two of them a time limit, if he arrives at 5, make him leave by 8:30 or 9. If he is unwilling to abide by your rules, then file a restraining order. Of course, your daughter is going to have to make her own mistakes in order to learn from them. Just dont let it go too far. |
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Be-Be2007
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it is illegal and he could get in trouble |
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Polo2006
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Well for starters he cant be on your property without permission. Maybe he is stalking. When in doubt I think u know what u should do to make this guy go away. |
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M.K.
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talk to your daughter, it is all you can legally do. |
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Chikana24/7
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Send her away!!! |
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pen411
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Without the age of the daughter and the location, there is NO way to accurately answer this question.
Laws vary from state to state, and depend on the age of both parties.
Statuatory rape is an offense that does NOT need the victim to press charges, the state presses charges on the victims behalf. That the police were unwilling to pursue it implies that the age difference does not represent a crime in your state -or- that they didn't feel there was enough to go forward on. An angry mom usually isn't enough.
As long as he stays away from you, there isn't a whole lot you can do in a practical manner and locking her in the basement will sooner get you in jail than him. |
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shotzeandsami
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ASk her if they're having sex,then bust his sorry butt. |
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babygirl
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talk to her and him at the sane time. say how old is ur daughter anyway?? |
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tyty
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You can Figure a way to get him to leave her alone. Like you could tell him that she is gay, but only you and her know that she is not. Tell him that is the reson that she does not want to date him. Tell your daughter that she is not an adult but, explain that she will see love if she waits. |
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looknforamantolove
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if they are sexually together you can charge him w/ rape and if your daughter is under age you can forbid her to see him, but that's all you can do. |
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chiang-ku
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Depends on the local, state and/or provincial laws in your region. Overall, unless there are signs of physical force, coercion, or sexual contact, the male in question is within his rights to see anybody hesoever chooses to see. It is up to the female in question to agree to or deny him access. So just because you may not approve does not mean it is wrong for her to be seeing him.
Think of Romeo and Juliet. |
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mindihummer
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most of us women like to be with older men. Chances are, they have sex without kissing and telling. I was 15 and sleeping with the man across the street. He was 36. It has not effected me in any way whatsoever. I am more successful than probably anyone on this site and smarter than most. Older guys have a lot to teach younger girls. Although our society condones this matchup, I say what the fu&k. I've seen same age relationships that would make this matchup look great. Be real. Your daughter won't get hurt. She stretches. |
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bulletproof_angel
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If your daughter is under 17, you don't need your daughter to press charges. The cops probably don't want to get involved because they see allot of this and it it hard to prosecute |
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Demonic Angel
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Its against the law, I know that. Alot of people have been arested for it. There might be something wrong with what the police are saying.That happened to my sister and the 18 boy got arrested.My sister was only 14. |
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