Survivor
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Well never say, I know how you may feel, because you don't, (unless your mom has died too). Actually grieving people dont always want to hear encouraging words or hear people say I'm sorry, so just dont say anything, just be a friend and be there whenever they need you. |
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loligo1
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Take a few deep breaths, take them something to eat, put your arm around them and do what you would expect from you friends if you were in a similar situation.... |
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neilmood
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Offer your condolences ... |
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funkygyrl_rox
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Tell her/him that you are sorry for him/her loss and that you bet her/him's mom would have been a great person-like your friend. |
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DejaVu
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Just let her/him know that your here for her/him if she/he needs to talk or a shoulder to cry on. Let them know that you are available anytime. That's about all you can do. Definately don't say things like, it will be ok and I know how you feel. |
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watchout_a_smile_is_contagious
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in a situation like this sometimes words don't need to be spoken, just be there for your friend. actions speak louder than words. there is no set time to stop grieving. so if ur friend is still grieving 5 yrs later then so be it. if at times ur friend whats to be alone for a while then respect that but hopefully ur friend will be moving on with their life and doesn't let the grieving control their life. reassure them that their mother will always be in their hearts and their spirit will live on. hope this helps. |
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sclady62001p
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really there is nothing you can say just be there for her let her do the talking |
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ccflo95
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Say: It's ok!!! I'm here for you!! Everything will be all right. If you need anything I'll help! |
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♥Im Eric's Chic♥
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just please don't say "i'm sorry " after my mom died people were always saying i'm sorry i wanted to tell them, ***** get the **** out my face with that **** you know damn well it aint your faulT. then they would also say if there is anything i can do let me know, they don't mean that **** i guess those are just words of comfort |
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Happy Mama
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that you're there for ur friend, if he needs any help. |
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someguy
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let htem grieve. just let them know that youre there if they wanna talk or whatever. but its natural to grieve. |
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wingame
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sometimes silence (or few as possible words) and physical action like hug works. |
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♥Bi Bi♀ (Maldivina)
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We will all meet on the other side. |
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springo88
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just hug him/her and say that you wish you could take away their pain!be there for him/her |
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tomthebomb@rogers.com
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just tell her your sorry to here she has lost her mother and ask if there is anything you can do .Let her know that you are available to listen if she needs to talk, or just needs afriend to hold and be with. |
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dennis.freeman1@btopenworld.com
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Just carry on your normal relationship and don't be afraid to make comment about death etc. Sometimes it helps to remind your friend how their departed would react to a situation particularly a light hearted occurrence. |
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