ppk
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Try analyzing why you dont like him. Probably you could your mom the reasons why you dislike him. If your mom cares about you then she will make sure that he either changes his ways or just leaves for good. Confide with your mom. |
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sherry
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It depend on who's the problems...if it's you just try to get along! i knew some kids can't stand the fact that mom's moving on without Dad's, and if it's not dad o well..you can't be happy with someone else. If it's the boyfriend just play nice...it won't be too long before he's out of your mother life (he's not going to give you the satisfaction when you're angry with him) just play it cool. GOOD LUCK |
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Savaya
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I know this is hard, and I am sorry. This may not help you at all, does he make your mom happy, is he good to her? If the answer is yes, then you should be glad that she has someone like that in her life. I don't know how old you are, but someday you will leave your home and your Mom. Do you want her to be alone?
If he is not good to her, then try talking to her about it, make sure she knows you love her and want her to be happy, but that in your heart you feel she deserves better. You can't do this by attacking the guy verbally to your Mom, she won't hear your words if you to. |
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Edi
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Just make him choose if you care for him. If you don't, just tell your mom and she'll probably take care of the rest ;) |
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labrown_eyez
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talk to your mom but know that the reason you dont like him is a good one and not just cause you dont like ur mom to have a bf cause if u r just jealous just remember 1 day u will move out and ur mom will be lonely so u should let her be happy but if it is because you get bad vibes from him and dont think he is there for the better then talk to ur moms and let her know and dont forget to tell her u r telling her cause u love her and want her to be happy in the long run!!! |
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certifiedtarotmaster
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Unless he's some kind of monster (steals your lunch money, pats your fanny, stuff like that), just deal with it by acting with grace and style. |
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area_604
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nothing, ur mom might not like ur bf or gf, but u wouldnt want her to butt in |
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lynn
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You can't do anything about it. Mom is the adult & she gets to her choice about who to date.
Just try to see the good things that your Mom sees in him. Maybe he's funny, maybe he can teach you to drive, maybe he can just be there if you need him.
It's better to have 2 adults to look after you than one. |
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Blondeheiress
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Poor darling. Since you are young I am sure it is incredibly frustrating and hard. Perhaps get involved at more programs at school so you don't have to be home as much. Try and get the man to understand that it is hard for you. And ask your Mom for one day a week alone with her. If you can get a job after school, start one it will make you new friends and earn you money so at 18 you can move out. |
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me
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well at first my sister didnt like our step father, this was when he was just the boyfriend , but time after time , years gone by she seen that our mom was happy and that was what mattered , our mom was unselfish and was there every minute of my sisters lives and didnt have her own life, now it was her turn to be happy and my step dad is the man that completed her. We couldnt love him more if he was our biological dad. For your moms sake , tolerate and give him a chance, you will see . |
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furnace4bro
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Put a scorpion in his shoe. Hopefully he'll get sick and need to go to the hospital where he will die of complications! |
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armystud_yo
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That sucks i've been through that. Just be friendly don't create a bad atmosphere if your nice and hes a jerk your mom won't put up with that. Kill them with kindness :) If that doesn't work go in your room and stay away as much as possible. If that doesn't work give me a call i've got a spare room :) |
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M.S. Mom
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There isn't much you can do. Just try to stay away as much as possible. Explain to your mom how you feel. I had the same problem growing up and I spent alot of time with my friends families. Good luck to you. |
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Unforgettable
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If your mum's happy, just accept it. |
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pr1ncezz
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Talk to your mom about it. You should also try addressing whatever it is that upsets you with him...in a calm & respectful manner. If your mom can find some good in him, maybe it's really there, & you'll find it too. |
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Nitesh
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How old are you? If you're old enough, stop living with your mom and move out! If you're too young, then yeah, confide in your mom. It might not change much, but at least she'll know, right? |
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â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â
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You don't have to love him or let him be a substitute dad to you. Just accept it, do it for your mom. It's better for all of you if you try to accept him as your mom's boyfriend. Your mom loves him enough to allow him to move in and she trusts him enough to be around you, don't cause any friction between them. She loves you too, he won't take the spotlight. |
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lovesamystery32
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From a grown up POV, I know my neighbor goes through this. His step-kids hate him. Why? Because he puts his foot down and makes them live by rules that their mother never imposed because she was never home and never active in your life. Talk to your mom about your reservations, but if you don't like him because he is trying to become a role model, give him a chance. |
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jackelee_eng241
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try to get used to him or even talk to him heads up |
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finesexyfunny
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all you do is let your mother know and explain to her why your her daughter trust me you'll understand. |
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dmartinovich
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i dealt with this. either be a *****/dick and scare him away by being super needy like drive me here buy me that. Or you can make him out to look like this wierdo like ask questions and when he responds be like "emmmm" or ewww or just look at him like what the hell? But dont start drawing a lot of attention to yourself because then they stand together against you, you need to stand with your mom against him |
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MentalCaseMaggot
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you suck it up. It's your mom's boyfriend. I mean, you can tell her how you feel, and maybe she can talk to him for you. I tend to find that many people don't like their parents other halves because they are mad at the fact that thier parents aren't together anymore. Just my opinion. |
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bryan_daniel15
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Pray you grow up real fast and move out! |
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amberharris20022000
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deal with it for you mom act like you like him who knows it might earn you brownie points |
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dig _it_3000 techno
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try calling a good friend for advice |
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sophisticated_mama
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If your mum's happy, just accept it. |
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cathouse
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If there is an underlying reason you need to talk it out with your mom and let her know of your concern. If it is just because, then you need to find something positive about him and focus on his good points |
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reese072001
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make his life a living hell then maybe he'll leave im juss playing juss be happy for your mother cuz he probably makes her happy |
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sexie_babie
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You have to just get on with your life because your mum obviously loves this guy so you should just be happy for her but you don't have to get along with her boyfriend....,.but.... you have to talk toi him sometime then maybe you might get to like him better. |
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cupcake90210
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hey i dnt like my moms boyfriend etheir
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