
asia
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I listen to my iPod full blast.. it might not my good for my ears but it sure helps my brain no think about issues when they are hot.
Sometimes, you need a break from everything to be able to see things as what they are. Emotions kindda make you think irrational.. whereby you make irrational choices and think irrational options.
One thing you need to think, whatever and whenever "not so good thing" happens happened ... it came about so you can be a much stronger person in the end.
Wisdom lies in knowing the difference when ones life's choices isn't working well. You either move on and push hard or break lose and change pathways. Either way, we needs skills in both directions. Skills that you get out of life's experiences. I embrace and learn from them. |
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leesa
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i talk to my friends and family i look at pictures or good memories and i listen to the radio! i have so many!!! sceanted candles take a walk and a long hot bath! |
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mks 7-15-02
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proffalken1975
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think back to the last time you felt like you were winning. then pick back up and do those things again. Often we forget to do the simple things in life that make us feel like we have acomplished something. If we traceback our steps to when we were happy then we can find were we changed from the path. |
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dsgc05™
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I pretend it doesn't matter anyway. |
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i want to know
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There's no such thing as losing at love or life....they aren't contests. That being said, when I feel like nothing is going right, I do either of two things: play with my two young nephews. Nothing like like the laughter of children to remind you of what's important. Or, I watch a depressing documentary to hammer home the realization that somewhere, someone has it much worse than me. |
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JJ
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"Keep trying" |
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Llama_Gurl
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i listen to angry music for half and hour than have a hour long bubble bath and then go to sleep and hope that when i wake up it was all a dream. |
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everything's eventual
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That I am gaining experience. |
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morrowynd
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I try to change my approach. If I see there is no hope I cut my losses and move on. I do not beat myself up. You win some, you lose some. Everytime I have ever won someone else lost. That's just how it is.
"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make"
The End
by the Beatles. |
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why do i?
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sleep it off |
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asking_girl
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Well, I am a sprty girl , and I went to many competitions, and I used to win almous every time. But there are some times when I lose. People use to say that u can learn losing and winning to, and you most accept losing to. But when I'm losing I feel really bad, because I'm not so used with it, so I get a little bit nervous, but this make me more ambitios, and I start to think about how and what an I do to be more good , so I think that u can learn very much about losing, it makes you more mature, than winning. Winning is esyer to accept, and losing is quite hard, so if you accept losing is more harder than accept winning. I hope you get your answer. |
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cyclops_49304
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First you must ask yourself whether or not what you want to "win" at is worth your time. After that if you feel you need to win, accept nothing less than what you think you deserve. Dont allow yourself to lose. |
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♥ Mz Diettequila ♥
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If you can't beat 'em... join 'em !!! |
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thisgirl
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I hug my kids and look in their eyes and know that no matter what I lose, as long as I have them, then I am rich beyond compare. |
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Answer-Me-This
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When I feel like I am losing, I just remind myself that life is not some race or competition. If I find myself in a rut, or things are not going so well with my job, life, relationship, etc - I realize that it is not only me, (for example, just look at how many people have answered and also gone through the same things as you) so I just do what I can. Although many may argue life is a big competition, those are just the people that need the recognition of saying they were “better than,” or they “outdid” someone else in order to boost their otherwise low self-esteem. |
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suede1690
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think of all the less fortunate people in the world. The starving people in africa those ravaged by Aids and people who havent even got a roof over there head.Im pretty sure things will work out for you dont give in OK. |
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Ms Michelle
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set goals, work to achieve them |
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betillo
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Well try to analise yourself... in a sheet of paper divided in 4 put your strenghts, your weak points, your opportunities and things that put your goals in risk. Then try to imagine 3 options:
What would be the best to happen, what would be the most probable thing to happen and finally what is the worst thing that could happen... then prepare yourself to confront all possibilities... then you will see you will not lose anymore and if you do you are prepared for the consecuenses :) |
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The Mac
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Go to
www.joelosteen.com
This guy changed my life when everything was going wrong with my life. |
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kristikay1965
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I JUST PRAY TO GOD THAT I CAN GET THROUGH THE ROUGH TIMES AND HE BRINGS ME THROUGH IT SO I SAY PRAYER AS IT IS THE BEST ANSWER |
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hick_girl5038
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i find some way to let lose sometimes i run around the house jus sayin things really really loud and bit*hing about everything |
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