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Relentless Soul3
What do you do when you feel like your becoming a Lost Soul. I am desperate to save mine & no where 2 turnur
I just want to help myslef before it is too late, pain and tremendous fear has lead me to come on here and beg for help I have absolutly no one to talk to. I am a bright fun 30 year old female who has been to hell and back, however I wouldnt change a thing because I realise my soul has been put through this so i can evolve. I keep making bad chocies have now turned to certain things to numb this feeling of despair but i realise i cannot do this anylonger I am fading fast and I know i need to just ask the universe to now come and guide me along with your help and advice. all i want to do is love be loved and be a person who can help other people, I feel thats what lifes about helping one another, unfortunatly right now I cannot even help myself, so if you have any advice, groups, books etc, that would propel me, once again, to become the light in my own life in order so i can help my fellow mankind I would be most greatful from the bottom and top of my heart. thanks xo
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It is going to be tough to find a best answer because absolutly all of them are of tremendous help, my deepest gratitude is expressed to everyone of you, I am absolutly taking a new direction in my life because of all of your great advice, thank you all once again.!!!
                     
 




Doctor J
Please ignore the first responder. He's pointing a finger at you, which means three fingers are pointing back at him.

I would like to suggest a wonderful and powerful book that may help you. It is called "Count Your Blessings" by Dr. John Demartini (available at Amazon.com).

You sound like you are very intelligent and very aware of key aspects of life's challenges and 'what they are all about'. I suspect you are much closer to helping yourself than you realize. Read your own comments with your question - they are very astute and very aware.

Dr. Demartini's book may help you gain even greater insight about yourself and your problems and how close you probably already are to solving them.

I'm flipping through his book (I have it dog eared and all marked up!) looking for something from it to share with you, and the first things I find are these truths:
"You cannot be lifted up by anyone or anything any higher than you're willing to lift yourself up." and "You cannot be put down by anyone or anything any lower than you're willing to put yourself down." These are 'old' and time-tested concepts.

He also adds on the same page: "Only if they reflect your own opinions can other people's opinions have the power to make you feel good or bad."

Lastly, he states: "True self-worth stems from within, and when you are focused on an inspired purpose, neither praise nor reprimand can bump you off your course."

I really don't know if any of these concepts are useful to you, but there is so much in this book, I can assure you that you will find understanding and maybe even motivation about the things that are troubling you.

May I also suggest you look at your situation/challenges and ask yourself how they may be guiding you to find your purpose in life. I believe that we can overcome incredible obstacles in our personal lives if we pursue our purpose (which by definition will involve serving and helping others). So, look at your situation and try to understand where it is trying to direct or guide you. Then, taking any significant kind of action step(s) to began pursuing your true purpose will help you begin your healing/recovery process.

Best wishes and good luck.


Reticent
The answer is an easy one, but only if you seek the truth. First, find a Kingdom Hall and walk right in( a Kingdom Hall is the place of worship used by Jehovahs Witnesses). When you enter there someone will greet you with a smile, as if they knew you for a long time. Tell that person that this is the first time that you visited a Kingdom Hall and tell him, or her, what you just said here. This will cost you nothing, but it will enrich your life forever....KECK


love5
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I don't know if you are spiritual or if you have turned to God for help. My life seemed like a big waste until I finally found God and now I know my purpose in life. I feel like a new person. I'm not the type of person to try to get people to go to church or tell them they are going to hell if they don't, I don't think you have to go to church to get saved or to be close to God. A book that I read helped me understand my purpose and to reach my own personal relationship with God. The name of it is Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. Read it if at all possible. I wish you the best of luck and I will pray for you if you can pray for me as well. God Bless you and if you ever need someone to talk to , you can email me.


conundrum_dragon
Your not alone, but it's unlikely that Devinne inter vision will take place I lost my faith waiting on help in that area. Continue helping others feeds the soul, It's one of the few thing's that actually made me feel good. Remember you are not alone and there is always someone who has things worse. And smile when you do that your more likely to get a smile in return.


Nagitarâ„¢
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I'm not big into religion but I know we are all in a living hell. I spent so many years buried in drugs I missed the 1990's, but my soulmate found me in 1998. I know she saved me from myself. I wasn't looking either. Bad decisions are made when you are desperate so slow down a little. If you jump into a relationship out of desperation you may just find some a(ss)hole who is going to take advantage of you. You are the only one who can look out for yourself. Work on yourself but remember things won't change overnight. good luck


theriddle
I have felt that way too. Then, I picked myself up, turned it around, and had a great life. Now I'm sinking back into that feeling, and for a while I forgot what I had done to pick myself up the first time. But now I remember. I made myself go through my own Army training type of deal, where I woke up early everyday, and worked out at least 45 minutes every other day. I made sure I had three proper meals a day, and that at I cooked at least one of these meals per day so that I knew it was made with love. I volunteered at a Buddhist monastary. I thought about the people I loved every second of the day, and made sure that if someone saw me doing anything, no matter what it was, they would be proud of me. I put a lot of effort into trying to become perfect. It's therapeutic.
Edit: I know some people that undergo the same thing as you but can't pick themselves up no matter how much advice people throw in their face. Why? For instance my mom is always discriminated against for being French. Very few people treat her like an equal. Plus, my sister has abandoned my family, and ever since my mom has been depressed. There's no way to get my sister to give my mom the respect she deserves, and there's no way to force anyone else to do that either. It's not my advice that's going to help you. I still can't help my mom. I still can't help a lot of people. If you can, please do it.


Poppet
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I sounded just like you a few years ago. I turned my life over to Jesus, and ignored all other ways to find love. He full fills me. I now have peace. Sometimes it's hard though, because human nature still pops up, but I try through him. If it gets so hard and I can't even pray. I just breathe His name (total peace comes) Sometimes I close my eyes and picture myself rolled up like a fetus in His arms. Wow!!


jenjf5678
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Read "Life 101." I can't remember the author, but it's a fun read because it's so true.

Also, get involved with something. Join a club. Over the past few years, I've taken lessons in dance, Tai Chi, Reiki, bodywork, piano, etc. Do something you like and you'll meet people with similar interests.

Where ever you go, be friendly. One of my good friend's is getting married this summer and I'm her maid of honor. I met her at a pediatrist's office. I was a patient and she was the receptionist. You never know where you'll make friends. :)


iluvtwisters
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I hear you sis...been there and a friend gave me a book called.."The game of life for women...and how to play it"
it is only 87 pages long. yet, changed and got me back to "me" again. charged! please find it. you will be so amazed how much "you knew was always true" but people and schools dont teach it and our govt right now is making it worse. you are just fine. the way you are. love ya! chin up girl!


ladybug00120002
i feel you this year has not been good for me also. But what helps me keep on keeping on are my goals in life. Just find something that awakens your drive in life and throw your body and soul into it. If your religous go to church and find some people who you can seek friendship with. find your path and take life one day at a time.


lees girl
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Don't listen to the mean responses, Okay! You seem like you're at the bottom of your wits end which usually brings people to where they need to be in life. Things always get worse before they get better. Take my question I asked earlier, click on my name and look at the last question I asked and look at my responses. I had a very similar question. Or just go to http://fathersloveletter.com/fllnarratio...
Someone left me this link and it really helped me. Once you get to this link you just need to sit and listen, it says everything! E-mail me and let me know what you think. I'm just trying to help


windsorbins
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you know the 12 step programs really help me when i was lost, but for somewhat different reasons...the first 3 steps i use almost everyday...check out the sites below too, they might be helpful(the first site list the 12 steps)...and good luck


The Healing Hug
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All you lack is direction. Lost Souls can be saved because I once was one! Look no farther than the bible: With Compassion Lord Jesus says to you, Do not fear! Ask him for the grace to help you overcome your fears and worries. Then Wait on Lord Jesus with good courage and he shall strengthen your heart! Surely I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope! God won't let you down! Take him at his word and seek first the kingdom of heaven and all else will be added on Joy, Peace and Unity are more important than money. If God wants you to do or have something. He gives you the means of having or doing it! Don't lose your faith! Faith is believing in the unseen, and knowing who gave it when it is accomplished! In loving kindness Jesus came. My Soul in mercy to reclaim, and from the depths of sin and shame through grace he lifted me. From sinking sand, He lifted me. With a tender hand, He lifted me. From shades of night to plains of light, Oh praise his name, He lifted me. He called me long before I heard, Before my sinful heart was stirred. But when I took him at his word, Forgiven he lifted me! There Only one you need Sweetheart and that is Lord Jesus! Put him first and he will give you hope and Direction. All you need to do is pray and he will answer your prayers! I will be praying for you! Remember where all brothers and Sisters, Jesus died for are sins and this in perfectness you feel.


EDENSILK
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Don't despair.... (if you are a believer) GOD loves you no matter what, all you need to do is turn to him! go and find a church near by, or look for an "on-line church". Go and talk a counselor, you aren't alone in the world... there are people out there that love you, even if you don't know it. and you are right you have been put through trials so that you can grow and "evolve". I will be here to chat if you want, e-mail me hugh0076@yahoo.com.


idontgiveascrap
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If you are using drugs to "numb this feeling of despair" I would suggest going to a Narcotics Anonymous meeting in your area. If NA is not available then go to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting.

It is pretty much impossible to move forward when you are numbing yourself.

Best wishes.


Mon I
I admire you for reaching out. I think if you ask the universe to help you, it will... just be aware enough to see the signs when it gives you advice and answers. There's gotta be a ton of help groups in your city that you can also turn to for help. Bottom line is that you are in control of your destiny. Admitting that you want and need help is the first step for you to leading a better life. Be proud of that and keep seeking answers and your problems will be solved.


therealhumantorch
Go to an non denominational church and ask God for forgivness and to help guide you through life,snd for the help you need.GOD always loves you.


debbie
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You have pretty much answered your own question sweetie. :) Re-read your post. "You realize that you can not do this any longer". "All you want to do is love and be loved and be a person who can help other people." I have a feeling that you will. Peace.


mudusacat
You sound like you are lost and I understand where your coming from not like these other replies you have recieved.
Ya know it is so typical for peopleto jumpat aperson like
you because in a way it makesthem feel powerful.screw them.
Wellsweety you sound smart and it is the smart people that are usually the most lost.
What ever your good at do it, you would probley make a good writer.Go out for walks, smile more and find your self a friend that you can talk to because that is the best therapy ever.
We were allput here for a reason and your exsistance in this universe has special meaning.
Whatever your good at grab a hold of it and run with it and placeyourself around positive people.
Take care there are more people out there just like you and in those words find comfort because you know your not alone


lespaul_atheist
Souls don't exist, and you sound like a whiny idiot. Stop making bad choices (it's called intelligence and self-control). If you want to help other people, help other people, and stop waiting for the "universe to guide you."

Oh, and I predict that some idiot named Dr. J will talk about me pointing three penises at myself, or something like that.


tonireese0314
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You have realized you can no longer do this on your own, and you don't have to. You can lay all your cares upon the Lord and he will take them from you. If you truely give Him your problems and look to Him for guidance He will be there to carry you thru. You are in my prayers.


rarraf1843
welcome to my club lololol well i know what ur talking about today has been a day from hell my car died my money was stolen by a family member and a check oh me and my kids have to be out of the house we live my monday but you know you to think that all the help people like us do for others right now we might be getting sh*ted on but after i cryed and cryed for hours i started to think god is not going to put on us more then we can handle i know your like what ever but its true i dont know if you go to church or anything but go and let god lead your way i pryed to day that he hold my hand and help me get throw this really really bad time and i know that he will help me get on with my life so please don't stop helping people cause it will come back to you and in the end you will come out on top so be strong and love your you and have faith lots of faith if you need a friend email and we will talk i know its hard when you have nobody to talk to or just listen hope your doing okay


xxkimbo_14
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i dont really know u but thats ok...im way younger than u but i do sometimes give great advice, i have had my heart broken 3 times by the same guy...things will get better. right now u probably feel like u cant go on and u want to sit home and cry...but u cant bcuz that is a waste of time im sure u are a smart beautiful person and there isno need to put that to waste. u can help other people, all u have ot do is try..u help people with out even knowing that u do..i know my advice isnt much...but i like to help. u have to love urself before u can love others. dont live ur life in regret...live it in opportunity...take every chance u get and live life to the fullest!!


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