Aloysius
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Well tell him that your not (if your not) and if he doesn't beleive you he has no business being your husband. |
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elegante247
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you ARE still bi. you just haven't banged a chick in a while. |
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periwinkle
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Lol,
You should probably change your screen name from "BI"momtanya for starters.
Seriously though, are you being true to your self? Are you trying to convince yourself or your husband. If your husband is disapproving of you being bi or of homosexuality in general them you may be trying to appease him by denying this. He may also realize this or suspect it and that is why he does not believe you.
I advise you to be true to yourself. Denying your true self will make you miserable. But there is no need to make a definite answer for yourself.
Have you heard of the Kinsey scale?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
The Kinsey scale is a numerical representation to describe a person's sexual history and sexual orientation in terms of their former partners in respect to their biological sex.
While emphasizing the continuity of the gradations between exclusively heterosexual and exclusively homosexual histories, it has seemed desirable to develop some sort of classification which could be based on the relative amounts of heterosexual and homosexual experience or response in each history... An individual may be assigned a position on this scale, for each period in his life.... A seven-point scale comes nearer to showing the many gradations that actually exist, (pp. 639, 656) Kinsey, et al. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male
Sexual history is one's past and may not "line up with" one's orientation. The scale itself is probably the most well-known product of the Kinsey Reports. For first-hand information, consult the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction Web-site.
Kinsey himself assumed that there were only four orientations: homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, and asexual; compare sexual orientation for examples of more complex views, and Homosexuality and transgender for a discussion on the problems of the terms homo- and heterosexual.
I tend to agree with this. Everyone falls somewhere in the middle and there is no need to label everyone with a defacto sexual orientation.
Sexuality is fluid and eprhaps you are done experimenting and are actually not bi at all. Perhaps you will be again and perhaps not.
I think you need to sit down with your husband and explore this stuff together. Tell him your honest feelings and ask his. I believe you can come to some understanding. |
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TheBlackHand
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I think he is more in a state of hoping and wishing that you are still bi, that way he can have play out in real life what is probably a fantasy for him (seeing you with another woman and most likely being able to join in the action).
Just explain to him what you said here, that you just don't have these feelings anymore and you hope that he believes in what you are saying....and don't slap him, unless of course he brings some other girl home to try to make his fantasy complete... |
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janjan
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it simply means that your husband does not know you that well.. |
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2_mix'd_kids
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well if he is allowing this issue to come between u and him in a negative way then sounds like he doesnt trust you and without trust how can there be love? whatever u do, dont change urself for nobody! |
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basemanryan
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slap him |
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ladyjno7
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Why does it matter what he thinks? unless there are other people involved. Just prove it by being faithful. |
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ice
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i would tell him the truth |
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tekoan
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Get to work on being bi again. Why do you think he married you anyway? If you stop going for the occasional tuna roll, you got him to marry you for the wrong reasons. |
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js8incher
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hmmmmmmmm, y is your name bimom then? what would even cause him to question it. what made u feel u "werent" anymore. be honest w/ yourself. u r or u r not. there is no in between, bisexual is the between. LAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u get all the attention u wanted now? |
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Carbon-based
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Sounds like you may have become a Hasbean. It happens.
If your husband isn't willing to take your word for it, there isn't much you can do. It's hard to prove that you're NOT something. |
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MAS
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try to let him know by your behavior and try to prove to him by indirect way |
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