tiger lilly
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maybe your friend is not gay just because he likes to hang around with girls is not a real indication of his sexual preference, and if he is let him realize his own sexual identity and come out at his own pace. But try and not keep harassing him as it could destroy a friendship. Let him be what he wants and as a friend respect and accept him for who he is, and not who he finds attractive. |
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tabby90
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If he doesn't know, then he may not be gay. Sometimes people assume that gay people act a certain way, dress a certain way, etc. But these generalities just aren't true for everybody. I'm sure your friend will figure out what makes him happy in his own time. In the meantime, why would it matter to you? |
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chipper
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Let him or her be. When they are ready to decide to come out or not is up to them. |
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Cstorm
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You've decided that your friend is gay? Rude! What gives you the right to make the choice for him?
Figure things out for your own life, and let your friend figure things out for himself. If you're that controlling, you're a rotten friend. |
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girly
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if your friend is gay, let him be. whether or not he decides to come out of the closet, either now or later, that is his decision. just be his friend either way, and if he does come out of the closet, give him tons of support because he will need it. |
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underworld622
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well...I am gay...and i think that happened to me..if I were you I would talk to him/her about it. I bet they want to have somone to talk to...I know I did. |
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razielxm
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That doesn't make him gay. In order to be gay, he has to actually be sexually attracted to men. He may have a lot of stereotypical behavior, but if he isn't attracted to me, then it doesn't matter what else he does, he's not gay. |
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d291173
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Drop it like a hot coal.
The sooner you stop hassling him about it, the sooner either he'll come to terms with it if he is or you'll come to terms with it if he's not. You may be able to tease him good-naturedly about it in a few years, but for the moment, let it go. |
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Zorro
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Heh. We have a friend like that. Only he's married and they just took in a foster kid! But it's cool. It's his life, and he's happy.
So I'd suggest but enjoying his company, tease him if you want, but always remember to treat him like you always have. |
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goddessd64132
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if he is gay, he knows it, just doesnt want everyone else to, mind your own |
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ijrg
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well maybe he is gay, he's just not ready to come out of the closet yet, for gay people, to them its embarrising. so there for thats why they get mad when you ask, but give him some time when he's ready he'll come out. |
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pgg90789
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MAYBE THE GUY IS TRULY INTO FEMALES. |
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xclusivewear
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this is very delicate maybe hes not ready to come out the closet make sure you dont offend him by being the one to make him come out the closet by force. could cause him to hate you,or might be ashamed in front of others and might even kill himself. "DUMMY" |
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joepackman
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Ask him out !! |
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Saint Nick
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exaclty how does that make him gay?
i did that.. and i'm not a homosexual.
its possible that the 'guys' just dont liek him, and you should leave him alone, cause he knows what he knows, and if he's gay, he knows, he doesnt need you to tell him. and if you wanna know, then ask him if he's gay. its pretty simple. |
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Mrs.S
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You should be patient and let your friend "come out" when he is comfortable. |
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me me me em
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you tell him that he is gay |
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