
Imaka
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I agree with the previous posters .... show him that you are worth much more than him and deserve much better than him and find a great new man! |
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Reticent
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You need to forget this fool and go on with your life. Iam a man and I can tell you with certainty that when a man cheats on you he will do it again. I worked with over 200 men at my place and the same guys were having the same problem with that all the time. |
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Grace
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Success in your own life. If you are spending time trying to get even, the ex is still taking time away from what you want for your life. Why waste time on someone who doesn't want to spend any with you? |
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northwoods99
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There's an old expression, "The best revenge is living well." Just move on, be as happy as possible without him and let him eat his heart out. |
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Dr. Ruth Less
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Get your self looking better than ever, find a better looking more successful guy and have a good time. When he sees that you are doing better without him he will try to come back. Don't be a fool. When he tries to come back just laugh in his face. |
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mister
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Date his best friend. |
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HONORARIUS
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Have sex with his brother, best friend, or father... |
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naturalway42
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Just have another guy friend around him, more if you want burn him more.
But I will tell you this - its best to forget; good for you and really indeed burns the other person that you forgot them. |
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banana_bean01
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I know we all from time to time feel like killing the one person you gave all of your love to, but I know you know you are better than that. Just let it go and let KARMA take care of him. Cheer Up! |
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Lightworker
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As you can see, almost everyone suggests you should just move on and forget. I know how you feel, believe me. Your desire to get even is enormous, yes, and you think it will make you feel better...well, it WILL make you feel better, but just for a while!
But then, when that "pleasure" is over, you will feel empty. And if you get back at him in a cruel manner, you will even regret it!
So, PLEASE, just move on and be happy. You don't even need to find a new boyfriend right now (especially if you are still hurting.) It wouldn't be fair for the new guy, and again, you would feel empty.
Have you ever heard of Karma? Well, then just try to be happy!!! He will get what he deserves. |
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Einstein
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Don't tell anyone he has HIV..thats a bunch of crock an can get you into trouble for defamation of character.
Move on...don't waste your time on him. |
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Captain Hitsugaya
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Go up to him and pretend that you want to apologize and be friends w/ him. Video tape a guy **** in a batter of brownies. Bake the brownies, give it thim, along with the tape while he's eating it. |
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scorpio
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Get a new man and flaunt him right in your ex's face... |
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Jennifer Gore
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EVER THING HE AS GOT EXPENSIS YOU GET IT AND TURN IT ON AND AND THROW IT IN SOME NASTY WATER WHER IT CAN REUIN BUT ONLY GET HIS THINGS WHEN HE IS ASLEEP OR NOT AT HOME |
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BaFfler
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Success is the best revenge.
Get a new, better man. |
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swt_hmf
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Honestly all of the above^^^ lol |
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Nalysa
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The VERY best way is to never let him know it bothers you. Move on with your life, be happy and fulfilled.. and remember that HE is the jerk.. and YOU are much better off now that he is out of the picture. |
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ajhines8
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I was very upset with my ex and while he was at work I made a call to our local radio station wich six days a week you can buy sell or trad things. I had told my ex I would sell everything of mine in the mornig on the radio and be gone when he got home. Instead I put his stuff on there. Pick up trailor and boat with fishing grea and both tv's to say the least I got him home and his attention. good luck |
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o0_sweetie_yai_0o
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Here's one idea:
Date his best friend and/or a close guy friend. And try and become good friends with ALL of his friends. He'll see what he screwed over...and who knows, by dating his best friend you might find another love opportunity. =)
Good luck! And trust me...you're better off without him. |
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therachel966
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Get his cell phone, and a tape recorder, alter your voice and call everyone in it with an annamous tip that he is HIV positive, that will teach him a lesson about cheating!! |
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mslsgiss
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My mother told me about something called, let lone bread. Just leave him a lone, that will hurt him more. |
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muchachaoma
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Make him jealous. Find yourself a sweet hot guy you really like. |
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lola
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I would do just as you are doing now I know how hard it can be to keep silent but getting even isn't the answer. it could lead to more trouble .Let it up to God he has his ways of taking care of any situation. |
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LittleCat
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This is my suggestion. I know that there is alot of anger. I am a survivor of an abusive marriage my ex cheated and I had a fiancee that did the same thing . Yeah there is a lot of anger, but realize that he is not worth the energy.
You have to cool off and learn to get over it, it's not worth getting flared up over, just let it go. the guy is a low life and so is the girl that he cheated with.
I know understand you 100% and I am sorry about your experience. Know this, justice will serve itself. What goes around comes around, that girl will get hers and he will get his.
My fiancee who cheated on me came crawling back on his hands and knees later because he learned that the his ex girlfriend the one that he cheated with was living with another guy and she was just wanted to break up the engagement.
It sometimes happens sooner than what we think and other times it takes time.
Hang in there. There is nothing wrong with having the attitude that GOD will handle it. Since you believe in God, remember this He has said " I will forgive whom I forgive, for thee, it is required that the forgive all men"
Not easy but there you go.
Good luck ;) |
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Trey45
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Grow up and get over it, you're better off without a cheater in your life, be happy you found out what kind of low life he is. |
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needhelpnow
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Let go and let God. You need to take the high road and be the better person. The best revenge is being happy. He is obviously not worth the time and effort to make him feel bad for what he has done. In the long run, you will regret what you do to hurt him back, not because of his feelings but because you will be exactly like him. You will be no better. The tables will turn and you will be the low-life because he will drag your name through the mud. He doesn't care about you obviously and will go to any lengths necessary to justify himself and his actions. So let him discover karma. He may just get cheated on or better yet an STD for being such a heartless loser. |
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