
gimmebackmybullets
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If you ever listen to anybody in your life--listen to me now.....step away from the married man!!!! he will cause you nothing but pain and misery. There are 900 billion other guys to choose from--let the dumb-a s s that married him-put up with him. Go find a real man--not a back-stabbing-2-timing little worm of a man like this guy.
You don't want to be "the other woman" - do you? |
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sherasi
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Does "Young" mean "under-age"? Then DEFINITELY NOT. Illegal and just wrong.
If he is married, he is not likely to leave her. Trust me, he has played around before on his wife. A man like that will say anything to get a little something from an attractive young girl.
You are better than this. You don't need a married man.. besides if he DOES leave her for you.. what makes you think he won't leave YOU for someone else more desirable later?
"The Grass is always Greener.." is most apt phrase. What it means is that once he is grazing on what he CAN have (which was FORMERLY what he couldn't have)... he will be seeing what he CAN'T have... and want it more. It is a cycle that likely will be repeated many times. |
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Loss Leader
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So, let me get this straight. Some old guy is married and he has a home and a job and maybe kids. The only thing is doesn't have is someone that makes him feel young and immature and free like he was when he was single. You come along and give him that. You let him act like a tennager, like a young kid who has no responsabilities. Of Course he loves you. He loves the fact that he gets all the benefits of being old and married and established and all the fun of being young and moronic.
Do you honestly believe he will ever give up the life he has built with his wife? And if he did, do you honestly believe he would start from ground zero and rebuild all those things that he just gave up with you? And if he did, do you honestly belive he will stay with you and not cheat on you the first time some Younger girl makes him feel good about himself?
Whatever he has told you, the truth is that this is a selfish, selfish man. He only cares about making himself feel good. He doesn't care how much he hurts his wife. He doesn't care how much he hurts you.
Run. Run far away from this man. Don't take his calls. Don't see him. Don't help him cause pain to his wife (and ... children?). Find someone who is actually single. Find someone who actually wants to build a life with you.
I realize you will ignore this advice. Just remember that you had a chance to change your path and you, not he, chose to live like this. |
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sshazzam
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Sounds like a GREAT Jerry Springer episode.
Send it in. JerrySpringer.com |
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moan
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this is tough...i cant tell u dont do it...cus u probably will anyway...if he loves u he will not want to be with his wife and if he's willing to leave his wife for then by all means..if not ...then it does not make sense pursuing this love interest as he will probably be with his wife most of the time leaving you at the rotten end of the stick. good luck! |
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MumboVonJumbo
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DON'T BE A DUMMY all you will ever get from him is sex. |
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Lanah
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How young are you? If he loves you then why is he still
married?? Don't you know that married men only fool around
with young girls?
Do something great for yourself & get out of this relationship! |
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Sjean
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Get away as fast as you can. Married men very rarely leave their wives for their girlfriends, especially if they have children. And if he did, then he'll probably do the same thing to you.
And what about how damaging it is for women to try to take another woman's man. |
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msally1965
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He only wants one thing from you and when he gets it he will be gone, back to his wife. |
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furnace4bro
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As a grown woman, I would realize that young girls need to not be worried about married men!
Honey, they always say what they think you want to hear, if it means being able to continue getting into your panties.
If I were you, I'd tell his wife, and then dump him.
You deserve better! I don't have to tell you that though. You already know this or you wouldn't be asking that question on here.
If he is over 18, and you are under 18...well, I'm pretty sure that you're smart enough to figure out what that means.
You need to worry more about things that are appropriate for your age. Whatever that may be.
And he should, (and does), know better than to be messing around with your emotions and cheating on his wife. |
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thylawyer
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Run away. If he'll cheat on his wife, he'll cheat on you. |
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ab1609
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Did he give you a date for his divorce?
If no, he is just using you.
If yes, wait until after the divorce. |
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itsmeee2006
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He doesn't love you. He is most likely using you. How much younger are you anyway? Listen, don't let this man use you! Remember, he told his wife the same lies he's telling you. |
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~niknak~
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break up the marriage!!haha j/k he is the one who needs to find out what hes gonna do |
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Chikana24/7
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girl look for another man cause he does not love you and he never will! |
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Ready2Go
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Why would you want to be with a man that is so selfish that he wants to have his cake and eat it too? He is not going to leave his wife even if he says so. In the off chance that he did leave her, statistics show that 95% of relationships that begin as adultery only last 6 months. If he is willing to cheat on her, he is willing to cheat on you. Don't be a louse, ditch this jerk. |
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deep_sea
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no way. Leave him as soon as possible. |
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bowkeradam
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not sure sorry =-) |
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*aNg3L*
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girl he don love u he juss sayin that to keep wtv u guys got going. u r considered a mistress n his wife is da 1 he loves....if worse come 2 worse u kno his wife is gon come first n u n him r gon b kaput--finished..so U shud end it don even wait 4 him..n plus u don want to b tha cause 2 break up a happy marriage u dont want the title "home wrecker" cuz that WILL b ur title..n also he don love u he loves her shez gon b da 1 going on the vacations,going to the work dances, meeting the parents shez alwyz gon have more on u dont waste ur tyme on some1 who will consider u 2nd u need to go on out there n find someone who will put u b4 n e 1 n n e thing else u don wana b a sloppy second. so i hope u take my advice n DUMP HIS STANK ***! have a good day! =) |
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starbright
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STAY AWAY. MARRIED MAN OR WOMEN. ARE ONLY OUT LOOKING. FOR WHAT I STILL DON'T KNOW. BUT HE CAN'T LOVE YOU AND HAVE A WIFE THAT HE GOES HOME TO. THINK ABOUT IT. |
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gansta_mom69
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I think this man has issues and needs help. Why would a grown man want a younger (depends on age 17 is too young)girl, maybe he has an identity crises and needs to see a shrink. If he is married then he should be faithful, y b married in the first place if he justs wants someone else. Tell his wife and for sure you will get your wish, but if they do it to thier wives then be sure he will do it to you. |
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pixiecubby
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whats wrong with him if he is married he should not be going around saying that he loves you that's just not right.
lose himlike a sore thumb he'll never leave his wife for you and don't believe him when he says that he will. |
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