shojo
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Sometimes the people who care about you can see things you're too blinded by love (or lust) to see. Listen to their objections, and carefully examine each one. If I'd done the same, I wouldn't have ended up fighting for my life after a gunshot wound from a man I loved so much, but everyone else hated. They were right. |
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hellbutttoilets71829563284132953
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Just ask them. |
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puertorock882003
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leave him with the Humane Society, Dogs usually get the best care over there, and they have a good track record with finding families that will love him |
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morrowynd
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Remember you cannot see the situation objectively. Others can. He may be bad for you. He may not care for you the way you deserve. Ask "everyone" why they don't think you should be with him. Make them get specific and don't get mad at them when they tell you. It's not easy telling someone something like that. But they care and that's why they do. Look at the situation and try to step back and see it. Don't make excuses to yourself. If you can't be honest with yourself, you will never hear anything but lies. |
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brandandam
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depends...my mom has always been right about that sort of thing. listen to your mom |
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knowsitall
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It depends who you mean by no one.
If it is your family they may have a bad feeling about him, and think that you will be harmed by being with him and they may be right.
It is OK to love and care about someone but don't mess your life up over him, please. Remember, YOU come first. You will always be in love with someone and there will be others.
Men come and go but you have only one life and you can only be responsible for you. |
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kalina_ca
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ask him how he feels. If you both feel that you belong together, then that is all that matters. The decision is yours and his alone, do not let others influence you. |
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hot_rocker_guy_on_you
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it doesnt matter what anybody else wants its what you want if he makes you happy stay with him if he doesnt dump him |
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wvchick
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go for it..all of the other ppl are with who they want right?...it isnt their love life to be messing with...do what you want and feels right |
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â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â
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It's nice that YOU love him and care about him but why does no one else want you to be with him? That kind of stuff has to come from somewhere. Ask those people why they don't want you to be with him, maybe they see something you just don't.
At times, love can be fatally blind. My friends and family hated my last ex, as much as I hate to admit it, they were right about him. In fact, I have a restraining order against him. |
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Smoove
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If the feeling is mutual, go for it, nothing and no one else matters except you two. |
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Classy Lady
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Well first, what is it that everyone dislikes about him? because if it's bad things like abuse, cheating, married, kids etc. then you should reconsider him being your "soulmate" forever because just think...you are contemplating spending a long time with this person. You have to ask yourself "Can I see myself married to this individual"? and also you should go with your first instinct and don't take second best because there are way too many good guys out here to be overly fascinated with one dude and is he good to you? what is it about him that you like so much? |
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TARAN
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if u love him. forget about what other thinks.
good bye |
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startwinkle05
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Well, it kind of depends on WHY no one wants you to be with him. Is he abusive or something? If it's nothing like that, maybe they know something about him that you don't and you should ask why they don't like him. If it's because of something he has done to you, you have to decide if it was bad enough to make you not want to be with him. If they just simply don't like him...........too bad. If it IS because of something he did.........people CAN change. |
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Rache
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You need to decide if you love him because you really love him or you love him because you think you need him. There is a reason none of your friends or family like him, although it tough to see for yourself and it takes a while to actually let him go it will be for the best in the end. There is always going to be someone better for you out there. |
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myjamai05
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u should think about y no one wants u two 2b together, really think about if that will affect your future, or not. But if what other people think about you and your decisions doesn't matter than go for it be with the one you love. |
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Summer
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Don't listen to what people are telling you, listen to yourself. People will say things to make you thing negative but you need to follow your heart. If you really love him then you need to move on with him without caring about what others are saying. Does he love you?? If yes then go for it because it's hard to find true love. Have faith in him. Good Luck!! |
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mom2
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when you love someone enough to hurt then you must keep your love, but move on to someone who wants it. if love isnt shared equaly then its not fair to you, you will be misrable. you deserve better for yourself. theres someone even better out there for you, just be patient it will happen. |
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blackcenterless
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If you know what true love is and you feel that you'r in love with this guy then stick it out with him follow your heart because if you don't you might miss out on love.Think about why they really don't want you with him and if it's a good enough reason for you.Never let nothing come between family cause that's all you got, he may come and go but fam. is forever |
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imarriedaricks2005
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You know where you're heart is. My husband and I went through a lot of drama for four years. I stayed by him through the hard times and now we are one with God. |
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fnaitken
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don't asked so sad around him ! act as if you don't care and you never will ! and then start going out with another lad and see if he gets jealous ! if he does go up to him and say " look i saw how you reacted with another boy so if you like me just say ! " . but if he shows no interested forget about him he is not worth all that. but if you still want more advise go on |
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Michelle
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If he makes you happy and its not a bad relationship- sometimes your going to have to not listen to the things people say - have selective hearing in one ear and out the other. If you truly liked this guy or even loved him doubt wouldnt enter your mind on the step you should take. |
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binamarie
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why does your friends or family not want you with him? if he is abusive mentally, physically, or verbally then you shouldn't be with him. no one deserves to be abused in anyway. if he doesn't do any of that and truly loves you, then you friends, if they are true friends, will learn to deal with the fact that you are going to be with him no matter what. if your friends or family are seeing something that you are not, ask them what it is and ponder their response and make your decision from there. just be careful in what you decided, you might end up hurting someone you love. take everything into consideration before you leap. |
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rabbitsboysmonkeys
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if you love him and care about him who cares what people say just be with him |
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ivyabney
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Well, this happened to me once. What I did was just ignore all of the other people who were saying stuff about him. Finally, they gave up and tried to exept him. Now we are still together and extreamly happy! Don't listen to what other people have to say. As long as your happy and he is happy, too, then just let everyone else exept him. They may not at first, but eventually they will finally see that you are happy and thats all that matters. |
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