valsbunny
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Who ever said hang yourself your a f*******ing jerk. It takes some nerve to tell anyone but you will feel so much better when you do. Start buy telling your best friend then go from there. Its hard but when everyone heres about it you'd be surprised to how many people that has happened to. Even though its hard you should let people know, and dont for one second feel ashamed about it either. |
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Nana
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That's a hard one. The first and biggest and most important step is to tell someone. A best friend or her mom is the best one to tell first. Than they will help you from there. |
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ironhead041550
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No don't hang yourself!!! You should not feel ashamed or embarassed. Go to an abuse counselor or call an abuse hotline. You should not keep this to yourself because if the abuse is ongoing you need to get out of that situation. There are also crisis counselors. You really should talk with someone you know and trust because that is the first step to getting some what over the experience. You need to let someone know what is going on for your safety. Wish you all the luck.Take care of yourself. |
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Diamond in the Rough
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How about this, since its hard for you to articulate the word of your abuse, write it down on paper and give it or mail it to a counselor at school or a family member. If you can tell us you can tell someone who can end the problem for you. Good Luck |
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littleimp11@sbcglobal.net
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Well, your 1st step is that u just told us. Why is it so hard to tell?U need to talk about it are u may have more problems |
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Richard H
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talk to a counselor |
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nolagirl504
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Quietly go to the police about this or call a hotline. Maybe you should talk to your friend or anyone you truly trust. Do you think you can help me. Click on my name. |
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Nita and Michael
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I went through this for many years and it only get's worse..no matter how scared you are tell some one and get out of the relationship before something really bad happens to you..if you can put up with abuse then you can be strong enough to tell someone.... |
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Frodo Baggins
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Well are you in a abusive situation right now?? What town are you in? I actually work at a domestic violence shelter and I am at work right now. You are welcome to send me a private messgae and we can talk. |
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cloeen
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Well, you can always talk to GoD! He will help you!! I n the night when you have no person to talk to call upon the lord--if you are not saved -- U have to know u r a sinner-then ask to be forgiven! God will help you --if you let him--I'll help you if you will let me!! God Bless--God can heal your broken heart ! Give you new life!!Life abundantly!! Amen he can!! BYE |
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eliscano
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Please talk to someone who is not emotionally attached to you. A priest, minister, or rabbi. Maybe a counselor. And, if it's physical, I might add: The Police. I know it's a hard thing to do and even harder to admit to everyone what happened, but find the courage to confront your abuser before they choose another victim. |
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stillenjoying
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hang yourself |
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tigrisow
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i was abused--sexually...it was my abuser who came out and confessed and then my parents talked about it with me...but they were supportive...
tell someone...b/c if you hold it inside, it'll make you into a non-trusting, control freak, people-hating person...if you wanna talk, email me at tigrisow@yahoo.com...if you have any other questions... |
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SD_NetAdmin
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I don't know how old you are. The answer will depend. If you are still a minor, go to a school counselor, call the abuse hotline, talk to your minister. If you are an adult, get in touch with a counselor - fast! You need to talk about this with someone who will be able to help you out. I'm not talking about helping you out legally or anything, I mean being able to work on this issue and move on with the rest of your life. The longer you wait, the longer it will take to resolve this issue in your own head. Best of luck. |
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mochajoy
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its easier to tell a counsler at school than a best friend on these kind of subjects for me |
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someguy
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just do it. on like msn. its not hard to tell them on msn. just type it and press enter and be all "oh crap i shouldnt have said it oh crap oh crap oh crap" in your head. i do that sometimes with stuff. |
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chuck51602
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Being abused is a very delicate issue. For one, I am sorry your being abused if this question pertains to you, friend.
First thing I would try to do is look into a hurtline phone number; make the call outside your home if its a domestic abuse. If fear has got you nailed to the floor and your mouth stitched up, then your better off going to the library and researching ways you can free yourself from this person that is inflicting physical and emotional abuse on you. I understand the public embarrassment of going public and going to the police, but sometimes you have to if you want it to stop. Remaining in an abusive relationship leade to death. So I suggest you find someone to talk to and that can help you, and put your thoughts about embarrassment and dignity behind you and think about your own life. Remember once you leave an abusive situation, you can always start all over and pick up the pieces of your last happy memories... |
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meapai
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Tell your story online in a support group. Then tell it again. As you tell more and more people it should become more easy to tell people in real life. |
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michigan_lady2
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you can be abused by a parent a boyfriend a girlfriend a husband a wife being quiet about it gives the person who hurt you power being away from the abuser and talking about it does a lot of good for you - speaking from experience you dont have to tell all somethings you might think to horrendous to share but your best friend should be able to handle it my email is michigan_lady2@yahoo.com if you need a friend or need to talk - Good Luck and God Bless |
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cookiemvh
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You need to tell someone you can trust. The worst thing you can do is keep it a secret forever. It will eat at you. Tell someone you know can help you when you feel the time is right. |
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kia
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you should tell your teacher at school. when you tell your teacher, she will have to get you help. |
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brrmchl
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Tell a counselor. that would be best. Or the Police |
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katgurl62185
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You need to find the courage to tell someone, so you can get out of that situation. You can do it! |
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Mr Duh
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You have to tell someone soon. If your 17 or younger tell your parents. Or if one of the parents have done this horrible thing tell the other parent. If neither beleives you.You need to call the police and make a statement no matter what your age is. You need to do this soon!! |
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nurnadiana_16
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it is better you inform the right authorityu so they can save you from the suffering... please inform the right person.. you will definitely gain something from it... i am also one of the abuse victim and is leading a happy life in a safe environment... |
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Ekin
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Remember that, This is not the end of the world. and always think that, there are more people out there who've been abuse everyday. :(
how to tell or who to tell ?
Na.. I think these days this one is easy. We have online material, for example, if u have ur personal blog (of coz,assuming that ur detail are not revealed to public, plus people do/will read ur blog ) u can write on your blog dear. express whatever u feel and perhaps one day people with realised what happen around them and they will react.
Or maybe an online friend could be another option. rather than ur real friend.
last option, mm write to a newpaper/mag. Tell them your problem. |
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c;iffchick
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First off ignore the hang yourself idiot. As a counselor in a correctional facility I have dealt with a lot of vicitms of abuse that did not talk about it and turned to unhealthy ways of coping. If you can not talk to anyone you know about it call a hotline and get it out. They will be able to lead you in the right direction. Keeping the crime that has happened to you a secret is also a crime. God bless you. |
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systemsupspec
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report it to someone. |
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ryanceasar_delim
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you cant tell any body for what reason?? you feel ashamed of what happen or youre just scared of wath will be the outcome of that secret!! trust me you should tell somebody or in other way tell us and we can help you!! you already said that you have a problem. so why dont you tell us and we will see what we can do!!! sometimes unknown people like us is more reliable that those people that you really rely on!! tell somebody it will make life more easier to life than living in the shadow of a cruel past!! once you done it everyting will fall on it's right place |
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