
sweet&sexy
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if your whole origanal reason for going to disneyland was to help your friend have the time of her life how can you help her do that if she is at a funeral and you go without her i say push back disneyland till she is able to go and have the time of her life with her friends as to whether you go to the funeral that is your choice on whether you can handle it but support your fiend anyway |
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Shelly
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I'd say go to the funeral. You can go to Disneyland any other time but you need to be there for her. Going to Disneyland won't let her mourn, just delay her feelings and she'll never see her grandpa one last time. GO TO THE FUNERAL! |
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braquasun
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I agree with Lauren. I know that you've made plans but sometimes things happen. You need to go to the funeral and plan another trip to help her with the grief of her grandfather. Be supportive to her thats what friends are for. |
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a kinder, gentler me
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Go to the funeral. Who cares what the ex-best friend is doing anyway? |
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daouk
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live your real life welcome to the club |
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little debbie
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well first of all is lauren the friend that wants to forget the other friend. if so then yeah as friends maybe you should go to the funeral and then next saturday or even sunday go to disneyworld. would it really be as fun without one of you. if lauren isnt the friend that needs to forget about the friend than whoever does still needs to be there for lauren because the rules still apply to being there for each other. is it really going to matter if you wait one day extra or a week. |
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clare_here
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Only you can decide on the right decision to make.
Friends support friends. You can support Lauren by going to the funeral on Saturday, then support your other friend by doing something fun but quieter that evening. Perhaps you can go to Disneyland on Sunday, but understand and accept if Lauren doesn't want to go.
Another way to support Lauren and your other friend is to write little notes or cards that you give or mail to them. When bad things happen, it helps when friends share of their time and their love and their support. |
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angelia
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Funerals are for the people that are close to the family of the deceased to say goodbye and to celebrate their life. If you were close to them then you go, if not then give the family some time. |
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theehopeless1
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Go to the funeral. Your friend needs your support, an dyou can go to disneyleand any other time. |
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jay
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i think the right thing to do is to go to the funaral! her grandparents died! what if it happened to u ? u would want ur fraiends to come! |
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james007np
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Merge your heart and mind...there you go, decision is your!!! |
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