Foxy Goddess
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If you have to ask this question, you're clearly not ready. Your heart will tell you when you're with the right person and it's the right time.
If you have even the tiniest bit of doubt about going ahead with your first time, STOP! You can always save it for another time, but once you've done it, you can't undo it. There is nothing worse than sleeping with someone for the wrong reason.
Generally speaking, there's often a huge emotional investment when it comes to a girl's first time. While your first time won't be the best time, and sex gets better the more you do it, that's no reason to set lower standards.
Your first time certainly doesn't have to be all roses and teddy bears, but at least make it something you remember with fondness rather than regret. The best thing you can do to ensure that, is to choose the right person, and let it happen naturally. If anything feels forced or "wrong", it's not the right time.
If you want to wait till marriage, there's nothing wrong with that - however, with around 50 per cent of marriages ending in divorce, I can't see any good reason to make a fuss over it. People can be married on paper and it's all for convenience - yet others for whatever reason aren't married but love each other with total commitment and don't need a legal bond to live up to the expectations of a spouse. I think that people who are devoted out of love and not a legal tie deserve far more respect than people who are in a loveless marriage. |
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I Know - Pick ME
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You'll know. One day you'll just think "this is it, i'm ready". That's what happened for me. |
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Chels
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If you don't want to have sex with him, don't. If he can't respect your decision, go find someone else who does. |
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bibidiboo1
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then if u dont feel ready dont do it when ur ready only u will know dont let any 1 pressure u into it u dont want to regret ur decision so id say wait untill u feel the time is right .Also when u do decide its time use protection. |
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hergestamarok
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Somewhere along the line you are going to be with this guy or another guy and you will feel aroused enough that you will want to continue onto full sex, until that time just allow and enjoy a bit of petting or even maybe fingers or oral that would be building up for the full thing.
One thing I would not do is wait until your married, that one is for misguided scared fools. you vow to stay with one person for life blah de blah then find he's a *** hole or that he only satisfies himself and not you. religious laws on this are just ways of keeping inadaquate partners hopefully tied to their spouse. if you then dont have sex with him he'll get it elsewhere if he's useless you might need to get your itch scratched by his friend or some such.
best to get your practice runs done before you find mr right or maybe by doing it you will find mr right anyway. good luck |
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CALAVA
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When you're married. |
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durb1215
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well there is your answer if you think that you arent ready then you arent
youll know when you are ready it wont be a question you need to ask anyone |
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lostinlove
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I would say you should wait until you are married. There are a lot of guys who will say they love you or say anything else they think you want to hear just so you will have sex with them. I think you should wait until you have dated the same guy for a long time before you give your virginity to them. It hurts your heart to give in to someone only to be dumped by them because they think your easy. If you're not ready then say no if he leaves you then you know thats all he wanted. |
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hollabak_at_me
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You will know..just let loose and dont stiff up. |
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supernatural5329
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when you feel ready without any pressure from the guy. if you don't feel ready, don't have sex. sex often complicates relationships anyway, and besides, some guys just stick around until they get sex. any guy who won't wait is not someone you want to share your first experience with anyway. it should be special and not coerced. i would say, ideally, wait until marriage. times are changing though, so if you do not agree with waiting that long, at least wait long enough that it will be a positive and not negative experience. after all, you will probably always remember your first time. |
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dragonberry_huckefly
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don't worry about it, you'll know when your ready and don't let anyone pressure you into it until you are |
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tiger_x76
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If you have to ask that question, you're not ready. (and you don't lose it, you give it.) |
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Maximus_2007
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You will be ready to lose your virginity after you are married. If he really loves you he will wait. Trust me, you are young, and you only think you know what you want, and what is best for you. Waiting by far is the best option. |
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unluckyone
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either when your married or 62 whichever comes latest. all kidding aside if he likes you enough he will wait. don't let anyone push you into something you are not ready for. a teenager with a kid is not fun so cover it up when you do decide |
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Tom
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When you are ready, you will know. It will probably be on your honeymoon. I recommend waiting until marriage. It is disgusting if you do it outside of marriage. |
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chiefof nothing
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On your honeymoon! |
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bye
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When you have become emotional wealthy, spiritually enlightened, physically independent, and TRULY IN LOVE, to the point, where he DOESN'T have to ask, nor expect it--it just happens.
Hopefully, when you are in college 18-21. I believe it is a perfect age, when you know your true emotions, you have firm beliefs, and you can maintain your independence apart from your parents.
Good Luck and prosper...;*!*;... |
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Bonnie ♥
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After you both say "I do" in front of your friends and family. |
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recalltotal001
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As soon as you start to feel the orgasm. |
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ericamohod
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THIS IS A ? THAT ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER. ONLY YOU KNOW WHEN YOUR TRULY READY.IF YOUR HAVING DOUBTS ABOUT IT THEN YOUR NOT READY.DON'T LET HIM (OR OTHERS) PRESSURE YOU INTO IT. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO SHOW HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM W/O GIVING HIM YOUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFT. IF HE FEELS THE SAME ABOUT YOU HE WON'T MIND WAITING UNTIL YOUR READY....NO MATTER HOW LONG THAT MAY BE. |
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andyd_m
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You will know when the time is right. |
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beachbayb11
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after marriage!!! |
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