The GODFATHER
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Are we talking about Mental Aggressive or physical pain ?
The old saying goes it takes two to tango, when you two stop dancing the floors together and get your acts together in the same frame of mind , try talking things out in a simple tone of voice, without other people adding their two cents into your conversation. most problems can be avoided by communication, and understanding why each of you feel the way you do. The abusive behavior has to stop as well as the physical part too. you must of had a good reason for still loving this man , perhaps your looking at this matter allot more different than people writing to you see it behind a brick wall. because your there and we're not. If at first you don't succeed with communication then leave him and give it a few days for him to be alone then he'll come to his senses and wonder why you left him, then you can talk in a simple tone of voice about what the problem is between you two and work things out from there.. Good luck ! |
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Jenova
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You know you must give up on your love for him when the pain he gives you becomes physical. Stop immediately, and seek help and healing. |
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Bubba
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try counseling maybe a pastor or even a paid one if you can't get him there maybe its time to go |
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Bungie
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I couldn't do it for 1 years, then he walked out on me. There was no physical abuse. Just drunk and gone all the time. I lost my life. |
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scrappypapa@sbcglobal.net
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You know that physical pain goes a way after time. Mental pain stay with you forever. You need to get your bags pack and go now, before he hurts you bad. My father would convicted both types of pain. At one point he was choking her and if i had came in from playing, she would probably dead. Finally, my mother and us kids pack and left him. |
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garypopkin
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What does it mean to "love" someone who gives you pain? Must be you. Get psychoanalytic help to understand yourself. Then you will know what to do. |
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sosunny
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Finish with him immediateley! He will always say, he loves you, when he gave pain to you and says sorry. But what do you think? Is it love, when someone beats you? |
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sean_mchugh6
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id say never. you gotta keep drudging through like the rest of us. keep on trying, there is hope.
i wish you the same kind of luck i wish myself and that is a lot! |
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canadianlover57
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to give up is not defeat, if he returned that love, there would be no pain ? don't you agree? sometimes some things are not meant to be, you have your whole life ahead of you and you deserve someone that loves you without all the pain and sorrow... it may be hard to do, but my guess is that you will come to know it was the right decision to make ... good luck ! |
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pasolini
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I hope you dont mind my saying this, but love is something precious, and good marriages increasingly rare today, so maybe it would be nice to never leave your husband, no matter how much of a pain he might be at times. Remember the good points about him and try to resolve your difficulties together. Maybe he is also in some sort of crisis, or carrying some burden? |
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