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curious girl | Why am i so unattractive? |
i have black hair, dark brown eyes, full lips, dark skin, 1/3 cherokee indian and 2/3 white..ill be 16 in a couple of months and i have never had a b/f..no one has even ever told me im kinda pretty or nuttin like that..i want to find a guy to like me for me but i also want to be attractive..is that wrong? i want to feel good bout myself..ppl tell me that if i have more self respect and feel good about myself, more guys will be attracted..is that true? and help me please..
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thank all of you for your help..i will take it all into consideration...my email addy is nshea4u@yahoo.com..so if u dont wanna put it on here email it to me...thanks a lot...curious girl |
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pgg90789
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YOU MENTION A COMBINATION THERE MY YOUNG FRIEND,YOUR DARK SKIN,DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE PAY THROUGH THERE TEETH,FOR DARK SKIN AND THICK LIPS.AT LEASE WITH THICK LIPS,WHEN YOU START KISSING IT WOULD NOT DAMAGE YOUR BOYFRIEND TEETH,(SMILE)TO ME YOU HAVE IT ALL,ENJOY IT,USE A LITTLE MAKE UP.THIS WOULD HELP TO BOOST YOUR MORALE. GOOD LUCK.PS YOUR LIFE IS JUST BEGINNING,YOU WILL LEARN AND GET A LOT OF TIPS ALONG THE WAY.CHEER UP. |
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Lilly
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Absolutely! I was best friends with a girl that was extremely overweight, but she was so fun to be around and had such a high self-esteem that the guys would totally flock to her. Great personalities are a wonderful help! If you have a terrible personality (think of all the snotty celebraties that are pretty until you hear them talk), and low self esteem and confidence.. you'll probably seem less attractive.
But beware - high self esteem and great confidence doesn't equate into letting a guy take advantage of you. Take care of yourself, be smart and best wishes! |
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Mandy
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I can't imagine that you could be unattractive. You are only 15 years old, so chill out about never having had a boyfriend. Enjoy this time in your life with friends, and study your *** off. Go to college and then worry about finding a man, as long as it's a distant second to getting your degree. Always remember...If you love you, everything else will work out. Real men love a girl with brains and self confidence, they only want to screw the ones that look like they are out of a rap video. Good luck finding yourself, and then, finding the man of your dreams.... |
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mad dog
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because you think you are |
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landoflookbehind
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U're attractive,pricess.The right guy will find u soon. |
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sweetnuttin00
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Smile everyday. Be yourself, love yourself is the most important thing. Guys like to guess whats underneath the surface you dont have to flaunt it to get it. You dont need alot of makeup to look and feel pretty. I know that people are attracted to my 16 yr because of her smile. |
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Karma Eve
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Unfortunately you're at a stage in your life when looks are very important. But trust me, this is the time when you should be developing your skills for the things you love to do, which by the way will come in handy as you get older. Believe me, when I was in high school I didn't get a b/f until my senior year. The girls who were the pretty girls are now all out of shape and they have not taken care of themselves over the years and me? Everytime someone from high school sees me, they ask do I model or what am I doing with myself to look so good and they can't believe I've had 2 children, because you can't even tell, etc...So what I'm saying is, just work on the inner you and the outer you will come when it's suppose to. |
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Fifteen steps, then a sheer drop
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Don't worry about not having a boyfriend, most people I know didn't go on their first date until college. But if you have a more confidence in yourself and don't say "I'm ugly" all the time, you might get more compliments. |
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Lord of the Geeks
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The way you look at 15 or 16 years old is not always the way you'll look at 25 or 30. Some very attractive adults (models, actresses, singers) were not conventionally attractive as teens. You'll grow into your look over time and guys will notice. I've met women who were of mixed Indian/white heritage and they are definitely striking. See if your friends or family can give you some advice on playing up your best features with makeup or clothing. Sometimes the right hairstyle can make all the difference.
You're still young enough to enjoy life without a steady boyfriend. Relationships at this stage can be more trouble than they're worth, truth be told. If you really want a quality guy to notice you, demonstrate a real passion for something. If a guy is into the same things you like, then you can start out with a good friendship. Showing some confidence in yourself is attractive to guys, and it also helps you get up the courage to ask a boy out yourself.
It'll all work out. Sometimes it takes guys longer to realize what a great girlfriend you would make if they just gave you the opportunity. |
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jezebelring
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first of all, it is not unusual to not have a boyfriend by the age of 16. and it's also not unusual not to be told you're pretty even if you are.
second, if it is true that you are not "attractive" by the today's fickle standards, you can comfort yourself with a variety of truths:
1. the standards of beauty have changed drastically over time. just because your looks aren't currently trendy in the part of the world you live doesn't mean that this will always be so.
2. as a former "pretty girl," i can tell you that it ain't all it's cracked up to be. not only does it attract all kinds of unwanted attention from downright jerks, having youthful beauty mainly teaches you to depend on it for all kinds of things, like favors and affection. as you age, you have to learn to deal with the "loss" of that beauty and learn to grow a personality. for many of those women, this is a tragedy. (which is just sick.)
if you look at Hollywood stars, for an example, you will find all kinds of women who are seen as beautiful that you personally don't find attractive. (and also, if you read about some of their childhoods, you will find that they often believed or were told they were ugly.) the same goes for you.
it's really a matter of taking care of your physical self (getting or staying fit), and developing an affable personality--being the kind of person that people want to be around. moping about your looks is not an attractive trait. (just as it isn't attractive when "pretty" girls focus only on their looks.) what is attractive is caring about the things you can do something about (dressing in a way that makes you feel good, being clean), developing a self that someone YOU find attractive would find interesting (cool hobbies, interests, smarts...)
remember, good looks are temporary and subjective (based on opinion). what if you were drop dead gorgeous and got hit by a car, losing those good looks? what would you do then?
the coolest guys, the most interesting guys, the ones who you actually would want to spend time with--they don't care about whether you fit the current trend of "pretty." look for them. |
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Nobody
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i' have been asking myslef that question everytime i look in the mirror. but i'm sure ur beautiful don't worry i'm sure that U will get a bf. |
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billyZarabbit
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Just be fun to be with, thats attractive. |
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ipetrishki
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Loose weight, guys dig skinny chicks |
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CSI Clapham
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Guys your age aren't mature enough to realise that people don't always look like the the standard stereotype of what a "pretty girl" looks like.
What matters is you and how you feel about yourself. |
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Donkey
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First of all, you are too young too worry about this. School should be more important. Second, I have found that your personality is everything. My sister and I are totally different. Growing up we thought she would be the first to marry, have kids and so on. She is 5'10" blonde hair and perfectly thin. I am 5'5", overweight, muddy brown hair, but I am married with three kids. I have had more boyfriends and dates. She is very pretty and I am plain, but every single guy has told us she is pretty, BUT, I have the personality. You have to feel good about yourself and I do. She thinks she is ugly and fat...but she isn't. GET SOME SELF ESTEEM. YOU CAN DO IT. |
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Holes in the Soles
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The answer is that you are NOT unattractive. While it's easy to assume that the fact that you haven't had a b/f yet is proof that you are not good looking, there are many other explanations for lack of boys' interest.
First, perhaps you're too mature. Guys your age don't get girls with brains or an alternative perspective on life. Wait until you go to college and you'll find more like-minded guys who "get" you.
Another alternative explanation is that you have a "non-traditional" look (don't know if this is true because I haven't seen you). Boys at your age are often driven to find the girl most like the ones they idolize: blond-haired and blue-eyed. For boys like these, it's a matter of having a girlfriend who adds to their "status." If you don't meet this standard, it doesn't mean YOU'RE not attractive, it means their criteria of what's beautiful is far too slim (and based on stereotypes, no less).
I'm sure there are a whole host of other reasons why you don't have a boyfriend--all of them completely unrelated to your looks.
The way to maintain your dignity and esteem is to reject the idea that you are valuable only if someone else will go out with you. You're good enough without a boyfriend.
Finally, beauty is a trait on which our society places too much value. Cultivate your mind rather than your social life or looks and you'll be rewarded with a far more successful life.
Good luck! |
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partykid573
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If you feel you are unattractive, then you are... If you dress to impress and fix your hair and do the works on yourself and you look in that mirror and cannot say "Damn I look good" then you seem to have some self esteem problems. I suffered from self esteem when I was a teen, though I havent lost much weight or done very much different, I can look into the mirror on days and be disgusted and on others say I am so beautiful. You need to find things that you are proud of like accomplishments of your past. Hold them high. If you gain more self esteem, others will see it. If you are one of those people that isnt afraid of what you look like, others will find you more attractive. |
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Whatever
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Beauty is from within, my friend. I'm older than you so I can tell you this. There are people who are born pretty and good looking, but yet they are stuck up as hell. Versus I have seen people who are born average or even below average, yet have the greatest personality of all. Many ppls follow them around. Give it some time and try not to follow the trance of what beauty really is out there. So ..in conclusion ,what your friend said is true. |
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ash
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girl let me give you serious tips first you maybe need to change your hold style if you have enough money go to a spa never put on toooooooooooooooooooo much make up and always be yourself never try to be a wanna be and put on make up that suits u. and if you have some bad qualities work on them. and then everyone would call you pretty and you would get a bf. |
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grisi
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Because you think that. If you think that you are attractive, the others will think the same. I know so many uggly people that are loved more than "top model" people, they are more interesting when they like themselves |
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Yes, a confident woman is an attractive woman. You sound like beautiful girl. There's no hurry to get a boyfriend - I didn't find my first boyfriend until I was 17 or 18 - almost out of highschool. Give it time, I'm sure you will find someone! |
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platinum727playa
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What all people think of you means nothing. I am 18 now I was 16-17 before I even had my first girlfriend, and I have only had two of them, but each one has told me I am one of the hottest guys they have met. There are plenty of people that think you are atleast cute I am sure feeling good about yourself is a state of mind, and it doesn't matter what people think of you it's what you think of yourself. Some of the cuttest girls I have ever known were anorexic because they think they are fat, even though they are one of the thin in the school and people tell them they are hot all the time. If you are happy about the way you look people wil realize it and if you think you are cute and carry yourself that way then there is going to be people who see that and think the same. |
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purple
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its the way you feel about yourself ..its not your looks ..im part cherokee to.its your personality that makes people like you.why do you thaink you are not pretty? |
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BANHAX
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Well, being ugly is a curse, especially for those who are born ugly.
But however, there are handsom men who will want to be with you if you are Filty rich, and do not mind being a "sugar moma".
In othere cases, the only guy who would want to be with you is some one as ugly as you are, or moreuglier than you are. keep in mind that even ugly men wouldn't settle for an ugly girl in less desperate cases.
Being confident is not the answer, because sooner or later reality catches up on you, and you will be stuck with what you see in the mirror, and the reaction on people's faces who look on you. then you would have to bare with the people who tell you that you are pretty while they are smiling behind their teeth, as if they don't know that you are aware that you're ugly.
In conclusion, in oerder to find your self a man, you must offer your self as a sex hungry freak, and look for some one who extremely desperate depending how ugly you are. |
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s_stoll_2000
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When i was younger i would always wonder the same thing, finally i found out that it is not what you look, like but who you are on the inside. Plus i have found out that most guys that go for when with looks, have big egos, think about them selves, and they really don't care. Plus first you have to be able to accept your self before anyone can truely except who you are and who you want to be. |
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