crazyat26
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In recent years, bullies or mean people have been noted as a personality disorder. It is an issue with them coping with the world around them. They get moody and mean when they get stressed or just are bitter at the cards life has delt them and blame other people for it (subconciously).
Mean people who finally identify this issue seek therapy which in most cases they seek the wrong type. They figure they need anger management when they really need individual therapy that can identify their issues and help them learn how to turn it around. Meds are sometimes precribed for this diorder. |
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luvouhellen
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One of my friends asked me why I was so mean and my response to her was: I'm not mean,people make me that way!(by the things they do and say) |
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WindyGale
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Some people do it on purpose. Other people do things without thinking. They may not think what they did or said may be interpreted as mean. |
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MissNurse
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Alot of times people are mean because they're unhappy with things going on in their own personal lives, so they feel they have to take it out on someone. Unfortuanately, it sounds like they've taken it out on you. Don't worry, they do it to me too. |
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samaletta
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a lot of times they r very unhappy with themselves. I know what u mean. I am a very nice / sensitive / compassionate and caring person. It used to hurt my feelings When i would get nasty comments or come across rude people, but i have learned that THEY have the problem NOT me. If it is a certain person that is being evil to u all the time, they probably see what a good person u r and that u r happy with yourself, and they are jealous of this, so they try to bring u down by being the way the r. |
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lady next door
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they are mean coz they feel happy when they see someone in pain. |
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suga_n_spice0090
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Alot of people are mean for simple reasons it could be because they are unhappy, or because they just get a kick out of making other people's day really bad or it could be simply because they dont like you because you are different then them. |
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poshbaby24
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People are mean because they have insecurities and they vent out unfortunately to people who are nice and kind . They want power , they want to be the "big" person, they look for people who are unable to defend themselves, and this is wrong. In my opinion they, they suck. When you come across to some like this, be assertive and tell them how you feel. Don't be scared to defend yourself, internally they are scared, once you fight back, they'll be shocked and they won't mess with you anymore. :O) |
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DejaVu
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On here you mean? I think alot of the people that give mean responses and dumb questions/responses on here are very imature kids. I know what you mean, it annoys me too! |
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Al
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Unfortunately, I think most of those who put such vicious answers think they are being funny. Of the ones that are left, most think they are giving a public service. The rest are just mean spirited. |
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dramaa`girl =)
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dont know ... i get it all the time from 2 girls in my grade and i finally told them off and got someone else and they quit buggin me ... some people get humor out of it i guess |
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the_hot_country_girl
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i think it's b/c they don't like themself so they make fun of others to make themself feel better! |
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J_shizzle
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Many people who have few social skills don't know how to act around other people, and may be mean at times.
Some people are mean because they are imature, and some are just pure evil. |
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SANDY B
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The 10 years I have lived in assisted living I see people change from very good social skills too very mean. Often physical issues, being in pain is a big one, medications, brain cancer, on and on... Sometimes they feel rejected by family and other times they enjoy hurting people to feel superior. Whatever their reasons they need help in some way. Making them accountable for their bad behavior is always an option. I just ask gently," Why are you so mean today?" They will tell you.and thank you for caring usually. Rarely does a person want to accept the fact they are mean to others and they just need a kind reminder they are not being kind to others. Sandy B |
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