
Your Mom
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because they end up taking advantage of you while you pay all of their bills, and then you get bitter. that's why. |
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spongegir86
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because you got to know that person over time and you found out how much of a sucky person they were |
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lala
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Because there is a hormone in the brain that is only present the first 2-4 or so years of the relationship. Check out this article... |
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JJ
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Love is not guaranteed! |
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♥tesha♥
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there is this line in a Shakespeare play that " time flies, love dies," but that is superficial love...something that happens when you first met so its not true..
that when in a certain point of time that you discovered something not so acceptable to your beau, your attraction fizzles out so is your so called love..
so that is not true, because with true love both parties are continuously growing that you would come to a point that you have accepted each other's shortcomings and lapses. of course that doesnt mean you have to be bored with each other. even when you kiss first thing in the morning you don't get disgusted by the smell of your partner's breath. because with true love comes acceptance.
but you know what you're still young and there's more to life so enjoy it.+ |
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SegaGenocide
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I dont believe that you can fall in love with someone you've just. Like you can be really attracted to them or become infatuated with them but not in love. I tend to use the L word sparingly. Over time that infatuation gets old, and either you dump them or you fall in love with them. At least thats how I look at it :) |
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=={ Nasty Smurf }==
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when you first meet its not love its infatuation but its from when that wears off that love can grow , the first part is also discovery time if theres some thing to discover that not going to sit well with ya its going to stick with ya till every thing settels and you get over the infatuation |
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womankindeternal
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You fall in love with a person because of the way you think they are. Then you learn what they are really like and it is up to you to follow through, rejoice in their good qualities, or be overwhelmed by their disappointing qualities and move on. |
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armyinfwife
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The biological reasy is oxytocin. It is a chemical that your brain produces. When you first are attracted to someone (or first fall in love) your body produces a lot of oxytocin. As you are with someone longer it takes more to stimulate your brain to produce the chemical. Kinda like how when your body begins to tolerate a drug or something - it takes more to have the same effect in the future. So - you have to figure out a way to contantly continue to invigerate your brain to produce oxytocin.
That probably isnt the answer you are looking for but - I wrote a paper on it on college and it is pretty interesting |
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PEACHES
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Because the person you meet is not that person at all.It's who they want you think they are.But we all change,after spending time with the same person.No one really lets the other see the real person they are.But if it's true love we learn to adjust to the change.Love is blind at first,time restores our vision somehow. |
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elizamgomez
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when you first get together alot of people feel good about the relationship but once you get down the road alittle people tend to get tired of one another and move on... |
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humanity_done
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Because if you love someone...love should grow into even more love overtime. |
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jack_black_91
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Most of the time things naturally calm down in a relationship but,relationships only get old because one or both people let it. Relationships dont survive by themselves, it takes time, effort,& understanding. |
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bloody darkness
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after a while of being together most people get tired with each other. |
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Whoareyou
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you can. you need to find someone, and really know them before you say anything to them, or even let yourself fall in love. Imade the mistake of rushing and saying i like you to a girl to early. |
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sassy_brat_aa757
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they get over loved |
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preciousmama8374
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Because you really get to know how much of a prick men are |
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barakban
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love is like a box of chocolate you never no what .you no the rest |
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