Why do men have a problem with committment?

Men tend to approach relationships from a mental, not emotional perspective. This is not to say this is a superior approach. But without the emotional connection, men can more easily disconnect from a relationship.

Because they are afraid of what their buddies might say

women have just as much trouble with commitment as men... I don't really think all men have problems with committment, they just are always looking, as are many women...

It's not only men. Plenty of women have this problem too.

Because they don't want just one girl, that want that little extra on the side. Like he may want u for one reason but not for committment because he may have feelings for another girl. Or they are just really stupid.

We don't have problems with committment.
We have problems with LONG TERM committment.

The Problem with commitment is not related to men.
It's a problem with anyone who really believes it is actually a choice & can be controlled.

Actually, men are really better than most women when it comes to the "commitment" thing. Which means what BTW? What does it ACTUALLY mean? When does it ACTUALLY matter? Why does it ACTUALLY prove love?

Women are ready to throw themselves and their lives into any relationship at the drop of a hat for fear of being alone or the stupid "bio clock" myth. They usually lack commitment to self.

Think if when you need a commitment reality slap:

How many women are bringing up kids alone?
Bringing them up with men that are not the father?
How many women how 2 or more kids with the different men?
How many women are on welfare?
How many children?
How many women can support themselves & their children?
How many women can support themselves at all?
How many children are taken by DDS?
How many of them are living with single mothers?
How many women are killed by their husbands? Boyfriends? Exes?
HOW MANY ARE ABUSED?
How many children are killed my their fathers? Moms boyfriend? her exes?
HOW MANY ARE ABUSED?
HOW MANY ARE MOLESTED?
How many girls? How many boys? how many babies?
How many are runaways?
How many are in gangs?
How many kids in gangs are living with their father?
How many even know their father?
How many fathers pay child support?

Now asked those same questions for a man?

How many people do you know that are happily married?
How many people do you know that are divorced?
How many couples you can say in your heart are meant to be?

I could go on but it's too depressing.

The trouble with these questions are REAL & are products of "COMMITMENT". Commitment is an abused practice that people are brainwashed into thinking ACTUALLY means you care about a person or care about commitment.

It's really RESPECT women should be demanding if they feel the must demand at all. Respect is a REAL commitment to any human being. Maybe if RESPECT was the demand, these questions would not be so reflective of this world and the commitment problems.

Commitment is not a pact or planned action or feeling you can demand. Commitment is a feeling you have for someone you respect and love that is so strong that you FEELit with them only and you LOVE them from your heart and soul.

coz men always to tend to take responsibility more than women... and commitment is a huge responsibility for us (i am a male), so unless we are 100% sure about our partner and we are financially ready for it......uhhhh, we will never do it.

because allmen are the same and they all biches

REAL men don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

not all men do, just the insecure ones

They don't all have a problem with committment... If you are having the same problems with different men over and over and over, then it isn't about them... It is about the choices you are making... the men you are choosing... not saying that makes them right... just if the same thing happens to you over and over... then you need to start looking at your choices...

Well, not only men have a problem with it. Some got their hearts broken to many times, others prob. grew up with a dad that treated women like crap, afraid of never sleeping with another person again, afraid of losing half his stuff, afraid of losing his freedom..or maybe he's just a jerk!

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