
ontheroadagainwithoutyou
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"Ya know it's hard out here for a pimp, when he tryin to get the money for the rent..."
Men who sleep with different ladies aren't called pimps.
Pimps are the care-takers of Hos.
And Women who sleep around aren't whores-they are messed up. Prostitution ought to be legal. If a woman is going to sell out her soul through her body, she ought to at least get paid for it.
But to better answer your question-many men are threatened by and afraid of women in this society, so they call them things in hopes of "keeping them in their place." |
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michael m
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they aren't, the male is called a gigilo and a pimp is the guy who sells prostitutes. |
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Andrea B
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age old BS!!! it is a double standard. Guys think their friends are studs for sleeping with many girls, but us on the other hand are just cheap hos...go figure... |
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yehyihung
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we r not called pimps we r called players!! i dont no y but i guess its that we stick u gals and apparently that isnt as bad as being sticked several times by different men. get it? sort of confusing huh? |
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kiezkahse
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In my literature class, the professor posed the serious question "Can men be sluts?" to which I just had to lean forward between the two attractive women sitting in front of me and whisper "I prefer the term 'gigalo,' myself."
It got a laugh.
Anyway, if you're concerned about how words are weighted, then shift the words a bit. Don't call them "pimp" -- call them "Deuce (Bigalo)" or "Bulldog" or "Mister Gannon." Start weighting your retorts. Other thing to keep in mind is that there's an implicit kiss-and-tell involved here -- people have to know who's getting laid to comment on it. Have witty comments of your own. I remember there was one from the British TV show "Red Dwarf" that noted with sex with a particular guy was "like a Japanese meal... small portions that kept coming." |
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gyrferret
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Society and how men have influenced it have. We have been taught to believe that it is ok for a man to have many women, but it is dirty for a woman to have many men... basically, I blame us... sorry... |
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anonymousyahoodude
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It's based on biology. Biologically speaking, we are supposed to reproduce with people who have good genes. Men make millions of sperm cells, so it's advantageous biologically to have sex with many women -- and having sex with a woman with bad genes isn't a big loss because he can make more sperm fast. But a woman only produces one egg a month, and takes 9 months to be pregnant, and raising a child is more demanding on the woman. Therefore, a woman is expected to be choosy about who she has sex with, and only have sex with the best guy (with the best genes.) That doesn't mean it's right or it's politically correct, but it is the biological truth. |
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toast4_3
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no guys get called puss itch when we sleep wit 2 many girls but they only call guys pimps if they can get in bed with the hot girl at the club |
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swt_hmf
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because some men think its ok for them to sleep with alot of women and girls that do it are sleezy |
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Smoove
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That is just how it has been in SOCIETY. Women were admired for their chasity. Men were admired for their experience.
It is not fair. It is an unjust double standard. But that is how it is. |
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Cus some men are afraid. I don't know why they just are. |
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mindroperasta
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becuz we live in a time where men are pigs and the rich get richer I thinks it great if a women gets all the o's she wants men like to get off why shouldn't women this is COMING from a guy's P.O.V |
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kielny06374
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because we intimidate men |
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dsmiling62
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Because it is a man's world. Great question I always wondered that too. |
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The Good Humor Man
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That's just an old double standard. Don't believe everything you hear. Primally, a mans job was to procreate and be a hunter gatherer. To spread his seed around to many women constituted furthering his bloodline. Women on the other hand would do so to find the best traits for their offspring. This gives their offspring a better chance at life. It is still true today but it is now labeled falsely. I believe it is due to a mans need to tame their women and cut off their options. This is brought on by the males own insecurities. |
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mr_pycckui
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I think because the pimps have to do it, that is sleep with different ladies, it is in their nature! But when females sleep around, they do it because of their choice, they do not have the same sex drive as the males do! |
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juby4u1
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Don't know. I usually just call all my girlfriends pimps. guys have always been the whores.LOL LOL LOL |
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phoenixgirl
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men have an inborn thing called a copulatory instinct which means it is wired into their heads to spread their sperm around in order to produce as many offspring as possible (due to the cave men days when alot of babies died and there was no one to help hunt) unfortunately this is still wired into their genes today, and their inborn nature is to spread themselves around. fortunately, women have evolved to a certain point more than men and have figured out it is best to pick good genes. That doesn't mean that a girl can't get her groove on, just respect yourself and love yourself and protect your body..... this aint the cave man days and remember the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world |
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