barry_myster
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I'm a 38 year old Male Married with an 8 year old Daughter.
I never had your problem,BUT,I would always think "in my mind" that my "Friends" would let me hang out with them to give them someone they can make fun of in the group.
well I'm still alive....even to this day, even if they are talking about me SO WHAT! how many of your x so called "friends" will be around 5,10 even 20yrs from now?
Focus on school or a sport, whatever.
Take care of yourself first,even your friends come second.
and don't forget what goes around comes around...one day they will try that with the wrong person and they will recieve the same treatment they are giving you.
in this world SOMEONE is going to be better than you/them,whatever it may be. they might be big shots now. BUT when they get out into the real world,their going to be very small fish in a BIG pond.
I know it's easy for me to just say forget it don't worry.
BUT it's realy true. Love and respect yourself and you will be just fine.
Take care & good luck |
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susenjungle
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I do feel for you. I think it's a real sad situation. The real culprit is the person saying things about you, she is not a genuine Friend and just does these things to get popular. But if she did this to you soon she will do it to someone else and her true colours will be shown. Just bide your time, you are an honest person and you will make new friends while you wait for your old ones to realize that they were duped. You will end up being the most popular for not letting your guard down. Chin up, stand tall, you did nothing wrong, Goodness always prevails in the end trust me :-) |
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Darling32103
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well, at least you know why all of your friends turned their back on you...I still can't really figure it out. To this day, I have no friends nor have I had any for about 3 years now...It sucks, and I'm sorry you have to go through that. |
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I am the Shade . . .
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How about thiz approach all of them and just nicely ask them how are we going to handle thiz?
If itz a fight they want; hang in there.
If itz all wordz (mainly yelling); walk away.
If they talk to about the whole thing (I doubt it) then you can finally see where your friend coming from.
If all that doen't work, then come close to having sex with all of the boyfriendz. Then by them knowing thiz, they will now have problemz with boy toyz while THEY are lusting for you.
I call thiz OPERATION: Got their GOAT.
{it will work} |
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notacomputation
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you'll have to challenge the ring leader to a fight and kick her ***. make sure you have someone to make a movie of the fight and a lot of people are there. |
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calle241031
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That means you DO NOT HAVE REAL FRIENDS ANYMORE, MOVE ON!!!!!!! find better and reliable friends ,no one needs friends like those .Also is obvious that you need to pay more attention to your Education, your spelling needs a lot of help. |
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Mozart-n-Me
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whoa you're in big trouble. it's either cause ur a fag or somethin...or (did she really mean that she was using you?) she is the fag. you only talked about ONE of your friends, try to approach your other friends when they are not near the friend that swore at you. they might pretend to hate you only because that one girl said so. |
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kia
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she was not a friend in the first place if she was taling about you. u will be beter off if you just ignore her and move on with your life. |
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wellbeing
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I am so sorry you are going through this. The best thing I think you can do is talk to your guidance counselor - no, don't nark on them - just ask the guidance counselor if you could arrange a meeting with all of the people that are involved, with the guidance counselor there so you can set things straight. Make sure they all know that you have said/done nothing wrong and that you are sorry if they were hurt by someone else's lies about you. Keep your head up and don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve friends you can count on and you WILL recognize these true friends someday even if it doesn't seem like that now. I've been through something similar, I know. I was devastated as they were my best best friends ever. Now, I don't even miss them and can't even understand why I was friends with them to begin with. |
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letstalk
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oh my god it sounds like she wasn't a friend to being with.tell her to go f**k off.i will be ur friend.u can e-mail if u like. letstalk2424@yahoo.com its letstalk2424 on yahoo im.good luck.i would call that ***** and tell her what i think i will call her 4 u |
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♥Cowgirl♥
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Gal! You have issues! Just forget about it all! Go to church and make some new friends. Then maybe after time you can forgive your school friends and become friends again. |
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kristymaeriley
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well if she was a true friend she wouldnt be doing all that immature crap i would just wait and c if she comes around it mite be hard but itll bother her when she sees that its not bothering u and when she finally talks to u ask her if all that stuff is true and go from there find some new friends im sure u can do that |
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mstelo_lisha
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listen you have to be the bigger person talk to your friends but if they don't to hear it don't stress yourself out you to young for that what you do is stop to all of them and get new friend and see how they act after that because if they were true friends they wouldn't let nothing come between you guys stay up youngin |
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koolness
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If you still can find it in your heart to become friends again with these people then you should try talking to them. Maybe you could ask a parent for help. If it doesn't work then put yourself out there and make new friends. Join more activities to keep your mind off the old friends. Remember to have faith and confidence in yourself. |
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Sassi
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If they all turned against you, they wasnt a friend to begin with, sorry to say but its true, friends dont use friends that way! |
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shroomhead93
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Man tha sucks she is not a friend if she did all that ............... |
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