Meche
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Just talk to her, tell her what bothers you and if she keeps on doing it or gets mad, well that would mean she is not a good friend |
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howlincoyote
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A best friend would not do a thing like that. I am going to assume that you are young, if not then this may not make sense or it might I don't know.
Friendships at a young age, teen years tend to come and go and boyfriends always interfere in those friendships in some way. Girls and boys both get jealous that their friends have a relationship. It isn't until you are older and more mature that this MAY change, but it really doesn't alot.
My best friend ended up talking me into leaving my husband, hmmm guess who she ended up marrying? 30 years old at that time. So the riduculous game playing doesn't always stop once the teen years are over.
The only thing you can do is trust your man and/or your friend. If she is truly your friend tell her to quit it, that it bothers you, and she will. Maybe she doesn't even really realize she is doing it. So speak up before anything. Good Luck |
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HONORARIUS
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Apparently SHE doesn't care about loosing your friendship... A friend like that is no friend at all... |
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dsgc05â„¢
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Ask her if she would like to "share" him |
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DramaGuy
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Laugh at it and tell her she is showing that you have good taste. |
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wafflegurlroxsox
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slap er and tell her back off |
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missgoddessrachel
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Well, if you think about it, she's not being a very good friend to you, so why do you want to keep her friendship? I'd tell her that you know what she's doing & don't appreciate it. |
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jem
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Communication is best if they are unaware it is your Bf then say so, if they do then ask why and maybe you can talk with both of them at the same time. Try to be calm (not easy perhaps) but it will be looked upon in your favour. |
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Dee
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Your best friend is disrespecting you. I'm sorry, but if she can hurt you like this, then she is bound to hurt you no matter what. That is just an awful thing to do to you best friend. You can't trust her. I'm sorry to say, but you are better off without someone like that in your life. |
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*Aquarius*
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talk 2 both of them i was in tha same sutuation always remember boyz come and go friends are 4ever |
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kendo
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Both of them aer not your friend, drop them. |
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jana1025
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Slap the #$%^ out of her. |
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symptomaticloveaddict
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Talk to your best friend and ask her why she is. If your bf is flirting back with her you need to talk to him too. He shouldnt be doing that |
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Marissa
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tell her to stop flirting with him but do it nicely. make sure that you dont get in an argument over it because no boy is worth a torn friednship. |
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risk it all 4 u
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show what u r made of and beat the crap out of her/him
i would pay big bucks to see that!!!!!!!!! |
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the.alkaline_trio
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tell her to stop. what does your boyfriend do? does he encourage it? if so then he's as much of a problem as she is. A log of girls want what some one else has. it's a dependency issue. What i mean is if you weren't dating him she wouldn't be interested but since you are, now he seems like something she wants too. it's just a possibility. but I'd tell her to stop. it's an important lesson in life to say what you feel and stand up for yourself. start doing that now and it'll only get easier. otherwise you'll grow up bending over backwards for everyone else. or you'll sell yourself short for the things you really want |
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fuzzylander67
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SLAP HER AND GET NEW FRIENDS |
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justagrrltoyou
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If you're not honest in your friendship, what is the point of it? You should sit down and talk with your friend and voice your concerns. Let her know that you feel she is flirting with your boyfriend...don't accuse her because you could be misinterpreting her actions...give her the benefit of the doubt. If she says she has been flirting with your boyfriend, ask her why she is doing so and let her know how that makes you feel. Hopefully, you two can come to a comfortable resolve to the situation and become even closer friends by sharing your feelings with one another. |
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weirdnutcase
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she is just using him to get to you...don't worry...
but if your being serious...i don't think she is your freind...simple as that |
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Curious ♥
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ask her to stop or tell ur bf that he shouldnt let her do that if he really likes/loves you then he will tell her that he dont like her doing that |
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pepeclerkin
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First of all, it doesn't sound like she's much of a friend. Friends should respect each other and she's disrespecting you big time! There are a couple of things you can do; If she has a boyfriend, flirt with hers and if she confronts you, you ask her "it's not nice, is it???" Brag/tell/lie to her how trust worthy your boyfriend is and how he'd never cheat. She might get the idea. Unless she likes a challenge. Three; be straight up with her and tell her you're really comfortable with this. And if she keeps it up tell her she may gain a boyfriend but she'll loose a friend.
And don't forget to ask you're boyfriend. See if he's flirting back, enjoying the attention and if he like her. Drop hints or casually bring it up in a conversation and see how he reacts and what he says.It may not be all one-sided. Good luck! |
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lucifferx
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Whip her butt |
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manheimstoned
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Punch her in the face. She'll get over it. |
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Nalysa
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In that case, you need to trust your boyfriend. If you don't, then you need a new boyfriend. And another thing, if she is such a great friend, WHY is she flirting with YOUR boyfriend? |
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cherrycola2891
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If she is a good friend of yours, you shouldn't freak out. Yeah, you should be a little upset, but she's your friend.
If I were you, I would sit down and tell her how you feel. If she is a true friend she would understand. And if she doesn't understand maybe she's not that good of of friend. |
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pms0724
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You really need to have a chat with this "friend". Mine is currently married to my ex-husband. |
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summerskyes3
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If she was truly your friend would she be flirting with your man,, the same goes for the your b/f ?????? |
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