SiSi
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I understand what you are going through, and 260.00 is not enough to take care of children. Contact CSA or go through the court and have his wages verified. If he makes more, you will get paid more. I hope your children get what they are entitled to. Good Luck |
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Martin14th
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Only by using the CSA or it's replacement if you are seeking child care payments.
If there are no children then you have very little chance of finding out, and certainly not legally |
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Anthony
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Ask him. |
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pyledrvr
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You should have come up with a equitable arrangment when you settled the divorce. Just because he might make more money now does that mean you now need more money? |
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dustiiart
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If you are attempting to obtain support payments from him, your lawyer would handle this and disclosure would have to be provided by your ex's lawyer. Otherwise, unless you are on civil terms and are upfront enough to get him to divulge that info...you likely can't discover the actual amount. If he is your ex, I take it you were not privy to his weekly/bi weekly or monthly pay check amounts.
Others will likely suggest some inventive or creative ways, but from my perspective...proper channels is likely the best way to avoid confrontation, alienation (more than may already be present), which could lead to retaliation by making support efforts difficult |
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Bailey
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you have no right to that unless you have a child together and he owes support--then you get a lawyer and the lawyer gets to work on getting that information |
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lolly
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Its none of your business what they earn. If they wanted you to know they would tell you. |
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duck
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you probably can't find out how much he gets paid now. Is it your business?
You likely knew what he got paid when you were married. |
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joshnya68
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If you ask him and he doesn't tell you, then it must be none of your damn business. |
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Pink_viper
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Unless he will give you an honest answer, there is no way to find out. |
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♥Lucky♥
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Unless you sneak a peek at his paycheck, there's no sure way. Why don't you post a question on Yahoo Answers stating his job and city - someone on here might have a good guess as to what he earns. |
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loulou
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I don't think you can, its confidential unless you sneak a peak at his wage slips. |
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michelle_perez_2007
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had the same problem lol call his job and ask them or if it is for child support they can find it out on there own luckley my x job new me and they told me what he was making before and after taxes |
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Emma Chizzett
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I doubt you'll ever get that sort of information without going over the edge of illegallity ! ! ! |
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cameron020202
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If you have children the CSA can find out for you |
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Venusza
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so 260 a month isn't enough is that what you are saying???? go to the CSA you will find you will get a lots less than what you are getting, think you are just being greedy |
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cmg1977
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I hope that you are asking this question for child support reasons. If this is the case, you can contact the friend of the court and speak to the person handling your case. Tell them you want your ex's income verified. If he is making more money than what he is claiming to be making, they will adjust his child support payment accordingly. I hope this helps you. Good luck in getting what you deserve for your children. Best of all, it doesn't cost you anything to do this. And for the people that think that she is being greedy for wanting more child support, you need to get a life. You can't support two children on a measly $260 a month. Don't expect your ex to be honest about his wages. He will lie to avoid paying more. You can also make him carry medical insurance on these kids as well if you don't have any insurance through your job for them. It is stupid for anyone to suggest that you need to get a lawyer for this. LOL. You are having problems with money, that is why this is an issue. Not like you have a few hundred dollars laying around for an attorney that you don't need. Again, don't trust this guy's word. Contact the friend of the court and have them help you. This only takes a few minutes over the phone. You should call them asap. Good luck. |
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Rigo
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Well to find out you need to give more information along with what you are asking. If he is in the military you can find the military pay table on line, you will need his rank and the amount of years he was been in the service.
If he works for the government, federal or state more than likely he is a technician enployee you can find a technician pay table on line for that also. you need his position grade for example GS-6 or WG-7, and the amount of years he has on that position.
If he works on something else you can always call his boss and ask him, you will need to show him legal paper work. if it's just because you want to know it will be harder to find out. good luck. |
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st0l1
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Your Ex? LOL Whocares? Are you a stalker? |
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caroline1409f1
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Why do you want to know - he's your ex and if he doesn't tell you or you don't find an old pay slip you aren't likely to find out... |
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SG Elite
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Oops. It's confidential even to his next of kins. |
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jayne.yarwood@btinternet.com
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Don't think you can. If it's about child maintainance though, I think he has to tell you. |
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london lady
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Darling you cannot possibly find that out unless you nick his mail and open his bank statement. |
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jizzumonkey
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your lucky to be getting anything at all ...
i have 3 sons and my ex pays jack sh*t !! |
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