
mbrcatz
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I think he HAS his lifestyle right now, and you're looking at it. If you're looking at him for a husband, look at what he is RIGHT NOW. "Potential" might never happen!! |
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Lynda M ♥
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Why is he living paycheck to paycheck if he has no rent or car payment? Where is all of his money going? IF he can learn to manage his money, there might be hope. Atleast he is trying. |
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danashelchan
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He sounds like a happy guy. He stays in shape cycling, has a job that pays his limited bills, has good friends, and is still trying out new jobs.
Nowhere in your question does it say that HE wants to change anything. Is it you who wants him to become Mr Suburbanite with the house, kids and wife... uh, you maybe?
Know what I mean, Jellybean? |
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Gerald
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Amy--will you listen---Looser...Better be lovin someone else. The cost of a home is rediculous and $11 won't cut it. Believe me he ows money to somebody.. He has no credit.
Loosers struggle all the time. I make $8 an hour and I am in bad shape. But I have credit.. Own a condo--OK |
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Stephenie
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He could go either way. Yes, definitely there's a chance for him to be very successful financially. But it depends on his level of commitment and hard work. Some people just take longer to get their act together - for all kinds of reasons (addictions, maturity level, upbringing, lack of resources, etc.). From a dating standpoint? I would definitely be talking to him about what his intentions are because for me, his current situation would not be tolerated very long at all! Remember, action speaks louder than words! |
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DebtFree
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he's only 36. not 86... he has time.
if he's a hard worker, willing to work two jobs.... get his debt paid off and save.... there is always hope
life is a struggle, so if your breathing air, you may have struggles.... |
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G Rock
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I think anyone can change at any point in life for better or for worse it happens to all of us nothing is certain!If he loves his family or wants to make a family he will do whatever it takes no matter what situation or how old!Health insurance pays well i think he will be alright! |
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greffy
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Do you know who Ray Kroc is? Back in the 1950's he was selling milkshake mixmasters and earning a so-so living.
There was one drive-in restaurant in California that ordered a whole lot more mixmasters than any other customers of his. He went out to visit the drive-in to see what was happening.
It was owned by the McDonald's brothers. The rest is history after he bought the rights to the restaurant.
He was over 50 years old at that time.
Enough said?
Send Out Cards - make a good living with a great product!
http://www.gregcryns.com/send-out-cards/2.htm |
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J
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The odds are against it. Sounds like he has some career plans and at least a job. What has he been doing the last 15 years? If he follows through with getting his license that will be a positive sign. Selling insurance is no easy job. |
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cootersgirltwo
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guess it won`t be so bad if the one he wants to marry has a job also..no one person should be a provider for another.. unless it`s just for the kids.. |
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