Pixel
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What I'm getting from your message is that she loan you the $40 so yes you still owe her
The concert and gas money was somewhere you wanted to go and probably didn't want to go alone so she went with you, she looked at it as a gift or her helping you by accompanying you
Also who knows if she would have spend this $40 by attending the concert.. she might have bills to pay or something special she wants to buy. |
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terribrooke
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If the 2 of you did not discuss the $40 before the concert and you willing took her to the concert and paid for everything, then yes you do owe her the money! It was never agreed that you paying for everything would take care of the debt you had with her.
Also, if you did not tell her beforehand that she would owe your for the concert, you cannot play that card now, either.
Pay up! |
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Anonymous
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Unless you agreed beforehand that you paying for all of that would replace your payment, then yes you still do owe her $40. |
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jensarcon
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Yes, you do owe her the $40 because it was a loan. It's kind of like if you went to the bank and got a loan and then your business threw a party and invited all the bank employees. You'd still owe the money on the loan. The difference is that this is a friendship and it FEELS really wrong for her to be asking for a measly forty bucks after you did all that for her. If the shoe was on the other foot, you're probably thinking, there's no way in h**l you'd ask for the money and so it seems really greedy and mean to ask for it now. I agree. I don't think I'd expect it back either, but different people have different ideas about money and some people will milk even their friends for everything they're worth. Since you didn't agree beforehand that the concert, etc. took care of the loan, you do still owe it, but you might want to say something when you pay it, like, "You know, if the shoe was on the other foot and you'd just taken me on an outing like I did for you, there's no way I would be asking for this." You might want to reevaluate the friendship, too, and ask what you're getting out of it because it sounds like she's kind of selfish. |
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Charles WE
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Was an agreement reached between you and your friend that the concert and 2 night stay at the resort would forgive your $40.00 debt to her? If not, then you still owe the $40.00 dollars. You can't arbitrarily dismiss your debt if no arrangements were made before hand. You need to pay your friend. |
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arielle
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First of all, if you know you owe her $40.00 dollars, why are u spending money you owe. that's being irresponsible. It's like paying a bill. Don't spend your money when you know you have to pay other people first..... |
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JUSTME
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It depends on what your agreement was. If you borrowed $40.00 and said you would pay here back, then pay her back you must do. Doesn't matter that you paid for other things if there was no agrement to have her pay you back for them. |
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bar_two_123
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Yes you owe her $40. You can't just take someone out on a date and expect the debt to be forgiven. The only way you don't owe her is if you agreed to split the costs of the trip beforehand. |
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The Scorpion
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Yes, you do. |
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Psyberfox
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Fall out boy. Dam Girl you owe her a lot more the $40 for putting here through that crap. |
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Lexi S
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Yeah hunny
i think you do owe her
1. because you didnt take me to the fob concert haha.
and 2. because you "invited" her to come.
When you invite someone
you dont owe them ****.
pay up =] |
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nas
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if she really was your friend she wouldnt ask for it.. unless she really needed it.. if she really does need it, be the bigger man (person i guess) and just give it to her.. a friend in need is a friend indeed |
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Erica
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Explain that to her. If not, pay her the $40. then ask for some of the money for the hotel and concert. |
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Gem
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Your "friend" is being petty and showing her true colors.
You are morally right in that if you borrowed $40, then gifted her a couple hundred bucks, your debt should be forgiven.
But see # 1 again.
She isn't a true friend. Pay her the $40 then forget about her. If you got her anything for Christmas, take it back and use that money to give her the "loan" back.
And next time, pay your loans and then ask your "friends" to split the cost or not go. |
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poptart!â„¢
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hmm...if i were u i would get pissed off!
but yea if she keeps nagging u pay her half |
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Julianne M
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Yes you owe her 40 dollars but she owes you for the gas and hotel |
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Megan
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No, but only if you were under the understanding that your paying for the concert was to cover your debt. Even if it wasn't clear, I'm sure you paid considerably more than $40 though, so you might just explain to her that situation.. |
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