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 How can I make good money whilst studying full time? (i'm not a rent boy)?
I'm struggling to finance going to University, any ideas on how I could make a few quid (no gay references or lottery advice please)...


 What would you do with a million dollars?
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 Does anyone know how much money you can deposit in a bank account before the bank has to notify the government?

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This would apply to an Ontario, Canada bank account....


 How can a 14 year old earn $600 fast?
I need about $600 (no, not for drugs/alchohol/anything else illegal) for a christmas/birthday present. Any suggestoins on how to get this much money?

The birthday is in late January.
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 Any Suggestions on how a 14-yr old can make some extra cash?
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 What did you spend your money on this week?
I spend my money on bills, home videos and a another dress....


 What is the largest amount of money you have ever spent at one time?
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 Can i earn good money from online jobs withouth being scammed?
i need to make 50$ or more just from working from home.please don't refere me to scam sites.been there done than.i dont want to pay money to get hired.working on Neobux bt its not enuf for me....


 How can I make money fast?
I'm 13 I cant get a job and I want make at least $200 more dollars before the end of June and do not recommend illegal ...


 What profit does a man if he gains the whole world, but loses his eternal soul?
What gain is there in all material pleasures if one knows not who they are in reality?
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 How does paying taxes make you feel?
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 Hi, i feel shy to ask this, but i have to.?
Hi, just curious, What if half of what my husband own, like house, money cars, like half of everything he owns, is for his brother too, and then something happens to him like we get divorced or God ...


 Explain why it is unwise to make only the minimum payment on your credit card?
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 How long are old unpaid bills on your credit history?

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most of them are in the beginning of 2000...


 Bankruptcy?
If a person has so many student loans that they must file bankruptcy, will that effect them on how good of a job they can get?...


 How do you people make good money on the internet?
I really need to make some real money on the Internet. But please only list the more simple ways that give you a good pay. No surveys. And if you list Ebay how do you do it....


 I you had 100 million dollars to spend, where would you spend it on?

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Well How fun, JAGGU DON...


 How can i make the most money in the least time?
as in right now. and i don't have an extremely lucrative job right now.
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i can't decide which answer to chose so i am going to put it to vote....


 If you had $100,000.00 in cash and only 4 years to live, what would you do?
You have $100,000.00 in cash, you will be in good health for the four years that you have left, and you have no family obligations such as a spouse or children. What do you do?...


 I absolutely love saving all my money?
Do u?...



Me
Does he have the right to question my friends about money I let them borrow?
My friend (this guy who cares about me) let me borrow money for a car cause mine broke down. It was like $1450 that he let me borrow. This was in December of last year. He told me to pay him whenever I could but not to stress out about it. Well I didn't pay him cause I was low on money so after about 6 months he told me to forget about the money and made it a gift.

Later he found out that I was letting someone else borrow money during the initial 6 months (it wasnt much $, like $50) so he started getting moody with me when I talked about wanting to buy other things in front of him. Long story short, he told me he loved me and that I was using him, taking advantage of him and all these other nasty things. He went on for about a month bout how bad of a person I am.

Does he have any right to ask my friend how much money I let him borrow and get in my business like that? I am paying him back slowly now but I hate him.. he went on for a month bout this and wouldn't shutup.
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Also since I been sending him money, he just sends it back. Its like he doesn't care about the money but cares about me loaning someone money more.
                     
 




Feeling Mutual
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Sure, he can ask. Your friend does not have to answer.


Knowitall
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He didn't want to burden you by making you feel you had to pay him back and by not paying for 6 months and loaning money you went over the line.

he obviously liked your. guys just don't give $1500 to every girl who asks. I would suspect you know this too.

You should do what is right and pay him back...even if your mad at him for loaning you $1500....that bastard!!


doll baby
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it might be the principle of how can you lend people money and buy things when you owed him so much


m_c_m_a_n
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It's all about the principal.

You are both wrong here. He eventually made the loan a gift so it shouldn't matter what else is involved unless you lied to him.

As for you, you do strike me as a user of sorts that should have been more selective with the money you had. You need to grow up a little.

I think you should reach out to him now and apologize for what happened. Hating someone is a waste of energy and I'm sure he will apologize for what he said as well. Finally, take this as a lesson to never borrow from or lend to friends when it comes to money.


TSL
He's your friend, it's not in his place to question your fiances. You should pay him the money back, just as you have been and close the curtain to that friendship, unless you 2 have a serious conversation on your expectation from friends and what you don't expect from friends. If he doesn't correlate then end the friendship.

Good Luck


Ashes
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Technically, no.

Considering he told you to pay him back "whenever", he really had no right to go poking about your financial affairs. And while you REALLY should not have lent your friend money, while you owed him such a large chunk, he was the one who told you not to worry about how soon you paid him back.

Since he has now made a GIFT of that money, it is REALLY none of his business. Because he has returned your payments and he told you to consider the cash a gift, I would stop trying to pay him back, and invest your money elsewhere. I would also explain to him (gently) that you were never trying to "use" him. Just tell him, since he had told you that immediate repayment was not an issue, you had felt that such a small amount was ok to lend out. He had helped you out, so you helped your friend out, in a "pay it forward" kind of way. I would apologize for inadvertently making him feel this way. Explain to him that your spending habits are NOT his concern. And if he still gets on your nerves....cut your losses.


AS
When someone really cares about you, they want you to show you care back too. He made you his first priority, and in turn wanted to be yours. Im not going to say its right or wrong, but when someone lends you that amount of money, you should probably work at paying that person back first. It is for you to deciede what is right. As for sending the money back to you, he is just hurt. If you do want to fix your relationship with him, just tell you understand where hes coming from and you didnt mean to hurt him, if he still likes you hell get over it.


Suntan
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Well, lady, stop being so hatred & childish. Maybe you two better off without each other. Who knows. If you initially borrowed money from him, at least,you must make a good effort to pay for him back at first place for after certain period of time. That is just not fair for him, especially after all he was the one reached out to you when you are in need. You sound like you used him, because if you have any feelings towards him, you should not be all this upset and hatred. You put yourself instead of him, how do you feel? Everybody has the right to ask questions. You think he is immature & asking about your finance from others? He needs move on too.


Manny
Stop trying to pay him the money, he obviously won't take it. And yes he's upset, I would be too. You owed him over 1k and he told you to pay back how much you could when you could. Instead, you are loaning money to other people. It's the principle of the thing, he was giving you leeway thinking you were strapped for cash, obviously you had more than enough.


mplsundin
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I would base my answer on whether this guy had the impression that you were going to use the money you borrowed on a car or not. If he thought he was giving you money for a car in a time of need then he did YOU a personal favor. He saw it as lending you some cash for a car, not to a third person. If the impression he got was that you just needed money because you're a little short, then it's really not his business what you spend it on assuming the majority of it goes to recovering financially.


shellshell
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Sounds like he doesn't care about the money but was trying to use it to get you. Since he didn't get you in a relationship he has to find a way to justify being angry at you. When you lead money you might as well just act like you are just giving it away. That way it's a pleasant surprise if you do get it back and if you don't you already felt you wouldn't in the first place. Just remember it's not the money it's his feelings are hurt from being rejected. It's none of his business what you give your friends and they should tell him the same.


Ask M
he isn't a friend


P A
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If you borrow money from someone, then it is your right to pay it back, but he has no business asking personal questions about you.
Once you started sending him money and he refused it, then your debt is considered paid in full. Obviously he did mean you could have it as a gift or otherwise he would have taken any amount he could have gotten from you to reduce what you owed him......Take him to Judge Mathis & charge him with harrassment, as you have tried to repay debt.....LOL


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