David M
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Voxygen is right. How does he prove he lent you $1,000? The $1,000 could be for services rendered or as you say repayment back to you. I say let him take you to court. Without absolute evidence he has no case against you. |
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voxygen8
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You don't. Your "friend" has to prove that you borrowed $1,000 from him.
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Leonardo D
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Go mafia style and beat his ***! He obviously isnt a very good "friend" |
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kels kels
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i dont think u can unless u have the transaction written down and both parties has agreed to it, that really sucks ur friend is an a**hole |
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Kody K
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just tell him that u will call the cops |
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mike1942f
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Shakespeare said it "Neither a borrower or lender be, you lose both friend and ..."
This "friend" has a scam set up to screw you and unless you have a record of withdrawing the cash to give to him at that time and later record of depositing the check, he has a check made out to you as "proof" that you "borrowed" the money. You might check with your financial institution and see if they can provide copies of withdrawal slips and deposited checks. You are going to have to let him sue and go to court and explain, and probably he is going to make that as inconvenient as possible, doing it far from you and asking for delays for various reasons after you travel to the court, so you have to make several trips. |
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colley411
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Did he possibly write the reason for the check in the memo line? That's pretty much all you can hope for unless you have witnesses. |
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*im da bomb like tic tic*
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wow that's so totally not a true friend do you have any like witnesses other than you and your friend thats the only thing i can think of |
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celebrate
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Just go to court & tell the truth. Most judges are human lie detectors. They will know the truth. So don't worry about it. If you lent him money & he never paid you back you would be in the same situation losing that money. Never lend anyone money. If a bank won't trust them what makes you think you should. Just say "OH, I thought about asking you if I could borrow some money from you" that will shut them up. |
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lydia_the_lost
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well you should be able to tell them about the verbal agreement you had that you would let your "friend" borrow $1000 and how they paid you back in a check.
The judge will probably want to know what they borrowed it for to prove that you actually did give them the money.
Then when they dont have a reason for giving you that $1000 check, they are likely to get caught in that lie that they made up on you.
I wish you luck...and I'm sure you will never ever let anyone borrow money ever again (or at least you will have a written contract this time so they cant lie on you...and have them sign it too). |
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La Loca
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Sorry to hear this. All you need is proof that you gave him cash.
Do you have any record such as: Emails, text messages, voice messages, voicemails, thank you notes? Do you have any messages that show he is "making it up to you" or will "pay you back" or that you are "the best friend ever...or life saver"
Do you have any witnesses to you lending him the money?
Do you have any Character references that will attest to your character versus his?
Do you have a regular income? that might show that there was no need for you to get money from him.
You need something that supports your cash loan.
Good luck!
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Jeremy W
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you cant. you are screwed out of that $1000. |
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