shallowG
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Try calling him... |
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Lisa F
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tell him that you need the money because Christmas is around the corner and you wanna buy him a gift. |
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jack
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I think that you should be able to depend on the word of the people closest to you. Your boyfriend has lied to you and tricked you. I think that you should keep away from people like that. I suggest you put the money down to experience, and break off your relationship with him, and start again with someone who will treat you with honesty love and respect. |
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righteous_dude
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Get Guido or Vinny to break his legs. They'll ask for a small percentage of course... |
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Bill
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Tell him you're really hurting for money and that you understand if he can't give you the whole thing...but you need at least some of it ASAP.
If he's blowing you off, that says volumes about his respect for you.
P.S. Never lend. That's what banks are for. |
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shygrl33
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I loaned my ex money and learned a very valuable lesson. I was very flexible with payments and he still made no effort. I even said I'd take $25 a month and still got nothing. He didn't take me seriously. He had an excuse every time I asked for it back or questioned when he'd make a payment. I figure if he cared he would have made some sort of an effort. It was one excuse after another....I get paid next week, I have overtime on the next check, I get my bonus check, my car payment is due.........don't let him do that!!
Last resort.....
Long story short.....a few months later we broke up (other issues). I ended up taking him to small claims court. Get something in writing!!!! Thank goodness I had stuff in writing. Type something up and make him sign it. State it was a loan and not a gift. State how much he owes, the date you loaned it to him, payment options and how long he has to pay it back. Have the two of you sign it....even get a witness to sign it. Make copies.
Hopefully you have much better luck than my situation. Stress how important it is to get it back a.s.a.p. Don't take no for an answer. ALWAYS get it in writing and DON'T give cash!!! |
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nikki
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really let him nknow u need the money and if you cant get it back it may cause for drastic measures |
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CaLeR
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Ask him again (and again and again). Just ask him at the right time and when his mood is positive so that you might not encounter problems whenever asking him to pay that amount he owes you. |
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yesiamalesbian
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what should you do? dump is sorry a*s. that tells you what kind of person he is. someone who you will never want a long relationship with, he cant/wont pay you....he wouldn't pay anyone else...like a car payment you both may get, or a home loan you both may get. kick him hun. |
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tekkenomics
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deprive him of any and all sexual favors. Men hate that. god knows i do... |
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sporregar
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Tell him you want the money back now or you'll be forced to take him to small claims court.
I hope you have a written contract stating the money was a loan and not a gift. |
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TwilightTwin2
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ok, you need to dump him, but not until after he gives you the money back, otherwise, you'll definitely never see it. unless you dump him and take him to small claims court. Tell him you really need it because you need to pay some bills. If he cared for you at all or "loves" you the way he says he does, he would have already paid you back. Has he told you why he doesn't have the money yet? Don't let him blow you off. Get a straight answer from him as to why he hasn't paid you back yet. I think you need to show your anger about this and not let get away with this crap. |
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Shelly
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Tell him you want it back, and let him know if you can't trust him when you helped him out, then you just can't be with a guy like that. It shows a lot about his character. You could forget the money since you love him. But that really would just tell him its ok to ask you for money. Tell him to give it back or you will dump him and go the legal way. |
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boiledcrabs
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Suggest you may borrow the money from another good looking guy that both of you know until he can afford to pay it back.
Maybe he'll get jealous and cough up the funds. |
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Hayley R
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tell him that you were trusting him to give back that money to you. and by not giving it back, this is showing you that he does not deserve your trust. and without trust, there is no love. |
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Christina★
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Tell him that you NEED the money. It's four hundred dollars, and it's totally cheap and rude if he doesn't pay you back! |
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dbzapowerunknown
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If you love him,.... forget about the 400 dollars |
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