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cute | Hi, i feel shy to ask this, but i have to.? |
Hi, just curious, What if half of what my husband own, like house, money cars, like half of everything he owns, is for his brother too, and then something happens to him like we get divorced or God forbid he dies in an accident or something, what would happen to me???
Actually he's not yet my husband, but we're thinking of marriage, and he's 20 years older than me, and if i marry him my family would disown me, so i'm kind of afraid that something happens to him, and i'll be on the streets then??!!
I don't know if he has a will or anything, i can't talk to him about this, i don't want him to think that i'm after his money because i really love him.
i just know that his brother owns half of his belogings, so does the other half go to me if anything happens?? |
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zcommodore
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If you can't talk to him about money, you really need to rethink the marriage thing. Money/posessions are part of being married.
To answer your question, if he were to die without a will, the state has some kind of legal rules listing who gets what based on a standard formula. I think surviving spouses get a large share of that.
You really need to discuss this with your potential husband, especially if you are facing being disowned from your own family. Does he love you enough to take care of you even if he dies? That is the question. |
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dont marry him...if you dont have family and then something happenes to him...then you will REALLY have nothing |
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brightdarkness
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20 years older?? Gurlll. You are old enuff to be his mother!! |
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carlaccc
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Completely agree with other answerer. If you can't talk to him about it, you shouldn't be with him. There shouldn't be any subject you can't talk to your mate about. Especially money issues because those will tear a marriage apart quicker than any other. |
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JRavey
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You really need to see an attorney, some states have laws that supercede a spouse's will. |
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bitbee26
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Well that all depends on if you are married or not. Actually it depends on if he leaves anything in your name. You will not just be entitled to it, he will have to leave it to you. Such as insurance policies or things, they would have to be left to you. If you are married then I believe that you are entitled to something but it probably wont be all that much unless he names you as beneficiary to something he owns. |
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tiffiek
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If you two can't have a heart to heart about your finances and your future you are already doomed. If he marries you with his assets set up the way they are now, you're in deep trouble. You would have a tenuous claim at best as a spouse, but brother would probably win.
If you marry his will should be changed immediately to include you and any step children. His estate should pass to you in the event of his death with possibly some special consideration for the brother.
I think you have some serious issues with this relationship and I would not even consider a marriage until the finances were worked out, even if it meant a prenuptial agreement. |
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wonderbug
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If you can't talk to him about money now, your marriage is already on the rocks before it happens. You need to know where you stand for security purposes. If he's not willing to talk to you, he's probably hiding something. Rethink your plans.
You could seek a counselor or attorney before hand as well. |
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cosaxteacher
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If you are worried about things like this, don't get married. You aren't ready, and you certainly are not thinking about marriage, you are thinking about money. |
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Is that so...?
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Thats how it would seem it would work, unless you guys sign a prenuptial, in which, in case of divorce, you would own nothing. In case of death, you would get his 1/2, unless his will specifies otherwise. |
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xXMusicLoverxX
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tell him your feelings!!! thats wat id do |
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npemtiv
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If you're already think about what if something happens then you've probably doomed the marriage before it's started. I would cancel any plans of a wedding and seek professional counseling. It's not healthy to be worrying about a divorce before the wedding. It seems like maybe you are simply looking for someone to help you escape a situation that you aren't happy with (like your home life). I would not recommend this. Hope this helps some. |
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sttsero
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Sweat heart you are not thinking of marriage (oho rocks ahead)you need to talk to the one you want to marry and ask him about, God forbid, if something happens to him, what will you be left with. If he rejects talking of this, he is hiding something that may cost problems in the future.
You also need to express your feelings towards him to your family. You need to show them weather they like it or not you will marry him if you please.
P.S.:don't tell your family this before you talk to him and DON'T WORRY |
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suttlem
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if you cant go through this with him then you are in no position to get married.if he left you , you would be in no worse position than you are now or are you just looking for a sugar daddy ?.
get real womam. |
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